I have an announcement!

[Mephys 2]

Best of luck to both of you Glad you 2 can finally be together

[Carol&Marc 0]

Here maybe some of you can get your fix! or maybe even morph Gary and Luz into one of these stories!

http://www.soapoperadigest.com/

[babybunny 2]

Such action without reasonable explaination invites speculation. Curious indeed. Several possible scenarios make more sense than impatience.

I fully agree..

Gary leaving VJ forever..but Luz keeps posting?

what happend in 2 simple hours from the last time he posted - the time he called it quits?

I think that approval is FAKE. for someone waiting 177 days did not make a big deal of annoucing his

approval? FISHY. its just as fishy to make a big deal out of Leaving VJ and not applying for the visa.

reminder - he was so anxiously awaiting his NOA2. -but, Luz sayes " Gary got to the end that he chooses to live here and marry me and apply another visa later " FISHY.

what could have happend in 2 hours? dont feed us bull doo doo. his case was pretty much done- according

to your APPROVAL of 177 days? heading to the nvc for a short time - then off to the embassy. now suddenly

he is giving up his lifelyhood? I smell a RAT. what happend in them 2 hours Luz?

But why can't you and Luz stick around here?

Hello Liza..Im still around ..just do some job hunting for Gary..well..Gary got to the end that he chooses to live here and marry me and apply another visa later..We do talk all this and I do make Him swear that this is what He wants not just what I only want..This is His decision and as a wifey(lol,I call myself that already)Im with Him..I told him to have all the options open though.. Gary is emotional sometimes so the polite way of saying bye in VJ..I hope everybody understand my sweetie when He say that is the last post He will make..and still have the open arms for Him pls..

In behalf of my sweetie..Thank you all for the best wishes and concerned!

Gary and I love all VJ friends..

Thanks for your pm

But WHY is Gary is not coming back to post when he is still logging in????????? He even logged in this morning & I have a screen shot to prove it.It seems strange that somebody who loves everyone here would just drop everybody like that. We love him, and we want an explaination for this strange behavior. Why are you talking for him? Why is he so emotional? Why are we forced to continue without Gary? I don't know how we will manage without him.

I agree Voice of reason.

But why can't you and Luz stick around here?

Hello Liza..Im still around ..just do some job hunting for Gary..well..Gary got to the end that he chooses to live here and marry me and apply another visa later..We do talk all this and I do make Him swear that this is what He wants not just what I only want..This is His decision and as a wifey(lol,I call myself that already)Im with Him..I told him to have all the options open though.. Gary is emotional sometimes so the polite way of saying bye in VJ..I hope everybody understand my sweetie when He say that is the last post He will make..and still have the open arms for Him pls..

In behalf of my sweetie..Thank you all for the best wishes and concerned!

Gary and I love all VJ friends..

Thanks for your pm

But WHY is Gary is not coming back to post when he is still logging in????????? He even logged in this morning & I have a screen shot to prove it.It seems strange that somebody who loves everyone here would just drop everybody like that. We love him, and we want an explaination for this strange behavior. Why are you talking for him? Why is he so emotional? Why are we forced to continue without Gary? I don't know how we will manage without him.

Let's respect thrier privacy about their decision. It's really nobody's business if they choose not to share the reason for their abrupt change in plans. While we will miss him, let's not be so dramatic. VJ will survive, and those left behind will manage quite well, long after any of us has moved on.

Jen

If it's none of our business, WHY did he post about it in the 1st place?

Edited October 13, 2006 by babybunny

[one...two...tree 2,762]

and "like a brother?" To you?? you've known him since June at the LATEST...you sure make online relationships fast to be like blood relatives.

I think he was poking fun at another post.

LOL when I read the original one, I was all '#######?' glad I wasn't the only one to catch that

Some people really take things too literal around here. Like, "kiss my azz." Who really takes that as an invitation?

[bowhunter 0]

Gary leaving VJ forever..but Luz keeps posting?

what happend in 2 simple hours from the last time he posted - the time he called it quits?

I think that approval is FAKE. for someone waiting 177 days did not make a big deal of annoucing his

approval? FISHY. its just as fishy to make a big deal out of Leaving VJ and not applying for the visa.

reminder - he was so anxiously awaiting his NOA2. -but, Luz sayes " Gary got to the end that he chooses to live here and marry me and apply another visa later " FISHY.

what could have happend in 2 hours? dont feed us bull doo doo. his case was pretty much done- according

to your APPROVAL of 177 days? heading to the nvc for a short time - then off to the embassy. now suddenly

he is giving up his lifelyhood? I smell a RAT. what happend in them 2 hours Luz?

Well, here are some possible (reasonable) explanations for those of you who need them. And you know who you are . . .

- The grownups decided it would be better for Luz's son if they didn't make this life-changing move at this time in his life

- Gary lost his job . . . in some professions, this can happen very suddenly and frequently

- They had their NOA2, and had come a long way, but they weren't close. CSC approved our app 9/11 and it still has not been sent to NVC. Meaning: NOA2 is maybe only half the journey . . . AARRGGH!

- Gary isn't posting because he doesn't want to answer all the personal quetions from people who like to ask a bunch of personal questions.

- Something medical came up . . . this has a way of putting a fine point on everything real quick.

- It suddenly occurred to everyone that if the objective is to be together, and be happy, why continue to go through these immigration hoops, uproot everyone in Phils, and haul them all to the US? He already has all that in Phils. Of course, living someplace is a lot different than visiting for a few weeks. But, when I am with Evelyn in Phils, I am in paradise, and do not want to come home. Ever.

[Savanphil 3]

Well I might be a little late...but good luck with everything. Please stop in with updates, I'm going to miss you.

God bless you both

[almaty 19]

wow, this thread has gone bad...

[Carol&Marc 0]

wow, this thread has gone bad...

So SO Right, Way to much TIME on some peoples hands! Off to work

Edited October 13, 2006 by Carol&Marc

[almaty 19]

wow, this thread has gone bad...

So SO Right, Way to much TIME on some peoples hands! Off to work

agreed..

[bebop + rocksteady 0]

Jesus people.

Gary and Luz, I wish you the best of luck, regardless of what your reasonings are for the change. I wish you a beautiful life.

I personally thank you for letting us all know you are leaving, if you hadn't, I'd still be searching for your timeline posts all the time.

Cass (bebop the great)

[babybunny 2]

Gary leaving VJ forever..but Luz keeps posting?

what happend in 2 simple hours from the last time he posted - the time he called it quits?

I think that approval is FAKE. for someone waiting 177 days did not make a big deal of annoucing his

approval? FISHY. its just as fishy to make a big deal out of Leaving VJ and not applying for the visa.

reminder - he was so anxiously awaiting his NOA2. -but, Luz sayes " Gary got to the end that he chooses to live here and marry me and apply another visa later " FISHY.

what could have happend in 2 hours? dont feed us bull doo doo. his case was pretty much done- according

to your APPROVAL of 177 days? heading to the nvc for a short time - then off to the embassy. now suddenly

he is giving up his lifelyhood? I smell a RAT. what happend in them 2 hours Luz?

Well, here are some possible (reasonable) explanations for those of you who need them. And you know who you are . . .

- The grownups decided it would be better for Luz's son if they didn't make this life-changing move at this time in his life

- Gary lost his job . . . in some professions, this can happen very suddenly and frequently

- They had their NOA2, and had come a long way, but they weren't close. CSC approved our app 9/11 and it still has not been sent to NVC. Meaning: NOA2 is maybe only half the journey . . . AARRGGH!

- Gary isn't posting because he doesn't want to answer all the personal quetions from people who like to ask a bunch of personal questions.

- Something medical came up . . . this has a way of putting a fine point on everything real quick.

- It suddenly occurred to everyone that if the objective is to be together, and be happy, why continue to go through these immigration hoops, uproot everyone in Phils, and haul them all to the US? He already has all that in Phils. Of course, living someplace is a lot different than visiting for a few weeks. But, when I am with Evelyn in Phils, I am in paradise, and do not want to come home. Ever.

thanks for contributing to the speculation theory.

IF IT WALKS LIKE A DUCK....BARKS LIKE A DUCK..... WIGGLE LIKE A DUCK..

ITS A DUCK... THIS TO ME IS A FISHY -DUCK!

wow, this thread has gone bad...

So SO Right, Way to much TIME on some peoples hands! Off to work

apprently you have too much time on your hands as well

you apprently posted.

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

Ohh Geez people -- Gary is a nice guy, Luz is a nice lady.

Wish them luck and let it be FFS....

[sarah and hicham 3]

Don't worry, Shon was just saying it was fake because she is upset about people telling her that her approval was fake also.

[babybunny 2]

Don't worry, Shon was just saying it was fake because she is upset about people telling her that her approval was fake also.

shut UP! I had my interview and got an approval letter..

Edited October 14, 2006 by babybunny

[GaryC 7]

Don't worry, Shon was just saying it was fake because she is upset about people telling her that her approval was fake also.

shut UP! I had my interview and got an approval letter..

Well Shon, I don't know about yours and I am not going to speculate about it. I can assure you that mine is real though.