Need filipina Advice

[Kang 22]

This is the guy whose fiance did know even know how to get a NSO birth certificate! I think even two Filipinas here on VJ helped her out

Edited March 16, 2012 by Kang

[Hank_ 9,174]

Mines got a bad attitude also. On Valentines days I was trying to watch TV and enjoy my icecream.

She made me come outside and hold the ladder for her while she was cleaning out the rain gutters.

Then I think she was purposely letting little pieces of leaves fall down into my icecream.

:thumbs:

You got a good woman!!!

And I like you sense of humor!

[TropicalRose 0]

Some people just don't realized what they've got.

Maybe she will....when you let her go.

Sad. But I'm not sorry for you.

I'm sorry for her.

[duriantaste 44]

Nothing like a cute spoiled girl. You have one.

Give her more love and don't complaint to her. If she tells you that you are not giving her enough love, give her more. Go to the extreme of asking her how she wants to be loved. Maybe the love you are giving her is not her understanding of love. Overdose her with your love.

Don't questions her. Slowly try to see what interest her most. Do it slowly then join what interest her the most. You will see a transformation from night to day. It might take some times.

BUT DON'T FORGET: She is in a stay of SHOCK.

She wouldn't come to USA if she did not feel something for you.

Edited March 18, 2012 by duriantaste

[Magic Power 7]

To the OP

For me and most of the guys on the board do you have a picture of said fiance / gf / or Wife in question

In order for us to give an honest answer we would need to see how hot or good looking she is

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

To the OP

For me and most of the guys on the board do you have a picture of said fiance / gf / or Wife in question

In order for us to give an honest answer we would need to see how hot or good looking she is

Do you mean,

[the good knight 2]

Hello to you,Need a filipina advice,

i read the same story from one of the members here before just the time i got here.the woman whom the guy brought here is like the same way your fiance"s attitude.He asked a lot of advice here in the visa journey and he ended up sending the girl in the philippines because he can't take it no more.what i can tell you is,it's not yet too late to decide the right deciscion.don't let her stub you and your family in your backs,since you are not yet married.how much more if you two are legally married and she thinks she have ALL the rights now to contoll you from your family against them!i am a filipina,too.and i dont like the way she acts.i love my family in P.I the same way i love his family here whom i considered my second family.send that girl back to where she belong.maybe she got her nose up because she thought that being here in U.S is a lottery..there are lots of good girls out there.i can give you one..lol..we are here to give u advice:please dont ruin your life in that kind of girl you got.there is still someone out there deserving.

[the good knight 2]

Nothing like a cute spoiled girl. You have one.

Give her more love and don't complaint to her. If she tells you that you are not giving her enough love, give her more. Go to the extreme of asking her how she wants to be loved. Maybe the love you are giving her is not her understanding of love. Overdose her with your love.

Don't questions her. Slowly try to see what interest her most. Do it slowly then join what interest her the most. You will see a transformation from night to day. It might take some times.

BUT DON'T FORGET: She is in a stay of SHOCK.

She wouldn't come to USA if she did not feel something for you.

Hi DURIANTASTE:

Don't forget,too that BEING A "B"...ch is not good if you are in shock.and by the way,that is not the way you act if you are in shock.She knew already that she will leave her fanily in P.I to be with her love.Maybe,she is a REAL DAMN FILIPINA..WITH A REAL BAAAAAADDD ATTITUDE!,...

[duriantaste 44]

Hi DURIANTASTE:

Don't forget,too that BEING A "B"...ch is not good if you are in shock.and by the way,that is not the way you act if you are in shock.She knew already that she will leave her fanily in P.I to be with her love.Maybe,she is a REAL DAMN FILIPINA..WITH A REAL BAAAAAADDD ATTITUDE!,...

But then again maybe she is not the B word you think she is. What if she is like a kid? she wants complete attention and that is why she is becoming so revel?? Just throwing some ideas or trying to see the glass half full, not half empty.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

But then again maybe she is not the B word you think she is. What if she is like a kid? she wants complete attention and that is why she is becoming so revel?? Just throwing some ideas or trying to see the glass half full, not half empty.

Filipinas are all children, well at least the ones I have come in contact with. They want daddy to spoil them. It does get tiresome. I didn't find a wife, it seems -- I adopted a teenager daughter -- thirty-nine going on thirteen.

[Ken & Marife 0]

I brought a girl here who I love very much and love her family on a k-1 Visa. But she seems to always have a negative attitude since she has gotten here. Everything is about her. All I here is me me me I I I. She seems to think the world revolves around her and that everyone else is her to serve her. My family has been very nice and loving and accepting to her, But in return she is very rude and ungrateful to everything. I have helped her family so much and done so much for her and now I am full of sadness and regret. Her family is so nice and very grateful, they advise her all the time to not be jealous and to be nice and try to listen to me and do what I advise her since she is much younger.

There are many good times but then more and more these times that just pop up with her having a bad attitude and is rude to my family. She says things like no one likes her she misses her family that my family is not her family that I don't love her and care about her. I just don't understand how she could ever say this or think it after all I have done for her and her family and my family has done for her. She just wants to get up eat, play on Facebook games talk to her friends take long naps eat again and sleep. Between going to Disney and all the other fun things we have done for her. She has bad attitude about cleaning or doing anything to help out. She does not want to better her English or study in college. Which was all agreed to before moving to the USA.

I just don't know what to do. I feel so heart broken. I don't know how I managed to fall in love with the only Filipina who refuses to do anything by herself and does not want to do anything to better her life or to even help be in a partnership in marriage. I just wish she could take her family's advice and things would be so much better. I had to take off time from work to go to manila to bring her home because she could not even do her medical and interview or anything on her own. Everyone has had to do everything for her. When I was in the Philippines I felt she loved me and I was so happy and did not mind doing so many extra things for her and her family. But now it has taken a toll and when she is rude to my family I just feel hurt and regret.

I am desperate for any advice if there is anything that can be done to fix this, at times she acts very happy and loving and just says everything is a big misunderstanding and I do not understand her. But she either does not understand how much she hurts be or does not care when she acts this way. At this point I am very close to giving up and sending her back to the Philippines.

I wish you can still hold on to Her...maybe she has problem regarding her PMS watch and observe her closely...it was my husband problems too until now.If I have PMS everything around me is not good including the face of my husband but after that period its back to normal and He told me that He can't find another woman like me except for that cute period that me and I hated. you just need to get use to it.

[Hank_ 9,174]

I think the only ones reading and posting here are everyone but the OP...

[Philwithlove 17]

the OP might be busy preparing the wedding or the AOS..

[Darnell 8,478]

Paul's not posted in this topic, since post #1 ?

But he's logged in last on the 15th.

Anyone worried that Paul's been abducted by aliens?

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Paul's not posted in this topic, since post #1 ?

But he's logged in last on the 15th.

Anyone worried that Paul's been abducted by aliens?

I'm more worried that Junior's eaten Paul's brain and he now thinks being in a relationship with a spoiled child is an okay thing for a grown man...