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hniHnitsuJ   8

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Wow.. Dai Ca.. she is adorable. How old is your princess???

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JimVaPhuong
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Vietnam is not the USA. Vietnamese are as affectionate as anyone else, but definitely not in public. East Asian people are very conservative about public displays of affection. In terms of how much it

Dai.
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Do you guys believe in polygamy or something? I can't be in a relationship like that. Marriage is one man and one woman.

VanessaTony
VanessaTony

Ignore a cheater just because she's about to leave her country? If she cheats now she will cheat here. Just because he isn't there isn't an excuse for cheating, it shows a weak personality that him no

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Gary and Alla   3,694

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I am sure if this thread was in the RUB forum there would be considerable input from people of other forums. Strange.

I shall allow those with more knowledge of the culture to comment.

If my wife cheated on me today I would file for divorce tomorrow.

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If you are even suspicious that your gf/wife is cheating on you, then you need to drop her immediately. Girls in Vietnam are so typically loyal to their foreign bf/husbands that they would never do anything to make you suspect them of infidelity. I would not apply western standards of women to vietnamese women. There are so many women who will never give you a single red flag, so why settle for one that gives you 10.

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If you are even suspicious that your gf/wife is cheating on you, then you need to drop her immediately. Girls in Vietnam are so typically loyal to their foreign bf/husbands that they would never do anything to make you suspect them of infidelity. I would not apply western standards of women to vietnamese women. There are so many women who will never give you a single red flag, so why settle for one that gives you 10.

that's a myth and patently false. don't believe it.

K-1, CRBA, AOS, GC

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that's a myth and patently false. don't believe it.

:thumbs: Confirmed... I know of many who have cheated on and or left the USC... not mine..:whistle:

"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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:thumbs: Confirmed... I know of many who have cheated on and or left the USC... not mine..:whistle:

Same with mine. She clings to me like velcro. If it all turns out to be a sham someday then it will have been a performance worthy of an Oscar! :blush:

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I am sure if this thread was in the RUB forum there would be considerable input from people of other forums. Strange.

I shall allow those with more knowledge of the culture to comment.

If my wife cheated on me today I would file for divorce tomorrow.

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tan&tuyet   15

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My wife is over here now we have worked things out and everything is ok now. She has stopped talking to her "friend". I been checking on who she calls now since the cellphones are under my name. I just want to just let the past be the past. I know people might think I am stupid for giving her a second chance but she has been a great wife ever since she came here a month ago.

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My wife is over here now we have worked things out and everything is ok now. She has stopped talking to her "friend". I been checking on who she calls now since the cellphones are under my name. I just want to just let the past be the past. I know people might think I am stupid for giving her a second chance but she has been a great wife ever since she came here a month ago.

You're a bigger man than I am! I sincerely hope it will work out for you and you won't regret your decision.

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My wife is over here now we have worked things out and everything is ok now. She has stopped talking to her "friend". I been checking on who she calls now since the cellphones are under my name. I just want to just let the past be the past. I know people might think I am stupid for giving her a second chance but she has been a great wife ever since she came here a month ago.

Best of luck brother... You have a good heart and she is really lucky for that...:thumbs:

"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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tan&tuyet   15

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I wanted to thank everyone on here for their support and advice. I know I made a decision and I am sticking by it. Some might say it is stupid to take her back but I know this was the right thing to do. She hasn't gain all my trust back but she is starting over and it is going to take some time.

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ScottThuy   140

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Topic closed at OP's request.

"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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