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  1. 1. how often do you argue with your partner

    • once a day
      20
    • once a week
      62
    • once a month
      74
    • once a year
      26
    • never argue
      47
    • we argue all the time
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Who are the weirdos who never argue? Identify yourselves so I may mock you.

Oh and I forgot to say.. once a day. Maybe skip a day sometimes but mostly once a day. Almost always minor stuff, quickly forgotten. Interesting thing is, she always gets around to saying sorry way before it even occurs to me that maybe I should.

ME! Hey its not me its him. he just doesn't raise the bar at all when he see's things going badly. He'll change the subject, make a joke, flash a smile (has the cutest dimples).. He'll do ANTHING to avoid a confrontation so we often just talk about it calmly later - he's soo cute... Good strategy....

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Uhmn well me and my guy don't argue, last time was about 2.5 years ago over someone using his pc while in he was out with friends. Well needless to say he came home and was going why the heck are you so pissy we had the heated discussion then I showed him why and after that He put a password on his pc and pretty much got shot of this friend for using his pc without permission and for creating a huge mess for him to correct when he got home. We havn't argued since if something is wrong we will say although I came close twice while visiting him. Felt sick and was numb from prescribed cough medicine causing me to loose my engagement ring he sorta sulked for a few days then was fine when I found it. Needless to say I did that twice second time he was fine about it now I will admit we didn't argue but he accused me of being careless with my belongings I shot back with a well would help if u didn't leave yer puter stuff all over yanno the usual couple things and we look at eachother pull a face and burst out laughing. My temper rarely gets to me and we both are of the frame of mind we hate arguing, as much as he says he would love to see me loose my temper :blink: if anything he has admitted his temper has gotten better as he's got older and that my patience level is endless till I feel sick. I have to admmit he did say he understood the medication had made me dopey as I'd lost my ring for 3 days burnt shep pie and couldn't do much to help housewise. Though it took a week for him to admit that. :bonk: And said sorry for sulking and being moody. :P

~We started chatting online through a chat room in October 2007~

~We decided to have an online a relationship till we felt comfortable enough to meet in January 2008~

~Yay we finally met at chicago airport February 2010~

~Randy asked me to marry him March 2010 (informally with the promise of saving for a ring for my next trip)~

~Stayed with Randy for 3 month Vacation till April 2010 {it was great and I didn't want to come home =0( ~

~October 2010 Went to see randy for a second time for 3 months wohoo (was so sad to leave but it was a great 3 months)~

~25th October 2010 Randy asked me to marry him formally with a twin set ring the day I got there (was the happiest moment of my life)~

~To date saving for a 3rd trip,wedding and birth cert and hopfully applying for a CR-1 visa instead of a K-1 visa as origionally planned~

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ireland
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Serious arguments, maybe a couple times a year. We don't like to fight, and he's pretty easygoing. I can be moody and get annoyed easily, so I try to just shut my trap when I know I'm annoyed for no good reason. But every couple of weeks we'll have a day or two where we're both just a bit sick of each other. We don't really fight, but you can sense the irritation. We'll spend time doing our own things and then we're over it and happy again all of a sudden.

I really cannot imagine being in a relationship where you fight or argue on a regular basis. Neither of us would be able to handle that.

I'm the USC petitioner.

Timeline:

10/06/2005 Met in Ireland while I was on a study abroad

03/15/2010 K-1 NOA1

05/27/2010 K-1 NOA2

09/10/2010 K-1 Interview

09/22/2010 POE

10/01/2010 Wedding

10/27/2010 AOS/EAD/AP NOA1s

12/22/2010 EAD/AP Approved

04/05/2011 AOS Approved - no interview

04/09/2011 Green Card received

01/24/2013 ROC NOA1

06/28/2013 ROC Approved - no interview

07/05/2013 10-year Green Card received

08/19/2014 N-400 NOA

12/06/2014 N-400 Interview

01/09/2014 Naturalization ceremony

My husband is now a US Citizen! Our journey is over!

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We don't fight often but when we do, we don't really fight fair because we fight about major things, I like to have my own space and be left alone for a few hours to cool off and he hates that and keeps trying to talk about it (which makes me even more mad), usually the fight is over and forgotten by the next day and he can be very sweet when *making it up to me*

I think at times it's harder on the *immigrant* when a fight comes up cause we, feel more lonely when that happens.

K1 Timeline
03/08/10 - I-129F packet sent to VSC
07/07/10 - Interview Date - APPROVED!
10/28/10 - POE @ Chicago
11/21/10 - Marriage

AOS, AP, EAD.
01/18/11 - AOS, AP, EAD packet sent
03/07/2011 - Biometrics appointment
03/29/2011 - AOS, AP and EAD approved (After 2.5 months)
04/04/2011 - Green card in hand[/size]

ROC
02/12/2013 - ROC packet sent
02/21/2013 - NOA1 Received
03/09/2013 - Biometrics appointment
06/19/2013 - ROC APPROVED!

N-400 Naturalization

06/20/2014 - N-400 Packet sent

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08/04/2014 - Biometrics

02/19/2015 - Interview

03/26/2015 - Oath Ceremony
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we argue all the time. but as many others who are in a visa process is really stressfull. so after we b*tch at eachother for few minutes we're sorry

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for k1 steps and dates check my timeline
AOS approved took 7 months you can chack my timeline for details

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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She's tried to do things to anger me, as teenagers will do, more so in the first year. Being 30 years older does have some advantages. You know what they're up to, you tell them what they're doing, you keep your cool and you're always right. Being young for her has advantages too, because a dirty old man has patience with a little hottie.

Then there's never "make-up sex" because you just have great sex in the first place.

We've never disagreed about anything that I can recall. Kind of amazing we match so closely on everything. She would not have liked me when I was her age. I was way, way too wild.

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She's tried to do things to anger me, as teenagers will do, more so in the first year. Being 30 years older does have some advantages. You know what they're up to, you tell them what they're doing, you keep your cool and you're always right. Being young for her has advantages too, because a dirty old man has patience with a little hottie.

Then there's never "make-up sex" because you just have great sex in the first place.

We've never disagreed about anything that I can recall. Kind of amazing we match so closely on everything. She would not have liked me when I was her age. I was way, way too wild.

My wife has to close her eyes and imagine I'm some young stud just to get herself in the mood. She also prefers to wear surgical gloves so that my wrinkled old, saggy flesh doesn't ruin the fantasy.

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My wife has to close her eyes and imagine I'm some young stud just to get herself in the mood. She also prefers to wear surgical gloves so that my wrinkled old, saggy flesh doesn't ruin the fantasy.

Hilarious! :rofl:

Mine has to imagine she's doing me when she's doing it with guys her own age...

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Hilarious! :rofl:

Mine has to imagine she's doing me when she's doing it with guys her own age...

Oh my. :lol: You'll have to share with me your secret to ageless youth and studliness, because most of the time she wants to make whoopie, my Thor's Hammer is more like a soggy, old, used-up wash rag.

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Oh my. :lol: You'll have to share with me your secret to ageless youth and studliness, because most of the time she wants to make whoopie, my Thor's Hammer is more like a soggy, old, used-up wash rag.

I seem to have either been cursed or blessed genetically, depending on how you view it. My older brother is the same way. Two to three times a day, no problem. Morning and night is the normal routine. Seven was our record, which we worked furiously on the first few months. That's definitely never going to happen again.

I would think this has something to do with not fighting too.

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I seem to have either been cursed or blessed genetically, depending on how you view it. My older brother is the same way. Two to three times a day, no problem. Morning and night is the normal routine. Seven was our record, which we worked furiously on the first few months. That's definitely never going to happen again.

I would think this has something to do with not fighting too.

Seven times? Wow! It could be your Seratonin levels along with a high protein diet.

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Jamaica
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A lot, but it is getting better because I've learned the power of just shutting up.

12/03/2005: Married

10/13/2006: Interview Approved

10/26/2006: POE: EWR (ARRIVED) [/size]

182 days from filing to Visa in Hand!!![/color]

AOS/EAD

01/22/2007: Sent to The Lockbox.....let the games begin.....again

02/02/2007: NOA1's for both....the waiting game officially begins

02/15/2007: Biometrics appt.

04/11/2007: EAD APPROVED!! YI-HAW

04/21/2007: Received SSN#

05/23/2007: AOS Interview -------> APPROOOOOOVED!!!!!!

05/29/2007: Received Welcome letter

06/04/2007: Green Card in Hand!!!

122 Days from filing AOS to Green Card in Hand!!!

REMOVING CONDITIONS

05/21/2009: Filed to Remove Conditions

6/18/2009: Biometrics Done

09/14/2009: Approved!!!

Citizenship

2/15/2011: Filed N-400

3/28/2011: Biometrics <-- Done

5/09/2011: Naturalization Interview <--- APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/09/2011: Swearing in Ceremony (We're Done)

MY HUSBAND IS NOW A US CITIZEN

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