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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Kosova
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The way he worries about me and cares after me.

The fact that he visibly surpresses how upset he is at the airport when I hsve to leave to try to make it easier on me. He then goes back to our apartment and cries into my dressing gown.

I just love him so much and we can't believe how lucky we were to find each other in this crazy world - he is 64 and I am 50.

Anna, you have a real special guy. I think I do too, because my guy does these things too.

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See my Timeline for details of our visa journey
17-Aug-2011 Our Wedding Day in Kosovo 
07-Nov-2011 Filed I-130
21-Nov-2011 NOA1
23-Aug-2012 NOA2 Approved 276 days
10-Jan-2013 Case complete via email

28-Feb-2013 Interview, result AP
11-Apr-2013 Embassy appointment - VISA APPROVED and issued in 4 hours
30-Apr-2013 POE Chicago O'Hare - He's home!

04-Sep-2014 Moved to northern California

12-Mar-2015 Filed ROC
16-Mar-2015 Documents delivered
18-Mar-2015 Check cashed
19-Mar-2015 NOA1 dated 03/16/2015 received in mail
13-Apr-2015 Biometrics completed
02-Feb-2016 Contacted USCIS about case, was told it's on hold because of security checks (email)
04-Mar-2016 Moved to Wisconsin
12-Aug-2016 New Biometrics appointment
14-Sep-2016 Contacted USCIS again about case (email said we should hear from them by Oct 6)
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 explaining the Service Request is currently being reviewed by an officer.
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 with Interview appointment for both of us for 28-Sep-2016
28-Sep-2016 Interview, both of us, separated, not hard, 10 min. each, result---said hubby will get GC in about 10 days
26-Oct-2016 *****STILL WAITING*****
02-Nov-2016 Card is being produced!!!
08-Nov-2016 Card is mailed
10-Nov-2016 Card is Delivered!!!! YAY
CITIZENSHIP: 

Biometrics appointment for 2020-03-27 has been cancelled until further notice as all field offices are closed because of COVID-19.

***NOA dated 12/10/2020 USCIS stated they are able to reuse previous Biometrics***

Interview was easy. My hubby's Oath Ceremony is scheduled for February 25th. I can't watch >sad< but happy he is getting his certificate!

25-FEB-2021 Oath Ceremony! My hubby is a Citizen!

 
 
 
 
 
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The way he worries about me.

I slipped and fell down the the stairs of a London bus this weekend and hurt my right hand. I told him this in an e-mail and he e-mailed back saying 'GO TO THE EMERGENCY ROOM NOW'. I did and he was right - I had a fracture in my hand (just belwo my little finger).

He makes me short videos and puts them up to online stoarge for me, even though he doesn't really like doing them because he feels self-conscious when he can't see me to talk to. But, because he knows they help me as I transfer them to my iPod, he makes them for me.

He sends me links to articles relevant to our future life together.

he sends me links to articles to do with me being a veggie - and he puts up with me being a veggie even though he doesn't really understand it and it restricts the places we can eat out. I said that I would consider eating fish and he said 'No. Do not change for me. I love you as you are and I am concerned that if you change something about yourself, it may change somethign else.'

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Filed: Other Country: Australia
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I love him because when I am with him, I have never felt such a sense of belonging, of happiness.. Every moment we spent together I fell in love with him all over again.. his laugh, his smile.. his embrace.. everything in the world ceases to matter.. time ceases to exist..

He's everything I dared to dream of.. and now the cruel irony is that we're an ocean away and its going to be a battle for us to be together permanently.. Life is not fair, nor easy.. but the things truly worthwhile never are.

I live for the next moment I get to hold and kiss him again.. 17 weeks 17 weeks 17 weeks.. but on a VWP :(

And by then we would have been 8 months apart..

The hardest thing I have ever done, but the most worthwhile.. love him so much.

We sleep together on skype, despite our time differences.. he's just so amazing..

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Kosova
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:devil::blush:(L) sexy

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AAD1m5.pngThankYouUSA-Kosova.jpg

See my Timeline for details of our visa journey
17-Aug-2011 Our Wedding Day in Kosovo 
07-Nov-2011 Filed I-130
21-Nov-2011 NOA1
23-Aug-2012 NOA2 Approved 276 days
10-Jan-2013 Case complete via email

28-Feb-2013 Interview, result AP
11-Apr-2013 Embassy appointment - VISA APPROVED and issued in 4 hours
30-Apr-2013 POE Chicago O'Hare - He's home!

04-Sep-2014 Moved to northern California

12-Mar-2015 Filed ROC
16-Mar-2015 Documents delivered
18-Mar-2015 Check cashed
19-Mar-2015 NOA1 dated 03/16/2015 received in mail
13-Apr-2015 Biometrics completed
02-Feb-2016 Contacted USCIS about case, was told it's on hold because of security checks (email)
04-Mar-2016 Moved to Wisconsin
12-Aug-2016 New Biometrics appointment
14-Sep-2016 Contacted USCIS again about case (email said we should hear from them by Oct 6)
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 explaining the Service Request is currently being reviewed by an officer.
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 with Interview appointment for both of us for 28-Sep-2016
28-Sep-2016 Interview, both of us, separated, not hard, 10 min. each, result---said hubby will get GC in about 10 days
26-Oct-2016 *****STILL WAITING*****
02-Nov-2016 Card is being produced!!!
08-Nov-2016 Card is mailed
10-Nov-2016 Card is Delivered!!!! YAY
CITIZENSHIP: 

Biometrics appointment for 2020-03-27 has been cancelled until further notice as all field offices are closed because of COVID-19.

***NOA dated 12/10/2020 USCIS stated they are able to reuse previous Biometrics***

Interview was easy. My hubby's Oath Ceremony is scheduled for February 25th. I can't watch >sad< but happy he is getting his certificate!

25-FEB-2021 Oath Ceremony! My hubby is a Citizen!

 
 
 
 
 
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First... its really hard to choose from a wide variety of things but... I will try...

He is a very loving and caring husband... he worries about every little thing, including locking the doors at night. (yeah... this place can get quite unsafe at night)

He is patient and understanding... Sometimes when I lose it... He just listens and then discusses things when I get calm.

He is my other half... I mean he complements me so good, even though we are different in certain things... :luv:

He is a future planner... we have discussed and planned our future together in the states!

He is very good with numbers! and yes... I suck at them...

He is sexy... and the most handsome guy I have ever met!! :devil:

He makes me laugh a lot... he has this natural sense of humor that comes out when I most need it...

He is very family oriented... and wants to spend time with us as much as possible..

His amazing blue eyes!!! That can change color depending on what he wears...( I know... they are blue with traces of green so depends on light reflection I guess...) :blink:

the way he loves me back... I know he feels for me what I feel for him...

The fact he is always telling me how beautiful I am... Even though I am self-concious it lets me see his perception of me.

and... Hes a true Southern Gentleman!! and I love the way he talks!! (L)

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Russia
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She fills that void of loneliness for me. Even through our letters, it's like she's right there in front of me, reading them to me. I love her smile and the way she makes me feel like I am the only man in the world. I love it when I send her a little gift, and when she finally receives it she has to tell me about it immediately. Her excitement is contagious, like some kind of love vaccine that keeps me on my feet all day even when I feel like I just want to fall down and go to sleep. She is really one in a million billion.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Nigeria
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Of all the met I had met prior, he complements me most. I could be childlike with him and not worry about it, a side of me not even my siblings/parents saw until I met him.

I push his buttons from time to time with extreme words etc just to see how he reacts and he always maintains his cool. He keeps saying "we cant both react the same way and keep this going". He is very forthcoming with words of endearment and sweetness which is not common with men from our place. I suggest something to him and after initial resistance, he goes with my suggestion( (of course if it makes better sense) without feeling threatened about it.

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GOD has been WONDERFUL!!!
CR-1 (for Husband):
09/15/2012: Got Married
09/26/2012: Mailed I-130 from Nigeria( delayed by customs)
USCIS stage ( 66 days)
10/12/2012: NOA 1
12/17/2012: NOA 2 (case was transferred to NYC office 11/27/12)
NVC stage ( 20 days)
01/08/2013: Case # and IIN assigned ( file arrived NVC mail room 12/20/12)
01/09/2013: AOS invoiced and paid, DS-3032 emailed and mailed.
01/16/2013: IV invoiced &paid. AOS & IV mailed in one package(arrived 01/18).

01/28/2013: Case complete!!!
04/19/2013: Interview; APPROVED!!!!!
05/13/2013: POE; JFK


N-400: (3 months and 12 days)
Filed N-400 : 2011-06-17
Interview: 2011-09-27
Oath Ceremony: 2011-09-30

IR-5 for Mom Entire process took 5 months exactly
USCIS (22days)

mailed I-130 : 2011-09-30
NOA 1: 2011-10-03 (text & email)
NOA 2: 2011-10-25 (text and email)
NVC: (19 days)
Case entered and # assigned: 2011-11-18
NVC Case COMPLETED: 2011-12-07 ( 43 days from NOA 2 and 65 days from NOA 1)
Interview Date(Lagos): 2012-01- 23
Mom was late for interview
New Interview date: 2012-02-29 : VISA APPROVED

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Nigeria
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I love that he is very open about sexual talk cos I am very conservative when it comes to that and meeting him has made me more open with such topics .He always talks about how during our after-wedding party, all he was thinking about while I was making sure we greet our guests was taking me back to our hotel suite and getting down to business :whistle:

I love when I call him and he says "man your husband is dying here and you know what I am talking about" LOL.

GOD has been WONDERFUL!!!
CR-1 (for Husband):
09/15/2012: Got Married
09/26/2012: Mailed I-130 from Nigeria( delayed by customs)
USCIS stage ( 66 days)
10/12/2012: NOA 1
12/17/2012: NOA 2 (case was transferred to NYC office 11/27/12)
NVC stage ( 20 days)
01/08/2013: Case # and IIN assigned ( file arrived NVC mail room 12/20/12)
01/09/2013: AOS invoiced and paid, DS-3032 emailed and mailed.
01/16/2013: IV invoiced &paid. AOS & IV mailed in one package(arrived 01/18).

01/28/2013: Case complete!!!
04/19/2013: Interview; APPROVED!!!!!
05/13/2013: POE; JFK


N-400: (3 months and 12 days)
Filed N-400 : 2011-06-17
Interview: 2011-09-27
Oath Ceremony: 2011-09-30

IR-5 for Mom Entire process took 5 months exactly
USCIS (22days)

mailed I-130 : 2011-09-30
NOA 1: 2011-10-03 (text & email)
NOA 2: 2011-10-25 (text and email)
NVC: (19 days)
Case entered and # assigned: 2011-11-18
NVC Case COMPLETED: 2011-12-07 ( 43 days from NOA 2 and 65 days from NOA 1)
Interview Date(Lagos): 2012-01- 23
Mom was late for interview
New Interview date: 2012-02-29 : VISA APPROVED

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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He always texts me love messages :luv:

You are the best babe!!!

Sent I-129 Application to VSC 2/1/12
NOA1 2/8/12
RFE 8/2/12
RFE reply 8/3/12
NOA2 8/16/12
NVC received 8/27/12
NVC left 8/29/12
Manila Embassy received 9/5/12
Visa appointment & approval 9/7/12
Arrived in US 10/5/2012
Married 11/24/2012
AOS application sent 12/19/12

AOS approved 8/24/13

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She gives me a massage regularly without me asking for one

Sent I-129 Application to VSC 2/1/12
NOA1 2/8/12
RFE 8/2/12
RFE reply 8/3/12
NOA2 8/16/12
NVC received 8/27/12
NVC left 8/29/12
Manila Embassy received 9/5/12
Visa appointment & approval 9/7/12
Arrived in US 10/5/2012
Married 11/24/2012
AOS application sent 12/19/12

AOS approved 8/24/13

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Kosova
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He compliments my cooking. My banana bread was a big hit today!

XMY93gI.jpgXMY9m5.png

AAD1m5.pngThankYouUSA-Kosova.jpg

See my Timeline for details of our visa journey
17-Aug-2011 Our Wedding Day in Kosovo 
07-Nov-2011 Filed I-130
21-Nov-2011 NOA1
23-Aug-2012 NOA2 Approved 276 days
10-Jan-2013 Case complete via email

28-Feb-2013 Interview, result AP
11-Apr-2013 Embassy appointment - VISA APPROVED and issued in 4 hours
30-Apr-2013 POE Chicago O'Hare - He's home!

04-Sep-2014 Moved to northern California

12-Mar-2015 Filed ROC
16-Mar-2015 Documents delivered
18-Mar-2015 Check cashed
19-Mar-2015 NOA1 dated 03/16/2015 received in mail
13-Apr-2015 Biometrics completed
02-Feb-2016 Contacted USCIS about case, was told it's on hold because of security checks (email)
04-Mar-2016 Moved to Wisconsin
12-Aug-2016 New Biometrics appointment
14-Sep-2016 Contacted USCIS again about case (email said we should hear from them by Oct 6)
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 explaining the Service Request is currently being reviewed by an officer.
22-Sep-2016 Letter from USCIS dated 9/20 with Interview appointment for both of us for 28-Sep-2016
28-Sep-2016 Interview, both of us, separated, not hard, 10 min. each, result---said hubby will get GC in about 10 days
26-Oct-2016 *****STILL WAITING*****
02-Nov-2016 Card is being produced!!!
08-Nov-2016 Card is mailed
10-Nov-2016 Card is Delivered!!!! YAY
CITIZENSHIP: 

Biometrics appointment for 2020-03-27 has been cancelled until further notice as all field offices are closed because of COVID-19.

***NOA dated 12/10/2020 USCIS stated they are able to reuse previous Biometrics***

Interview was easy. My hubby's Oath Ceremony is scheduled for February 25th. I can't watch >sad< but happy he is getting his certificate!

25-FEB-2021 Oath Ceremony! My hubby is a Citizen!

 
 
 
 
 
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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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My babe is very thoughtful

Sent I-129 Application to VSC 2/1/12
NOA1 2/8/12
RFE 8/2/12
RFE reply 8/3/12
NOA2 8/16/12
NVC received 8/27/12
NVC left 8/29/12
Manila Embassy received 9/5/12
Visa appointment & approval 9/7/12
Arrived in US 10/5/2012
Married 11/24/2012
AOS application sent 12/19/12

AOS approved 8/24/13

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