any advice for a newbie

[adelitarif 0]

hi there

well im inlove with a moroccan guy , and we are willing to get married next month when i visit him..it will be my first visit ever ..i know its kinda weird..but i tell u if everything goes as i imagine once there , im going to marry him cuz i love him and i want to start my life with him..i know friends married with moroccans and they are happy , they have children..and i want this kind of life..i know he loves me..and i want him to come to the us and live with me..but i heard its not that easy..i ve heard that casablanka is the worst embassy ever//

im so worried, i dont want any denials..

i wish to find help and advices from u guys..

thank u

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

Slow down

[NY_BX 397]

hi there

well im inlove with a moroccan guy , and we are willing to get married next month when i visit him..it will be my first visit ever ..i know its kinda weird..but i tell u if everything goes as i imagine once there , im going to marry him cuz i love him and i want to start my life with him..i know friends married with moroccans and they are happy , they have children..and i want this kind of life..i know he loves me..and i want him to come to the us and live with me..but i heard its not that easy..i ve heard that casablanka is the worst embassy ever//

im so worried, i dont want any denials..

i wish to find help and advices from u guys..

thank u

Well, yes, Casa is one of the hardest embassies and apparently they deny for the littlest reason. One of those reasons: marrying in the first visit. Anyone from Morocco may be able to help you more if you give more details such as:

age difference?

previous marriages?

children?

religious differences?

How many times have you visited? (since this will be your first, How many times do you plan to re-visit and be with your husband?)

Has he ever been petitioned for in the past?

Remember consulars are there to scan for scammers. Morocco is one of the top highest fraudulent countries, that's why they may seem mercyless. Please do a lot of research before you go through with this.

Good luck!

[tany1157 161]

Before making any decisions, read this forum. Have all the information before you take any steps. Getting married on the first visit is already a red flag. Can you tell us more? How and when you met. What is the age difference, any divorce or kids? Which religion are you. Do you regularly send him money? Does he have family/ friends here? Has he been petitioned before? Has he ever had a relationship with a foreignor?

Edited April 23, 2012 by tany1157

[adelitarif 0]

thank u so much for all the answers, we met through yahoo ..and we used to talk a lot ,and then we decided to take it to the next level...seriously ppl here in the us gets married for less like i dk ..but i guess its obvious if i want to marry him for life ..

he is older than me a 8 years gap , i already have a son..im a christian for now but i dk maybe i'll convert some time..u know why i wanna get this quickly cuz i dont have that much money to spend on flights ..im just a simple girl living a simple life and dreaming to fulfill it with my love..isnt that enough??

its the first time i will ever take a plane..and i've been saving to buy the ticket..im being honest with u guys..i cant stand living on my own..i 've been reading stuff here and there ..and i know that its going to be hard...but my situation wouldnt allow me to travel a lot to morocco..

he was never married before ..

so what do u guys think??

plz help me

[tany1157 161]

thank u so much for all the answers, we met through yahoo ..and we used to talk a lot ,and then we decided to take it to the next level...seriously ppl here in the us gets married for less like i dk ..but i guess its obvious if i want to marry him for life ..

he is older than me a 8 years gap , i already have a son..im a christian for now but i dk maybe i'll convert some time..u know why i wanna get this quickly cuz i dont have that much money to spend on flights ..im just a simple girl living a simple life and dreaming to fulfill it with my love..isnt that enough??

its the first time i will ever take a plane..and i've been saving to buy the ticket..im being honest with u guys..i cant stand living on my own..i 've been reading stuff here and there ..and i know that its going to be hard...but my situation wouldnt allow me to travel a lot to morocco..

he was never married before ..

so what do u guys think??

Edited April 23, 2012 by tany1157

[tany1157 161]

thank u so much for all the answers, we met through yahoo ..and we used to talk a lot ,and then we decided to take it to the next level...seriously ppl here in the us gets married for less like i dk ..but i guess its obvious if i want to marry him for life ..

he is older than me a 8 years gap , i already have a son..im a christian for now but i dk maybe i'll convert some time..u know why i wanna get this quickly cuz i dont have that much money to spend on flights ..im just a simple girl living a simple life and dreaming to fulfill it with my love..isnt that enough??

its the first time i will ever take a plane..and i've been saving to buy the ticket..im being honest with u guys..i cant stand living on my own..i 've been reading stuff here and there ..and i know that its going to be hard...but my situation wouldnt allow me to travel a lot to morocco..

he was never married before ..

so what do u guys think??

plz help me

sorry, not sure what happened with my last post... This response is to the bolded...

you are painfully naive about this process....NO, that is not enough, and trust me, rushing to get it over with, will end up costing you much more in the long run. Please, you need to REALLY know what you are getting into. Your man should ENHANCE your life, not the be all, end all. I see immigration disaster in your future. I am willing to help you with any advice you need, but I will not tell you what you WANT to hear, I will tell you the facts. Do what you wish with them.

Edited April 23, 2012 by tany1157

[tany1157 161]

you say you don't have a lot of money, this process is expensive. Are you able to support him while he is here? That will be a requirement. You can also have a co sponsor if you don't make enough money. But keep that in mind. And usually, one visit will not cut it with Casa.

[mounir412 101]

Getting married on the first visit is not good.. tell that to your fiance too.

on the second visit it will be fine . good luck

Slow down

[msheesha 548]

How long have you been communicating with him?

[adelitarif 0]

thank u guys, we've been talking for less than a year

[tany1157 161]

thank u guys, we've been talking for less than a year

we got engaged in less than a year, and it caused problems.

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

Hello & welcome to Visajourney! My only question at the moment is regarding his family. Do you know about them & do they know about you?

[adelitarif 0]

Hello & welcome to Visajourney! My only question at the moment is regarding his family. Do you know about them & do they know about you?

yes he told his mom we met online and they are expecting me to come, but no one knows yet about our marriage intention.

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

Oh I just read what you wrote on your page that y'all met online in January? So met 3 months ago and ready to marry on first trip?