arguements how often?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Who are the weirdos who never argue? Identify yourselves so I may mock you.

Oh and I forgot to say.. once a day. Maybe skip a day sometimes but mostly once a day. Almost always minor stuff, quickly forgotten. Interesting thing is, she always gets around to saying sorry way before it even occurs to me that maybe I should.

never argue with my bingo. I dread the day it happens.

So you two agree on everything? Yeah right.

[ktun 0]

We snap at each other most days, just really minor stuff like "Why are you in a bad mood?" "I'm NOT in a bad mood." haha, that kind of thing.

Big arguements are rare and if they occur mostly due to frustration and this damned immigration process.

[almaty 19]

i think that there will be disagreements and arguments in the happiest of marriages, especially when people are from 2 different cultures and experiences...

[Babsi 0]

I picked once a week...its kinda hard to nail down...we get along most of the time. I actually think that all the little stupid argument we have help a lot to get to know each other!

[Satisfaction 1]

I don't like a repetition of sterile arguments, which are useless to solve anything. There is no need to sweat the small stuff.

"Sleep on it" is a theory which work greats in practice for me. Having an argumentation is unavoidable at times, but I refrain from starting one.

In my family, we were taught to deal with our grievances and differences behind close doors, and that it was not good behavior to make a scene in public.

My father always taught me : "Think with your head, not with your emotions" (easy to say for him who had been a pilot in the Navy and is a very straight guy ). And also: "Anger is only a sign of weakness" ( ), "Never complain, never explain" was another one! ( )

[KarenCee 3]

Who are the weirdos who never argue? Identify yourselves so I may mock you.

Oh and I forgot to say.. once a day. Maybe skip a day sometimes but mostly once a day. Almost always minor stuff, quickly forgotten. Interesting thing is, she always gets around to saying sorry way before it even occurs to me that maybe I should.

never argue with my bingo. I dread the day it happens.

Yeah, its that way with Joel and me. We never argue (listens for the mocking) and I've heard that arguing is healthy. But what if you just both get along so well that you never disagree? I mean, isn't it possible to have a healthy loving relationship WITHOUT arguing?

I guess that means I'm weird...right AS?

Edited March 1, 2006 by KarenCee

[Cristy 4]

We have a big one about once a month but it does not last long. We do bicker quite often but usually end up laughing about it.

The arguments are usually because he thinks he is always right which is clearly impossible when I am always right!! lol

[irishgirl73 0]

I picked once a week.................................I think a good arguement is healty. We bit*h at eachother at times, I wouldn't say it is arguing, maybe just letting out agression.

If we were together, we would be getting our agression out in much more pleasurable ways that is the best part about little disagreements!

We have a big one about once a month but it does not last long. We do bicker quite often but usually end up laughing about it.

The arguments are usually because he thinks he is always right which is clearly impossible when I am always right!! lol

I am always right too! You'd think they would realize that by now

[Kassie 0]

Big arguements are rare and if they occur mostly due to frustration and this damned immigration process.

Our arguments aren't rare, atleast nowadays. So, I voted once a week. It is the immigration process that is the cause of most of it. Plus not seeing each other for 13 months has taken a huge toll on our relationship. When we're together though, we have the occasional argument over stupid things like a few of you said. That, I would say, is once or twice a month.

[irishgirl73 0]

Big arguements are rare and if they occur mostly due to frustration and this damned immigration process.

Our arguments aren't rare, atleast nowadays. So, I voted once a week. It is the immigration process that is the cause of most of it. Plus not seeing each other for 13 months has taken a huge toll on our relationship. When we're together though, we have the occasional argument over stupid things like a few of you said. That, I would say, is once or twice a month.

I totally agree-this process causes A LOT of stress, it is also hard to communicate thru text messages and even when speaking things can be taken the wrong way. If I had a dollar for everytime I have said "I didn't mean it like that"

Can't wait til we are together-then we can argue over silly things like where to go for dinner or which movie to go & see. I think that we were born to wreck eachothers heads

Edited March 1, 2006 by irishgirl73

[Kassie 0]

I totally agree-this process causes A LOT of stress, it is also hard to communicate thru text messages and even when speaking things can be taken the wrong way. If I had a dollar for everytime I have said "I didn't mean it like that"

I know exactly what you mean! Hmm, I'd be a very rich woman, I tell ya! Soon though...soon....then we can have those pointless arguments and even the best part...making up afterward

[irishgirl73 0]

I totally agree-this process causes A LOT of stress, it is also hard to communicate thru text messages and even when speaking things can be taken the wrong way. If I had a dollar for everytime I have said "I didn't mean it like that"

I know exactly what you mean! Hmm, I'd be a very rich woman, I tell ya! Soon though...soon....then we can have those pointless arguments and even the best part...making up afterward

Can't wait for the "making up", we have had some big arguements over the past year-the distance is a bit*h!!!! We have seen eahother for a few days at a time but I can't wait for us to really be together. Then we'll fight about how much we get on eachother's nerves

So many things get confused & don't even get me started on the time difference-he just sent me a text "goodnight luv"..........goodnight? I am getting ready to go to my second job.......it's crazy

[Crazy_Brit 0]

We never argue if I am upset about anything he just gives me a hug and trys to make it better. I am so lucky

Crazy Brit

[IAMSADIA 0]

wow crazy brit ,a hug whenever your upset,,I could live with THAT hehe.

honestly it's probably twice a week here.

gets a little sarcastic at times,a little dumb at other times and pretty

earthshaking atleast once a month,,something like a trainwreck!

then usually when making up,,it's the I am sorry it's my fault..no no it's MY FAULT..

no no reaaaaaaaaally it's my fault! oh your so cute..no your SO cute.. I'm not cute u are..

hahahaha..

a few days after we saw brokeback mountain on the big screen,,we got into a fight and I

suddenly cried.. "I just ,,I just wish I could QUIT U! ofcource anyone that has seen that movie knows

that is a fight scene between the two of them brokeback guys,and as soon as I said that line

to him he bursted out laughing! we both had to laugh! then he did his little spin on it and added HEY thats not apropriate! haha one of the words I had to teach him was apropriate,he came form work one day asking what it meant so now he thinks this is this big incredible powerful word and we joke about THAT all the time to....

now when one of us is looking even down or tired or depressed one of us sais the I wish I could just quit u joke and it's gotten to be one of them things between us that seem stupid but makes us laugh.

I think anyone that don't fight,,is a pure miricle,,don't know how anyone can keep all that in

cause I know for me we have faced many cultural differences that we both never even

dreamed we would. fights are normal ..it's the out of control ones I dont like,I think though after 18 months time together we are learning it dont have to get THAT big in fights.

peace out..

Sadia

[rejane 1]

We argue once every 3 months....