evidence of ongoing relationship-

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Okay, I think I am putting myself out there by asking this question, but I am sorting everything out to send for my petition of my fiance. I am going to submit text messages and chat records. Well...some of my chat records(well, majority of them) are kinda steamy. I know for a fact that they cannot deny us of having a fraudulent relationship then, but is it appropiate...or should I blackmark all of that? Its not really vulgar, but you can tell we miss our time apart when we are not with each other

[Enigma11561 336]

You can print out a chat log ( basically header info) that show the volume of chats you have had and then print out a few, maybe 2-3 per month, of the less "steamy" ones. That should be enough.

[Barbie_Vazquez 10]

Okay, I think I am putting myself out there by asking this question, but I am sorting everything out to send for my petition of my fiance. I am going to submit text messages and chat records. Well...some of my chat records(well, majority of them) are kinda steamy. I know for a fact that they cannot deny us of having a fraudulent relationship then, but is it appropiate...or should I blackmark all of that? Its not really vulgar, but you can tell we miss our time apart when we are not with each other

You can mark over (blackmark) any personal information.

[Tim/Mav 305]

Chat Logs are Not Required for a 129-F/K-1 Petition. Thats later of Proof of a On-Going Relationship.

But for later at the Interview. Black-out sexual or in fun comments relating to "Well, you know"

Always pick the best Messages (And I know there can be hundreds to choose from)

Your chat logs are Not a requirement of your petition starting the process.

[TBoneTX 45,324]

Technically, chats & logs are not required for potential approval of the I-129F petition. However, Haiti is a tough place from which to pry a visa, so some front-loading of the petition may be called for (USCIS sends the consulate what you send USCIS). Check the links atop every VJ page: Embassy Info, & Reviews: Embassy.

Do NOT (do not! do NOT!) EVER submit any evidence with anything blacked out. It will only raise questions. If you front-load now (and certainly later for the interview), go through your chats and pick what YOU want THEM to see. A good sampling from throughout your relationship history should suffice.

Besides eliminating anything that you'd have to black out, be SURE that no item (and no subject-line in the chat log) indicates that you call yourselves "husband"/"wife" -- even if it's in fun. That's a no-no for a fiance/e petition.

[Laura and Ferlay 1]

Technically, chats & logs are not required for potential approval of the I-129F petition. However, Haiti is a tough place from which to pry a visa, so some front-loading of the petition may be called for (USCIS sends the consulate what you send USCIS). Check the links atop every VJ page: Embassy Info, & Reviews: Embassy.

Do NOT (do not! do NOT!) EVER submit any evidence with anything blacked out. It will only raise questions. If you front-load now (and certainly later for the interview), go through your chats and pick what YOU want THEM to see. A good sampling from throughout your relationship history should suffice.

Besides eliminating anything that you'd have to black out, be SURE that no item (and no subject-line in the chat log) indicates that you call yourselves "husband"/"wife" -- even if it's in fun. That's a no-no for a fiance/e petition.

Thank you guys...very useful information...about the husband/wife thing. What if I or he said future wife/husband. We reference ourselves in that manner often.

[KayDeeCee 4,893]

Thank you guys...very useful information...about the husband/wife thing. What if I or he said future wife/husband. We reference ourselves in that manner often.

No problem if it says 'soon-to-be' or 'future' husband/wife. My husband and I signed letters and cards like that to each other. It only matters if you are saying it in present tense, as if they already are your spouse.