To be or not to bed

[duriantaste 44]

Let me clarify few things....

Was I rude on this topic? I bet I was. People should be disciplined with rudeness and not kindness. I am not talking about physical rudeness. I don't really find fun in that.

Do you know how many products are sold to encourage people to stop smoking? I bet you that most of those products don't. I tell you why stuffs like that don't work. Some people need to feel the shame within them in order for them to change something that they would not change otherwise. I took smokers as an example because that is the most common habit that people can't quick. Even thought those people know how ridiculous and dirty that stuff is. Note, I can' talk about health issues because my field is not medicine.

That bring me to another example of where this can applies:

Kids these days are getting destroyed by their parents. When they do something wrong, you know what the parents do to them? This week you can not use the IPOD, the PC, or xbox,... and so on. Do you think that kid will get any benefit out of that punishment? He/she already knows what to expect if in case, h/shee does something wrong in the future.

Take a look at this PR/video.. I'll come back to hear your comments. (Smokers I am not done with you yet. You still have some hygiene issue but you don't admit it because you mind is too weak to stop)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2121600/I-thief-I-took-money-family-member-Father-forces-stealing-son-12-carry-shaming-sign-street-corner.html

I am leaving singing: How deep is your love (the biggie I think)

[sunandmoon 450]

Let me clarify few things....

Was I rude on this topic? I bet I was. People should be disciplined with rudeness and not kindness. I am not talking about physical rudeness. I don't really find fun in that.

Do you know how many products are sold to encourage people to stop smoking? I bet you that most of those products don't. I tell you why stuffs like that don't work. Some people need to feel the shame within them in order for them to change something that they would not change otherwise. I took smokers as an example because that is the most common habit that people can't quick. Even thought those people know how ridiculous and dirty that stuff is. Note, I can' talk about health issues because my field is not medicine.

That bring me to another example of where this can applies:

Kids these days are getting destroyed by their parents. When they do something wrong, you know what the parents do to them? This week you can not use the IPOD, the PC, or xbox,... and so on. Do you think that kid will get any benefit out of that punishment? He/she already knows what to expect if in case, h/shee does something wrong in the future.

Take a look at this PR/video.. I'll come back to hear your comments. (Smokers I am not done with you yet. You still have some hygiene issue but you don't admit it because you mind is too weak to stop)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2121600/I-thief-I-took-money-family-member-Father-forces-stealing-son-12-carry-shaming-sign-street-corner.html

I am leaving singing: How deep is your love (the biggie I think)

hmm. would you say they are in denial? kind of like when people come back to VJ under new ID, but people remember their past posting history?

[mounir412 101]

i have never smoked my wife either

[spookyturtle 9,466]

Smoking is bad.

[Wally G! 58]

Let me clarify few things....

Was I rude on this topic? I bet I was. People should be disciplined with rudeness and not kindness. I am not talking about physical rudeness. I don't really find fun in that.

Disciplined...??? I never knew you had so many child in the world.. Who are you to disciplined other that are not your children. Once you reach the age of Adulthood in the USA 18 yrs and 21 years to do what the hell you want within the law. last I check I was way old enough to be an adult. Your discipline is now opinion and your own thoughts. Sorry you could not fix the so call weak minded people such as myself :crying: :crying:

Like others pointed out who are you to judge!! I am so glad and honor to meet GOD himself.. I will quit my dirty, stinking habit today. oh forgive me GOD (duriantaste). NOT!!

Why are you so into smokers? You need an organ donor?? I can only speak for me and what I do.. I know if and when I am around people, friends or family. I know if they do not want smoking around them.. You know what I do... I take my habit down the road away from them. Upon returning they still love and respect me.. You know why because I respected their wishes. Did they judge? No! Are they concerned? Yes!! But they understand that I made the choose and have to live with that choose. You don't (duriantaste)!!

Denial is not my thing. If I am wrong. I will admit to it. I know I smoke and ADMIT openly. Quitting is my choose. Not because you want me to, but because I want to. Daddy!! I wonder if you knew me for 20 yrs. We have a great friendship or business together. Then one day you found out or saw me smoking. I guess the friendship or business would come to a crashing end. All is Lost All is Lost. Your a smoker Oh NO!! Call the smoking police. Arrest this dirty filthy nasty stinky smoker. Give him 25 yrs to life. Ahhh one less smoker!!! Cough Cough as the exhaust from the bus taking me away chokes up your lungs!!

Oh yea a say hello to your crackhead, meth, cocaine, heroin, mushroom and pot smoking friends. According to you smokers are the only people you judge!!! Parties at your house must be really interesting, drug addicts inside Yeaa!!. Oh no smokers not allowed..

Do you know how many products are sold to encourage people to stop smoking? I bet you that most of those products don't. I tell you why stuffs like that don't work. Some people need to feel the shame within them in order for them to change something that they would not change otherwise. I took smokers as an example because that is the most common habit that people can't quick. Even thought those people know how ridiculous and dirty that stuff is. Note, I can' talk about health issues because my field is not medicine.

Thank you doctor Phil. Oh wait your not a real doctor. Wait wait wait wait!!! This is Visa Journey right or is it Smokers Journey? I think you got confused with which forum you were on. Here let me help direct you to QUIT SMOKING FORUM.

That bring me to another example of where this can applies:

Kids these days are getting destroyed by their parents. When they do something wrong, you know what the parents do to them? This week you can not use the IPOD, the PC, or xbox,... and so on. Do you think that kid will get any benefit out of that punishment? He/she already knows what to expect if in case, h/shee does something wrong in the future.

Take a look at this PR/video.. I'll come back to hear your comments.

Again your opinion and projection on how things should be.. Parent raise there kids in different or similar ways. Discipline is applied in different ways. Depending culture, up bringing, environment and religion. You have people who disagree with spank and kid, slapping or any physical contact. You will have people who will say sometimes a slap, or spanking is needed.

(Smokers I am not done with you yet. You still have some hygiene issue but you don't admit it because you mind is too weak to stop)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2121600/I-thief-I-took-money-family-member-Father-forces-stealing-son-12-carry-shaming-sign-street-corner.html

I am leaving singing: How deep is your love (the biggie I think)

Here is a video on discipline. What would you do?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kn18H3FKDV4

Bring it own. Wait I am too weak and I stink!! Cough Cough!!!

Sorry all mighty GOD (duriantaste)

And I leave sing: Cry me a river (Ella Fitzgerald)

Too all others I do not promote nor encourage anybody to smoke. It is a habit that is destructive and cause harm to yourself and others.

I do take care of myself (Hygiene). So if you are next to me you won't know I smoke. Nor will I smoke around any person that does not want it around them. I believe what GOD (duriantaste) is trying to say is smoking will cause poor health internally and eventually externally in time due to the effects of smoking. GOD (duriantaste) believes by shaming and insulting a person not of his standards of living or " Societies " standard of living. Is " Not Normal, Weak and STINKY WITH BAD HYGIENE.

Also crackhead, meth addicts, cocaine sniffers, heroin addicts, mushroom heads, pot smokers, sexually transmitted diseases, robbers, liars, cheaters are all stink and filthy.

[spookyturtle 9,466]

selfsteam

That is like someone hiding dirt under neath the bed. Please don't invite me to your house (-Ha-ha-ha)

Anyone who can't stop lack self-steam, will power, or back the the same subject (lack of hygiene not respecting his/her body?)

LOL

Does selfsteam burn? Is it like cutting only you steam yourself instead?

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Let me clarify few things....

Was I rude on this topic? I bet I was. People should be disciplined with rudeness and not kindness. I am not talking about physical rudeness. I don't really find fun in that.

I'm an azzhole and I'll gladly admit it and quite frankly, I don't care what other people think.

[duriantaste 44]

Hi guys,

I saw so many responses to my question. Hard to answer each one of you. I don't have enough time, if not, I would. Seriously. (That goes to the weak minder filthy smoke inhaler aka smoker) (a little yuck feels good at this moment)

This is how I see:

If you want to be a good baseball player, you will spend at much time as possible in a batting cage or pitching etc.

If you want to be a grand master in chess, you will play chess as much as possible (Most of us like it include me but I am not good at it. I just like very much it)

If we marry is because we love our wives (having a wife is like a gift. All the happiness comes together. Nothing gets on the way) except smokers they a second wife -- the filthy things they love )

If your wife smokes and you tell her to stop smoking or you will not kiss her but she continues (I really need to question the love between you two)

If your husband smokes and you tell him to stop smoking or you will not kiss him but she continues (I really need to question the love between you two)

What is the purpose of smoking?

Some will say to look cool. (ok)

some will say it is a habit they cannot let go ( very weak mind. shame)

some say..oh well..it does not smell bad (what??? you have no nose) to that i like my funny laugh (ha-ha-ha) hygiene issue mr/mrs.

To make you feel relax? eh? you know there is sports, chess, gardening, ...and so on

To make you feel happy? C'om the family your spouse, family, or friends is not enough? (Should we call this psychology issue.. I have no idea what to call this nonse)

Stay off from that filthy things...it blinds your nose, heart, mind, and soul.

So funny when I see smokers..they can't beat the habit. Such a shame ..how bad is that addiction

[sunandmoon 450]

still waiting for an answer...

[duriantaste 44]

Disciplined...??? I never knew you had so many child in the world.. Who are you to disciplined other that are not your children. Once you reach the age of Adulthood in the USA 18 yrs and 21 years to do what the hell you want within the law. last I check I was way old enough to be an adult. Your discipline is now opinion and your own thoughts. Sorry you could not fix the so call weak minded people such as myself :crying: :crying:

Like others pointed out who are you to judge!! I am so glad and honor to meet GOD himself.. I will quit my dirty, stinking habit today. oh forgive me GOD (duriantaste). NOT!!

Why are you so into smokers? You need an organ donor?? I can only speak for me and what I do.. I know if and when I am around people, friends or family. I know if they do not want smoking around them.. You know what I do... I take my habit down the road away from them. Upon returning they still love and respect me.. You know why because I respected their wishes. Did they judge? No! Are they concerned? Yes!! But they understand that I made the choose and have to live with that choose. You don't (duriantaste)!!

Denial is not my thing. If I am wrong. I will admit to it. I know I smoke and ADMIT openly. Quitting is my choose. Not because you want me to, but because I want to. Daddy!! I wonder if you knew me for 20 yrs. We have a great friendship or business together. Then one day you found out or saw me smoking. I guess the friendship or business would come to a crashing end. All is Lost All is Lost. Your a smoker Oh NO!! Call the smoking police. Arrest this dirty filthy nasty stinky smoker. Give him 25 yrs to life. Ahhh one less smoker!!! Cough Cough as the exhaust from the bus taking me away chokes up your lungs!!

Oh yea a say hello to your crackhead, meth, cocaine, heroin, mushroom and pot smoking friends. According to you smokers are the only people you judge!!! Parties at your house must be really interesting, drug addicts inside Yeaa!!. Oh no smokers not allowed..

Thank you doctor Phil. Oh wait your not a real doctor. Wait wait wait wait!!! This is Visa Journey right or is it Smokers Journey? I think you got confused with which forum you were on. Here let me help direct you to QUIT SMOKING FORUM.

Again your opinion and projection on how things should be.. Parent raise there kids in different or similar ways. Discipline is applied in different ways. Depending culture, up bringing, environment and religion. You have people who disagree with spank and kid, slapping or any physical contact. You will have people who will say sometimes a slap, or spanking is needed.

Here is a video on discipline. What would you do?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kn18H3FKDV4

Bring it own. Wait I am too weak and I stink!! Cough Cough!!!

Sorry all mighty GOD (duriantaste)

And I leave sing: Cry me a river (Ella Fitzgerald)

Too all others I do not promote nor encourage anybody to smoke. It is a habit that is destructive and cause harm to yourself and others.

I do take care of myself (Hygiene). So if you are next to me you won't know I smoke. Nor will I smoke around any person that does not want it around them. I believe what GOD (duriantaste) is trying to say is smoking will cause poor health internally and eventually externally in time due to the effects of smoking. GOD (duriantaste) believes by shaming and insulting a person not of his standards of living or " Societies " standard of living. Is " Not Normal, Weak and STINKY WITH BAD HYGIENE.

Also crackhead, meth addicts, cocaine sniffers, heroin addicts, mushroom heads, pot smokers, sexually transmitted diseases, robbers, liars, cheaters are all stink and filthy.

I can sense you are a smoker. You prove my case. They will do anything to prove that smoking is not such a filthy habit. It is and it is a form of disrespect to your family. I kind of feel that some members of your family (maybe) ask you stop to stop to stop (like a FSM (finite state machine). But the love and respect you feel for them is not enough to make you quit. I am right about that?

Sarcastic laugh for you smokers

[Nagishkaw 510]

Do you know how many products are sold to encourage people to stop smoking?

No. How many?

[Darnell 8,479]

Hey JR - are you having an issue with a smoker inside your house recently ?

What's up ?

[duriantaste 44]

I wonder why none of the smokers has told me the benefit of smoking.

Just curious. It is not a big question to ask.

What will be better a kiss from your wife or smoking a cigarette? Seriously.

For a kiss from my wife, the answer is endless of what I am capable to do. But then again, that is what true love is all about. OVERPOWER anything

If I were a smoker and my little nice, a cousin, my pop, wife, etc asks me once to stop? Gladly I would, why? because the respect and love I feel for them, it is something that can't be described. (Take 2)

Edited April 6, 2012 by duriantaste

[sunandmoon 450]

Still avoiding...

[sunandmoon 450]

so, what brought you back to VJ?