Cheating Husband

[No_one 0]

I would leave him girl... even if he was on a "business trip", he should have told you. Any man that is going to remind you constantly about the money he spends on you is not worth the time. I know some women whose husbands count every penny used out of their pocket and try to make them feel guilty for even the food they buy for the groceries! This man is totally not worth it.

Even worse, he cheats on you and shows no remorse. It has been going on this long and he doesn't seem to care so I would apply for a divorce ASAP and use one of the options listed by Cino. Then start over with your life and find a man who deserves you and treats you as you should be treated!

Thanks for this!

[No_one 0]

I am so sorry this happen to you. It is true not all american man is like that. My wife is filipina and I love her so much. I would NEVER, NEVER, do anything like that to hurt my asawa. You deserve so much better than that man. I truly wish you the best and your friends here in VisaJourney are here to listen to you and help with your decision...

Thomas & Cleofe

So am I.You got that right.Not all people are like that.Thats what i understand about

Loving someone ,when you love someone so much and invested a lot in them you would never do a thing that would hurt her/him and risk the relationship.thanks a lot!Wish you both the best also.

[We Keep Receipts 9,238]

Thats what i dont understand.He has spent too much on our relationship.He has put me through school again with a nursing degree before i got here.thanks for droppin by on my case

Hello, here is my 02.:

I would surmise that he did this to give himself a feeling of owership. I believe there was a thread opened about this a couple weeks ago. He wants to make you feel like he owns you and you are indebted to him. This is not the case EVER. A marriage is 2 people becoming one, my wife came here and I spent a large amount of money of her for the visa and such, but she doesn't owe me anything, she is my wife, not a business transaction. A lot of times people do so much for their significant other so they can hold it over their heads later, this is not what love is about.

The only question you should be asking is what others have stated, do you divorce and stay or divorce and go home? Staying in this marriage has a 0% chance of surviving, the mere fact that he spent a week in your country and didn't even tell you speaks louder than anything we can tell you on here. Everything else he has done is just extra junk. Get out of this marriage yesterday...

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

You really made me laugh.Ill be fine without his alimony.I just want him to be happy also,thanks for taking your time.

Thanks a lot! It makes me feel better just bein here with you guys.

I'm very proud of you and the statement that you made. It's very refreshing to me.

Best of luck to everyone concerned.

[CCDC4ever 1]

We were in the same exact shoe and the story is really the same but the diffence he is just my ex BF and baby daddh he was here just like your story. He was here in the philippines 1 week before he call me and telling me he just got off from the airport and he is on the way home, and just found out after couple of days when a small voice keep on telling me " check his passport and you will found out some thing" that voice keep on wisphering in my ears guess thats what we call intuation then when i saw his passport all my blood rush in to my brain and i felt someone pour cold water on me to make the story short after giving him a second chance he never change and caught him red handed in my own eyes..... But iam still bless coz now iam married with a wonderful man and have a wonderful son.... And i always think that god always save the best for last....leave him alone coz god will bless you with someone wonderful