Age difference

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

Time?

IDK, seems like they are more interested in the visa process or how fast they can get a visa?

Cuz come on, waiting 6 whole months for a fiance visa when you havent even told your family about her or had her meet your family but so willing to get the visa to come over here? Imagine being married to someone & waiting years to be with them and they met the family & are involved in families lives... thats much more painful than 6months of a fiancee visa...

Edited March 19, 2012 by ~PalmTreeGurl~

[LaL 418]

I don't think there is a disproportionate amount of the may - december beneficiaries posting, perhaps just more "special" and eager. Grabs our attention more?

[~PalmTreeGurl~ 154]

Also, this early into the relationship I dont think would be worth her spending the money to hire a lawyer... a lawyer cant make a visa get approved... and from the red flags so far... more than likely the money would be well spent with her spending money to visit you and your family next time.

[And_Sam 44]

It seems to me that the 20 something MENA men comes in waves. Like right around where they are getting ready to finish their 2nd year of college and perhaps become available for mandatoy military service?? I remember a couple other ones who had surface about this time the past 2 years....

[MichéSouf 2]

I'm 37 and the thought of having to deal with a 20 yr old mate makes me kinda sick. I had a hard enough time with the almost 30 yr old (at the time of marriage; married 6 yrs) husband trying to help him adjust. I can't imagine having to wipe a 20 yr old's #### at my age.

Well, we didnt ask you about your relationship with a younger ma. Sometimes, a 20yrs is more wise and careful than some stupid 30yrs old. Got it?

[MichéSouf 2]

No, I mean you should troll back into the internet cafe where you've been searching for and American woman to get you out of Morocco & look for another one because you are not going to get approved with a 17 year age difference and your family not knowing, and having only spent ten days together. WHY is it you want to marry this 37 year old, but your family does not know about her? That's not really the tradition in Morocco, is it?

Better yet, if you really want help - you should tell your fiance to sign up for Visa Journey - we'll help her.

Also, just an FYI - the US consulate in Casa does extensive research into the email/internet usage of petitioners. Hopefully, in your case they do - so even if you go on to meet a visa ticket, I mean American woman, you feel comfortable telling your family about in the future, they will know you've already tried fooling a 37 year old into marrying you. Lots of luck to you!

This 37 yrs old? A visa ticket? What am I hearing in here?! I DO NOT ALLOW YOU TO TALK ABOUT MY FIANCEE THIS WAY! U try give advices, thank u, but dont offend me please!

[msheesha 548]

Well, I GUESS YOU TOLD ME!!!

[Mithra 1,185]

I love how testy these guys are!

Well, I GUESS YOU TOLD ME!!!

[msheesha 548]

I feel like there must have been some announcement made in the internet cafes - hey visa trollers - go onto VJ - there's info on there.

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

***** thread closed as OP got the relevant information on how to help his case and it has now become a personal attack. ****

[aaydrian 479]

This 37 yrs old? A visa ticket? What am I hearing in here?! I DO NOT ALLOW YOU TO TALK ABOUT MY FIANCEE THIS WAY! U try give advices, thank u, but dont offend me please!

If your truly in love with your fiancée then we understand your anger but no need to shout. You have to understand we here have NEVER met a 20 year old boy that has the maturity of a 37 year old woman (I personally don't think they exist) so we are very skeptical of your relationship. Still, if you think we are being harsh and disrespectful with our 'slight words' then you better check yourself because the consulate officer at the embassy will rip you a new A hole, that is, if the embassy doesn't outright deny your petition.