Not pregnant from turkish man

[evelyn1140 18]

Today I find out I am not pregnant. This is our second try. My husband is not really happy. I don't know what to do. I feel guilty and upset.

[Penguin_ie 5,997]

I am so sorry. Please do not feel guilty- it is a normal response, but you have nothing to feel bad about. It took us three years and three rounds of fertility treatment to conceive the twins.

[X Factor 1,112]

Today I find out I am not pregnant. This is our second try. My husband is not really happy. I don't know what to do. I feel guilty and upset.

Keep trying. The following is taken from the website http://www.babymed.com/getting-pregnant/how-long-does-it-take-get-pregnant Where there is even a calculater.

"With regard to couples who make love regularly:

About 50% of healthy couples get pregnant after 4-5 months

70% get pregnant after 9 months

85% get pregnant after one year.

But the sperm count has to be OK, the woman has to ovulate regularly, and her tubes have to be open.

The five major factors affecting your chance of getting pregnant are:

1.Ovulation. With irregular or no ovulation (anovulation), you cannot get pregnant.

2.Mother's age. The older you get the lower your chances getting pregnant. Old and bad quality eggs make getting pregnant more difficult. The older the woman is, the longer it takes to get pregnant.

3.Sperm count. The less sperm he has, the longer it may take to get pregnant. With an abnormal count (that is, below 20 million/cc) your chances getting pregnant are quite low. Here are some tips on how to improve his sperm count.

4.Patency of your fallopian tubes. They must be open and working well for you to get pregnant.

5.Timing of sex: You must make love regularly every weeks 2-3 times and especially during the 4-5 fertile days and the day of ovulation."

[Mithra 1,185]

Umm do you mean this is your second month trying? If so, it's definitely too early to get worried. It took me 3 years to get pregnant with my daughter.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Today I find out I am not pregnant. This is our second try. My husband is not really happy. I don't know what to do. I feel guilty and upset.

This feeling of anxiousness won't help the process either. You need to relax and just let it happen. So many couples find after just living their lives and not thinking about it it just happens.

I'm not sure what you mean by "second try". If you mean months that's too soon to be panicking. if you mean IVF that means you've seen a doc about your fertility. If you haven't seen a doc you could both go to get tested so you know for sure whether anything is wrong and what you can do, if anything, to help it along.

[Fandango 1,440]

I am thrown by the title...instead of saying 'husband', he's the 'Turkish man'.

Either way, try not to stress about it...that has a way of hindering the process. Good luck.