Report her or Not?

[iluvmy_hubbybunny 9]

yeah just distance your self from this 3 people.. and focus your self to your family.., karma will come to maria's way .. and let just hope the "kano" find it out soon so he can move on and he can find the girl that will love him as who he is .. and not because of his fat pocket..

[jubalIrah 4]

You omit a few items. Am i correct in that the wife is still in the philippines, waiting for immigration?

You also don't admit to how you found out this information, Unless the wife, maria, tells you first hand, the information is gossip, or 2nd hand.

I think the situation is too far gone for you to act of kindness towards him. The husband, thru his courtship, engagement and marriage has failed to see evidence of her possible cheating. Any input/help? from you would appear to be an act of sabotage to their marriage. Regardless whether she is cheating or not cheating, news of infidelity(fact or fictional) destroys trust. Trust takes forever to build but a second to destroy. If this woman is as you stated, the husband will either recognize in the future and act on it, or decide to live with it.

On your side. its a sad note to hear this farce playing out and it hurts everyone to hear of intentional schemes of scamming for money.

I find many philipino's are competitive with neighbors. My question for you is: Were you also playing 'competitive-neighbor' when you told her initially of all the material things your Kano provided you? Do you feel any remorse for possibly giving her the idea of fishing for Kano?

My wife is still in the philippines. She has to deal daily with competitive neighbors. Many of her neighbors ask. How much do i give her? How much is he worth? She, in her better wisdom, gives no details regarding her allowance and benefits of our marriage.

To answer your question. Unless you know first hand the information. Dont act on it. Secondly, since you dont know the husband. Dont act on it here, even if its first hand.

[rlogan 2,036]

Why are you judging me and acting angry toward me.....you dont know me.

Not judging you. Not angry. Don't know you. In fact I stated I think we are in agreement about quick money, as opposed to long term security.

I did call her for what she is. Please don't confuse that with an opinion about you. That seems to have caused you to miss the point of the post.

Edited April 29, 2012 by rlogan

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

ukrainianwives.com

[cerebus407 16]

Send an email to the Embassy. They do not circle file them as mentioned above. They take these letters seriously. Many of them are baseless, but some are not. It will only take a minute to send an email to the Embassy. They may or may not act on it, but at least you made an effort.

My .2 cents, send an email with the details to the Embassy and then wash your hands of the situation.

[X Factor 1,112]

Ask yourself this question - if your hubby was cheating and scamming you would you want to know? Your answer to that question could be the guide to what you should do.

[sunandmoon 450]

the saddest part ot this is that there are children involved...

[X Factor 1,112]

the saddest part ot this is that there are children involved...

[rlogan 2,036]

the saddest part ot this is that there are children involved...

Oh but it's so cute to see them enrolled in scammer school with Mom, Dad, and the Americano dupe. Just think how they get to play-act when the Americano visits. They memorize lies to each potentially damaging question. They get their candy and clothes, toys, cell phone maybe - as a pay off.

How could that go wrong?

[TnJ 131]

If you know the facts, the choice is obvious. Report her!

Oh but it's so cute to see them enrolled in scammer school with Mom, Dad, and the Americano dupe. Just think how they get to play-act when the Americano visits. They memorize lies to each potentially damaging question. They get their candy and clothes, toys, cell phone maybe - as a pay off.

How could that go wrong?

:thumbs: :thumbs:

[unlockingsky 94]

gather the evidence and give it to the husband.

let the husband decide on the action.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

ukrainianwives.com

ukrainianwives.com = lots and lots of time in the "effects" forum.

Edited April 29, 2012 by Crashed~N2~Me

[actob99 156]

Chismosa!!!! It's the husbands fault for not spending enough time with the person who he married, can't hide that for long when your in a serious relationship... To much Internet time, not enough face time.... NEXT!

[southcalhog 43]

the saddest part ot this is that there are children involved...

[GaryKO 49]

I would just mind my own business. Maria has 2 kids when she meets some guy on the internet, and they fall in love. He comes to the Philippines for 3 weeks and they get married. He goes back to his country and expects her to put her life on hold and wait for a visa. The man is either stupid or just dumb, maybe both. If the woman is sexually active when you meet her, then you need to assume she will continue to be sexually active when you leave, and accept that fact.