Report her or Not?

[Tahoma 2,292]

BJ...+1

Michael...+1

Gawd that's funny!!!

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

Sorry, I started wondering why you don't hear about such behavior among the Ukranian wives, did a google search and got distracted.

Now that's a well built example, good strong bones, fair to the eye, ample nutritional capacity, etc

But carry on, I don't want to distract you from the job at hand: to cyberflog poor Darren to an inch of his life.

[Hank_ 9,174]

Could well be describing a guernsey cow.

[tmma 467]

(Also, I work for a telecommunications company, you think they would know I could easily have things watched for a couple of days just to check things out. My group support American Idol voting.)

Darren.

I know which company you work for and coincidentally, my Dad just retired from the same company.

He really was was ' DA MAN' and I want you to know that using your job position for monitoring of phone calls and researching people ( for your own reasons and not properly authorized) who are using the network is NOT ALLOWED - and is cause for dismissal. So quit it.

And you almost ' sent Gretchen home' because of one phone call?

Edited May 3, 2012 by tmma

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

using your job position for monitoring of phone calls and researching people ( for your own reasons and not properly authorized) who are using the network is NOT ALLOWED - and is cause for dismissal. So quit it.

And you almost ' sent Gretchen home' because of one phone call?

Isn't it also ILLEGAL?

I think / suspect...Darren was upset because she hid that conversation from him. I wonder why she kept it a secret... I wonder what she and the other man discussed.... I wonder...wonder... A bigger boat?

Edited May 3, 2012 by Crashed~N2~Me

[tmma 467]

Isn't it also ILLEGAL?

.....

YES.

[Dan and Judy 614]

I'm sorry, but I need to ask this. You wanted to send your pregnant wife back to her country because she talked to someone on the phone?

It has not been established that she was pregnant at the time of the phone call.

[Tahoma 2,292]

It has not been established that she was pregnant at the time of the phone call.

However, it has been established that it was an immaculate conception.

[Adriene H 89]

Darren.

I know which company you work for and coincidentally, my Dad just retired from the same company.

He really was was ' DA MAN' and I want you to know that using your job position for monitoring of phone calls and researching people ( for your own reasons and not properly authorized) who are using the network is NOT ALLOWED - and is cause for dismissal. So quit it.

And you almost ' sent Gretchen home' because of one phone call?

As a former telecommunications employee in both hourly and salaried

positions .... any use of company systems for personal use was

grounds for immediate disciplinary action up to and including

termination.

VZ Code of Conduct was brainwashed into me

[Dan and Judy 614]

However, it has been established that it was an immaculate conception.

Did he say that?

[MuDelphi 159]

It has not been established that she was pregnant at the time of the phone call.

They had a pregnancy scare before she was even issued a visa.

[Tahoma 2,292]

Did he say that?

We here at VJ were the first ones to find out about only the second immaculate conception in all of recorded history. Of course, as we all know, the first immaculate conception was when the Virgin Mary miraculously became pregnant with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Also, as we all know, Darren loudly proclaimed Gretchen's virginity to the world right here on VJ, along with his vow to "wait" until they were married. Of course, Gretchen must have given Darren permission to broadcast her sex life to uncounted millions of strangers on the internet because only a complete moron would "out" his fiancée without her express approval. Nevertheless, we had no doubt that Darren's promise to "wait" was as good as gold.

Imagine our surprise and shock when Gretchen became pregnant before she and Darren were married. When that happened, we knew we had witnessed a miracle-- an immaculate conception.

I must say, Darren seems very humble about this event of biblical proportions. I wonder if he included news of this miracle in Gretchen's AOS packet.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

We here at VJ were the first ones to find out about only the second immaculate conception in all of recorded history. Of course, as we all know, the first immaculate conception was when the Virgin Mary miraculously became pregnant with Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ.

Also, as we all know, Darren loudly proclaimed Gretchen's virginity to the world right here on VJ, along with his vow to "wait" until they were married. Of course, Gretchen must have given Darren permission to broadcast her sex life to uncounted millions of strangers on the internet because only a complete moron would "out" his fiancée without her express approval. Nevertheless, we had no doubt that Darren's promise to "wait" was as good as gold.

Imagine our surprise and shock when Gretchen became pregnant before she and Darren were married. When that happened, we knew we had witnessed a miracle-- an immaculate conception.

I must say, Darren seems very humble about this event of biblical proportions. I wonder if he included news of this miracle in Gretchen's AOS packet.

(I'm bettin' on ...moron. )

[DouglasFiel 53]

Darren,,, never one to disappoint....

As far as the OP.... Just send the EMail to the PI Consulate. If they investigate "As they are supposed to" she gets busted...

Either way you tried to influence the outcome with the information you have.

Regards,

dc

[duriantaste 44]

First of all, its nice to see approvals across the board.

I am here to asked feedback from you guys to see if I am doing the right thing by just keeping my mouth shut and witnessing a husband (American) being cheated on unfold.

When I met my husband over the internet, I have this neighbor; let's call her name Maria. Maria has 2 children with her live-in partner (filipino) She felt very envious about my blessing to have a "Kano" that sends me chocolates, gadgets, and couple hundred dollars every month for my allowance (rent, electricity, shopping money). She then started chatting, and joining dating sites hoping to find "Mr. White" and give her exactly what I have been having. She went several facial enhancement treatment spending her live-in partner's money just to look beautiful to these men she is chatting. She then bought a computer unit and nestled it to a friend's house so the live-in partner doesn't know, needless to say., the live-in partner doesn't know everything Maria has been doing just to caught a "Kano" in the ocean.

Now, the story doesn't end here. The live in partner finally found out that Maria is determined to find a kano in the internet. The live-in partner was FURIOUS and went BALLISTIC towards me, because he thought I was the one who encouraged her to do all this. ( I was like, For real? what a lame brain person!) His basis was Maria keeps coming to my apartment and he thought I was a part of Maria's plot to break his family, which I NEVER KNEW Maria was doing all the hardwork to find a Kano. I cut my friendship to this woman because I didn't want to have anything to do with her.

I have been her in the United States when I found out that Maria had finally found a loving "Mr. White" online, and he came to the Philippines and married her. But, the live in partner was pretty "okay" with this. Now I was fuming when I knew that Maria NEVER TOLD THE AMERICAN HUSBAND THAT WHILE SHE WAS GETTING TO KNOW THE HUSBAND (NOW), THAT SHE IS LIVING WITH HER LIVE IN PARTNER. She pretends to have not talked to the father of her children for so many years now.

Now, story still not finished. The american husband of Maria, that though she doesn't live with her live-in partner now, she still constantly visit the live-in partner and sleep together. Until now, Mr. White never knew about the live -in partner at all.

I have this philosophy in life that if you are not part of the solution, you are a part of the problem. I would like to hear your opinions as to what I should do about Maria's unacceptable act towards the American Husband, considering her husband is trying to get to the US with her 2 kids.

Why do you even care? Just make sure you are a good wife to your husband. Let Maria be happy the way she is.

Duh! in english we say mind your own business