He's Gone ;(

[Samantha78 117]

Don't worry about the office gossip, put on your shortest dress with your go to hell shoes walk with your head held high. Smile all day long as if you have just hit the lottery, he is history.

LMFAO!! This is my first laugh in 8 days. Thanks.

[Trav&Shell 83]

Thanks hun........I'm asking God to give me the strength I need right now. Like, you guys watched my journey......you know I love him and how hard I tried.....how could he do this????? Its so unfair and inhumane. I waited all my life to get married...I thought he was the one....and look at what a friggin fool I look like in the end. I have no idea what to tell my judgemental coworkers tomorrow....or friends that were expecting the failure. What a completely humiliating thing to happen to me, and anyone.

Wow...I've been reading your posts (as has my husband), and we are both so heartsick for you! I had no idea what to say until you said this, but something clicked. My heart/gut/mind/everything tells me that if friends were expecting your failure, what kind of people are they? You need support, not "I told you so". Sounds like you have TONS of support here on VJ!! You sound like a completely giving, caring person, and you ARE amazingly beautiful. You sound quite intelligent and resourceful and strong - and you can add to your list of support another two people who don't know you but are praying their little hearts out for you right now.

Edited February 27, 2012 by Trav&Shell

[Samantha78 117]

Wow...I've been reading your posts (as has my husband), and we are both so heartsick for you! I had no idea what to say until you said this, but something clicked. My heart/gut/mind/everything tells me that if friends were expecting your failure, what kind of people are they? You need support, not "I told you so". Sounds like you have TONS of support here on VJ!! You sound like a completely giving, caring person, and you ARE amazingly beautiful. You sound quite intelligent and resourceful and strong - and you can add to your list of support another two people who don't know you but are praying their little hearts out for you right now.

Thanks and I hope you guys and everyone else knows how much I appreciate the support. Every time I feel like breaking down I get online and read more posts and I feel a little more empowered each time. In just one day my mind is a little clearer and focused.

I wish I could give you all back what you've given me.

[Andrea&Henry 311]

HI SAM!!!

I can NOT believe what I see...I read your old post I and Im sorry to say it but I saw it coming. Im so so sorry girl, only who goes through this exhausting journey, knows how hard it is. I'm Venezuelan girl and makes me feel sad and mad as a latin american, that there're people out there using USC to get their greencards. Now I understand why some CO are so hard in this whole process, for selfish people like him. (Behind a greencard there's a human being :s)

I know that you must be heartbreak, but think that thanks GOD, you found out on time. At least you both have no kids etc etc. I rather to live in painful truth that living in a beautiful lie. Keep reporting him so he cannot use people anymore. I hope he gets a ban to enter EEUU for the rest of his life.

God tryed to protect by showing you the truth, I'm so sure that there's someone out there who really deserve you. I'll keep praying for you. Cheer up girl!!!!!

I don't know what religious you are, but I want to share something with you. I few years ago someone brokes my heart too, and this letter touch my soul.

"No man will never claim you unless he claims you from Me. For I reserved a man for you who has My heart and love Me even more than he will ask you for. For, I won't give you unless he asks you from Me. He's sleep, don't wake him up, he is busy for Me, for My kingdom. Soon you will know him, but I have the perfect time. You're My princess, my Precious daugther. Let No prince claim you, unless he asks you from My hand. For I'm you father, the King of Kings. You, My princess, are worth loving for"

God bless u girl!

Andrea&Henry

[james&olya 1,121]

You sound like you have really got it together on this. Keep it up! One suggestion, if he does try to return tell him before you even consider anything he must own up in writing to you every thing he has done and that you were never abusive to him in any way. Then whatever he gives you can be used to protect yourself against another possible gambit he might try, the abuse angle. While he is not female, he might nonetheless try to get somewhere by claiming he was somehow a victim of abuse.

[Trav&Shell 83]

Thanks and I hope you guys and everyone else knows how much I appreciate the support. Every time I feel like breaking down I get online and read more posts and I feel a little more empowered each time. In just one day my mind is a little clearer and focused.

I wish I could give you all back what you've given me.

From what it sounds like, you've given so much to so many people on here, and you don't even realize it. You deserve to have support, and that's amazing you're regaining some focus already. One foot in front of the other, and keep breathing. You can do this.

For the record, Life's suggestion about what to do your first day back to work was amazing! Hold that head high because you're better than he could ever DREAM of being!

(yeah yeah, cheesy song, but...hey, it kind of fits...)

[Samantha78 117]

Restraint order - check

USCIS letter with evidence, sent - check

Divorce filed and sent for signature - check

Now I wait. It's in Gods hands from here.

I couldn't have done this without you guys. I've never had so much support in my entire life.

I owe you the world.

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

Smart Girl stay focused on your children and what makes you happy!!

[Miss M 54]

Restraint order - check

USCIS letter with evidence, sent - check

Divorce filed and sent for signature - check

Now I wait. It's in Gods hands from here.

I couldn't have done this without you guys. I've never had so much support in my entire life.

I owe you the world.

HOORAY!!!!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Restraint order - check

USCIS letter with evidence, sent - check

Divorce filed and sent for signature - check

Now I wait. It's in Gods hands from here.

I couldn't have done this without you guys. I've never had so much support in my entire life.

I owe you the world.

Don't forget the postoffice, and buy something for your self. a little "ME" gift.

[Samantha78 117]

Don't forget the postoffice, and buy something for your self. a little "ME" gift.

Lol!!!!!

I've never been happier in my life to waste $36.00 on postage as I was today.

And for myself.....I ate a burger. Lol. I eat only healthy foods so that was my treat.

Edited February 27, 2012 by sam&jensi

[Ellesse 11]

Sam

So sorry to hear about this after your previous thread. Congrats (that feels like the wrong word in the circumstances, but it's the best one I can come up with) on getting everything sorted today, and I hope that this week is a better one for you than the last one! It's got to be, right?

L

[Samantha78 117]

Sam

So sorry to hear about this after your previous thread. Congrats (that feels like the wrong word in the circumstances, but it's the best one I can come up with) on getting everything sorted today, and I hope that this week is a better one for you than the last one! It's got to be, right?

L

Thanks. And yea, if this weeks worse, I'm really screwed! Lol

[Laure&Colin 557]

Restraint order - check

USCIS letter with evidence, sent - check

Divorce filed and sent for signature - check

Now I wait. It's in Gods hands from here.

I couldn't have done this without you guys. I've never had so much support in my entire life.

I owe you the world.

Good job!!

Tonight you should take a nice bubbly bath and then watch a good movie with your kids, have some time off doing nothing but just trying to relax and enjoy life.

[Samantha78 117]

Good job!!

Tonight you should take a nice bubbly bath and then watch a good movie with your kids, have some time off doing nothing but just trying to relax and enjoy life.

I will definitely do something relaxing.