Deportation

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Thanks, yea I already got the I-485 form for AOS approved and now is a 2 year waiting process. I have only photos of bruises and scratches but no clear evidence. Also I got fired by DHS back in August and can't really support her & live my life. She is greedy and wants everything and takes it all for granted. I'm still trying to get my job back through EEOC and my Congressman. It seems she is always intentionally hurting me by all means especially sleep. All I know is that I have been betrayed and she should be deported. I spent all the money for everything willingly and still do but I want to stop now. I have no car also because of the police arresting me for a DUI when I don't even drink, nor was I offered a breataliser test and was falsley imprisoned for 24 hours and the insurance company wouldn't pay for my car even though it was the other drivers fault.

I don't understand how being arrested for DUI takes you car away especially when you follow-up with mentioning that Insurance won't pay for your car even though it was the other driver's fault. That just doesn't make much sense.

Thanks a lot! She hasn't even gotten her green card in the mail yet. It's on the way. That VAWA scares me, because she has abused me and I have only tried to restrain her. She must have to have proof, she can't just say it, right? Also how about my affidavit of support? Is that void then?

VAWA isn't even a concern for you, she's already adjusted status. The Affidavit of Support is in effect until one of the following happens:

She works 40 quarters (10 years)

She Naturalizes

She Abandons her Greencard

She Dies.

Well, she couldn't survive here and she already told me she wants to go home. I dont beleive her, but eitherway I am waiting for my tax money because I don't know how much it will cost to get rid of her.

Then stop playing like you're a couple, give her the ticket when you get your Tax Return and file for divorce. Personally I'd hold off on the divorce until she has returned home and abandoned her residency, it's the only leverage you have as she can't get a divorce in the Philippines and needs you to file anyway for the PH government to recognize it.

[BethandBilly 86]

Stop with the personal attacks, this thread needs to be monitored and posts removed. This man has a right to say what he is saying, he is asking for advice not to be attacked. Enough is Enough.

[Ban Hammer 13,427]

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[OneLove313 0]

I don't understand how being arrested for DUI takes you car away especially when you follow-up with mentioning that Insurance won't pay for your car even though it was the other driver's fault. That just doesn't make much sense.

VAWA isn't even a concern for you, she's already adjusted status. The Affidavit of Support is in effect until one of the following happens:

She works 40 quarters (10 years)

She Naturalizes

She Abandons her Greencard

She Dies.

Then stop playing like you're a couple, give her the ticket when you get your Tax Return and file for divorce. Personally I'd hold off on the divorce until she has returned home and abandoned her residency, it's the only leverage you have as she can't get a divorce in the Philippines and needs you to file anyway for the PH government to recognize it.

Thanks for the advice! As for my car I wasn't be so clear because it was of subject but the insurance wouldn't pay because the police made it my fault because of DUI when actually I was sober and passed the blood test, therfor never had to go to court but it remains that I got arrested for DUI. I need to seal that file this week but it won't change the police report. I dont trust cops at all anymore.

Anyway back to your advice. I would give her ticket back home but I don't think she wants to and I can't force her onto the plane. But maybe I can tell her it's either that or have the Government detain her for deportation and then maybe she would accept out of fear. She knows she can't survive here without me. Your last words were very smart, thanks for giving me an alternative solution. I also should call the USCIS and ask them the facts without revealing who I am. Thanks again.

[OneLove313 0]

Stop with the personal attacks, this thread needs to be monitored and posts removed. This man has a right to say what he is saying, he is asking for advice not to be attacked. Enough is Enough.

Thanks, I agree and I already reported that one Portland, Oregon guy that put up a video of his girl that is in the Philippines still and he has no experience about this topic. Please help get people like him off of VJ because I need help as well as others and this thread can help others also. VJ is a community where we get info and help each other. I have been using it since 2003

[Ban Hammer 13,427]

Thanks, I agree and I already reported that one Portland, Oregon guy that put up a video of his girl that is in the Philippines still and he has no experience about this topic. Please help get people like him off of VJ because I need help as well as others and this thread can help others also. VJ is a community where we get info and help each other. I have been using it since 2003

already dealt with. let's

[OneLove313 0]

Oh no things are getting nasty in this thread I know exactly how you feel to be betrayed and used. My brother got married to a foreigner and used him for green card. (Same thing happen to one of my friend too) I will probably feel the same if my fiancé did the same to me. Let just pray that god will do all the punishment for this kind a people. Let karma runs after them.

Thanks. I have met many people in the past who have had this problem and I know when to get out. I will not be used anymore because to me that would be going against God. He likes the does of good, not evil. I'm sorry about your brother and God will in the end have the worst punishment for them. And also in this life. I never have regrets because I know I'm on God's path for me and I am responding to his trials in a way that I think we would be pleased. He had a reason for all things in my life and only he knows what they all are but I know a little. All praise is due to the one God. I worship God and praise him every day multiple times. Thanks for your concern and peace be with you, Lord willing.

[OneLove313 0]

already dealt with. let's

right, I got an email with that post so I didn't know it was dealt with until I looked

Edited March 13, 2012 by OneLove313

[jaycali 415]

Sorry the above is wrong. People remove conditions all the time on their own while divorced. Just need to prove that the marriage was entered to in good faith. As soon as the divorce decree is received, the immigrant can file to remove conditions immidiately without having to wait 1 year 9 months.

Sorry, I didn't make myself very clear there. I started off asking if he thinks she used him for immigration purposes, in which case she can still be deported unless conditions were removed. Also, if they aren't married anymore, as you say, she'll have to prove the marriage was entered into in good faith.

Thanks a lot! She hasn't even gotten her green card in the mail yet. It's on the way. That VAWA scares me, because she has abused me and I have only tried to restrain her. She must have to have proof, she can't just say it, right? Also how about my affidavit of support? Is that void then?

Unfortunately for you, the affidavit of support is on you, and divorce doesn't void it at all. Unless she's deported for using you for immigration purposes, the affidavit is in effect until either:

- She becomes a citizen.

- She abandons her status.

- She has worked 40 fiscal quarters.

- She dies.

She'd have to have a case for saying you abused her. With zero proof I doubt she'd get too far..

Edited March 13, 2012 by jhsm85

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Anyway back to your advice. I would give her ticket back home but I don't think she wants to and I can't force her onto the plane. But maybe I can tell her it's either that or have the Government detain her for deportation and then maybe she would accept out of fear. She knows she can't survive here without me. Your last words were very smart, thanks for giving me an alternative solution. I also should call the USCIS and ask them the facts without revealing who I am. Thanks again.

Don't use the threat of deportation, it's not the honest way to handle things and it could turn things against you in divorce proceedings.

If she really "knows she can't survive here without you" then she should happily accept the ticket.

Why not just file for divorce and move on with your life? She doesn't qualify for Means Tested Benefits until she's been an LPR for 5 years.

[Kajikit 65]

You can divorce her any time you like and tell her to get out of your home and never talk to you again except through a lawyer. Deporting her (for just cause or otherwise) is not up to you. You cannot 'GET' anybody deported. All you can do is report them to Immigration if there is a good reason to believe that they only married you for the green card.

[LoveTurtle 2]

You can divorce her any time you like and tell her to get out of your home and never talk to you again except through a lawyer. Deporting her (for just cause or otherwise) is not up to you. You cannot 'GET' anybody deported. All you can do is report them to Immigration if there is a good reason to believe that they only married you for the green card.

Yes, this is the best way: Reporting her to USCIS. Once she got into US through USCIS, I understand that both of you are under the Immigration "eyes" until she would become a citizen. If you have how to prove that your marriage is not true and she is not acting fairly with you, you should go to USCIS and ask them to help you in this.

It is really awful how some people are so selfish and use others to accomplish their own purposes

Edited March 13, 2012 by LoveTurtle

[Fight for Love 98]

Thanks. I have met many people in the past who have had this problem and I know when to get out. I will not be used anymore because to me that would be going against God. He likes the does of good, not evil. I'm sorry about your brother and God will in the end have the worst punishment for them. And also in this life. I never have regrets because I know I'm on God's path for me and I am responding to his trials in a way that I think we would be pleased. He had a reason for all things in my life and only he knows what they all are but I know a little. All praise is due to the one God. I worship God and praise him every day multiple times. Thanks for your concern and peace be with you, Lord willing.

yes indeed..AMEN!!!!

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[Orando 57]

How can I get my wife deported and how much would I have to pay? My wife has betrayed me and does nothing but fight with me and watch tv. She is not doing her job in the marriage. She didn't cheat, but is a compulsive liar . She said she converted to my religion for us before she came here and now she is here and says she won't. It's against my religion to be married to her. I want her back in the Philippines. She is a user. She has lied about me to my family and they believe her. Every day with her feels like torture. She has physically abused me but mostly verbally.

That sounds awful man, looks like people have given some good pointers to you in regards to your legal and immigration options. I hate reading stories like this, sucks for everybody personally involved.