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[SimpleeJenn 2]

STOP doing that. Visas CAN and HAVE been denied for that. It is NOT like calling someone "Mommy or Daddy".

There are soecific and important differences in visas for fiancees and spouses. Many people have gotten married and when they find out the soouse visa takes longer to process they decide to misrepresent themselves as engaged. This is fraud and can result in visa denial and a lifetime ban for future visas.

You can call him "honey", "poopsie", "darling", "sweetheart" "snuggle bunny" whatever, but NOT "hubby" or any other term related to marriage.

You cannot "prove" you are NOT married. That is the problem. A CENOMAR only states that there is no record of a marriage in PIs, nothing else.

Lets be realistic. She can call him what ever she wants, REGARDLESS. How people take it in any situation, is on them.

How dare you chastise this person, when she is coming for help. You should be ashamed of yourself.

[iluvmy_hubbybunny 9]

Lets be realistic. She can call him what ever she wants, REGARDLESS. How people take it in any situation, is on them.

How dare you chastise this person, when she is coming for help. You should be ashamed of yourself.

boom yeah boy..!!

[heizel anne 3]

You dig a hole there woman but my advice is stop stressing about it. Wait and prepare for your coming interview and explain truthfully that calling a bf/fiance a hubby is just a "new generational endearment" in our country. You have a big chance of getting away from this hurdle for the ff reasons;

1. The initial interviewers at the Manila Embassy are mostly Filipinos if not all. They know about this "hubby endearment" as a cliche and the term is frequently used in Philippine modern culture.

2. There is a big possibility you will be issued a 221g for more evidence/s given your scenario, but it won't put you in the dead-end. The CO after the interview if raises his/her suspicions then CENOMAR Re-verification will be done given you have initially sent that document during USCIS stage.

3. Contrary to some members here saying you cannot prove that you haven't been married, Manila Consulate sometimes issues Marriage re-verification called CEMAR. ( I went through these 2 process so don't worry it can be done ). NSO will issue a sworn statement/certificate on your status history of marriage. Mine showed 1 MARRIAGE FOUND ON RECORD.

Pray! and quit calling him hubby until the wedding is done Best wishes! (F) (F)

thank you so much..can i request for CEMAR if im not married yet...

[issha2lynden 77]

thank you so much..can i request for CEMAR if im not married yet...

Yes! Wait for the CO to ask for that after your interview. Cheer up! Message me if you have further questions

[TBoneTX 45,329]

Lets be realistic. She can call him what ever she wants, REGARDLESS. How people take it in any situation, is on them.

It's on the OP, because she freely provided USCIS (and, eventually, the embassy) information that they could hang her with. Her petition could be denied, or the visa could be refused. That's the entire point of this thread.

How dare you chastise this person, when she is coming for help. You should be ashamed of yourself.

There's nothing so tragic as the murder of a beautiful theory (sympathy above all) by a gang of brutal facts (what could objectively happen). Edited May 7, 2012 by TBoneTX

[KayDeeCee 4,893]

Lets be realistic. She can call him what ever she wants, REGARDLESS. How people take it in any situation, is on them.

How dare you chastise this person, when she is coming for help. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Yes, she can call him what she likes. Yes, how people take it is on them. However, this thread is talking about how an interviewing consular officer will take it. Not Joe Shmoe on the street. Visas have been denied because the interviewer suspects the couple is already married. Calling each other husband and wife (hubby and wifey) can make the CO think you are already married. It is simple as that.

No one was chastising the OP. They were trying to get the point across to the OP (and anyone else that might read this thread and want to file for a K-1 fiance(e) visa) to be careful of what you call each other before you are actually married, and to be even more careful about what evidence you offer up to the consulate for their examination.

[heizel anne 3]

yeah and actually asking for what i need to do...that's why i look for a help...we want the k1 visa as possible as we can...there's nothing wrong with k3 aside from it will take so much time for us to be together..we really want to be together, we've waited for almost 2 years now cause we made sure that its not just wanting to go america, but me, myself want to make sure to whom i have to give my heart and choose the man whom i want to be with for the rest of my life...cause marriage is not really about i found you and we're together exchanging views and opinion....then lets get married...i need to make sure that of myself with what i really want..until i come up with knowing him more...for me there's a deep meaning of it...and now we decided to file the 129f....we already sent it and now we have to face this endearment issue....which i really didnt know from the very first start that it could be an issue...cause ever since we've exchange our promises and love....i called him that way...a mistake that i cant change...i do want to believe that we still can pass through this and be approved with the K1 visa....thanks to SimpleeJenn...you are a big help to relief what i really feel right now...

[heizel anne 3]

anyway simplejenn what is 221g....and where can i get that....or what form here i cant find it....anyway i already ask for a help in a nso if they can release a certificate of marriage or CEMAR...showing i dont have any record to them that i got married here...

[C-ma'am 684]

Hi!

What Gary and others have said to you is completely correct. We cannot fix whatever mistake has been done... you've been advised to PREPARE.

At the same time, you've also been advised to complete your Timeline here on VJ so we can assist you better.... I'm looking at it now, and the information there is all wrong:

K1 Visa

Service Center : Texas Service Center (This is incorrect)

Consulate : Armenia (aren't you from Philippines???)

I-129F Sent : 2012-05-04 (if this date IS the correct one, it means you JUST have the petition sent out and you haven't received NOA2 yet)

Please take the time to correct this information, as it's crucial to us, to provide better guidance to you.

EDIT: Please stop referring to Hubby or Wifey as a term of endearment. They are short (and slang) to the tittle of husband or wife.

Edited May 7, 2012 by Celeste & C

[heizel anne 3]

how could the texas service center incorrect

[C-ma'am 684]

The 2 service centers that process K1 Visas are: Vermont and California.

If your petition is being processed by Vermont, your case number should start with EAC#

If your petition is being processed by California, your case number should start with WAC#

[heizel anne 3]

i see ive read about your question i know now that vermont service center is the one who process my papers....yeah we've just sent our paperworks last may 5....didnt know what comes next and what to do...but i wish and pray it will be fine and im looking for positive vibes...i really wish

[C-ma'am 684]

i see ive read about your question i know now that vermont service center is the one who process my papers....yeah we've just sent our paperworks last may 5....didnt know what comes next and what to do...but i wish and pray it will be fine and im looking for positive vibes...i really wish

Have you received your NOA 1? If so, please add that date to the timeline too

[heizel anne 3]

Hi!

What Gary and others have said to you is completely correct. We cannot fix whatever mistake has been done... you've been advised to PREPARE.

At the same time, you've also been advised to complete your Timeline here on VJ so we can assist you better.... I'm looking at it now, and the information there is all wrong:

K1 Visa

Service Center : Texas Service Center (This is incorrect)

Consulate : Armenia (aren't you from Philippines???)

I-129F Sent : 2012-05-04 (if this date IS the correct one, it means you JUST have the petition sent out and you haven't received NOA2 yet)

Please take the time to correct this information, as it's crucial to us, to provide better guidance to you.

EDIT: Please stop referring to Hubby or Wifey as a term of endearment. They are short (and slang) to the tittle of husband or wife.

EDIT: Please stop referring to Hubby or Wifey as a term of endearment. They are short (and slang) to the tittle of husband or wife.

im started to practice myself to call him love since they still need a ongoing relationship from the time we sent until k1 is done....but i cant change what ive done...its already sent so...im now waiting in vain....i wish k1 is for us....god knows how much we really want to be with each other....i do hope and believe that everything will be fine it god work on it...

[C-ma'am 684]

EDIT: Please stop referring to Hubby or Wifey as a term of endearment. They are short (and slang) to the tittle of husband or wife.

im started to practice myself to call him love since they still need a ongoing relationship from the time we sent until k1 is done....but i cant change what ive done...its already sent so...im now waiting in vain....i wish k1 is for us....god knows how much we really want to be with each other....i do hope and believe that everything will be fine it god work on it...

Ok you need to breathe!

Yes, there's nothing you can do about it and we all understand that. Yes! By all means, from now on, if you are going to keep calling him "hubby" do it in your privacy... just remember NOT to submit any more information (emails and such). Call him by his name or pick the pet love that suits your feelings: Love, baby, babe, coochi coo, sweets, sweetie, my penguin from Antarctica... whatever you like!

Everyone gave you a heads up of what MIGHT happen and you should take it seriously; however NONE of us, can tell, with certainty, if you will be rejected or not. Calling someone husband/wife/hubby/wifey is not an automatic rejection.. it could be a HUGE problem; but you won't know what happens until you receive an RFE or your NOA2 ...............and you should be prepared to address this situation IF someone at the embassy, at the time of your interview, asks about it. THAT'S IT!

So, at this time, try to relax. There's nothing else you (or anyone else, for that matter) can do but WAIT

Edited May 7, 2012 by Celeste & C