i want to get pregnant

[leasmith 0]

hello everyone. im27 years old and my husband is 52 years old iv been here in usa for 8 months and i really wanna have baby.i dont want to ask my husband to go and see a doctor because i dont wana insult him.. i just dont want him to feel that im having a doubt that he cant get me pregnant... can you guys give me advice what can i take like vitamins what so ever that dont need prscription from a doctor? thanks

[X Factor 1,112]

This can be a sensitive topic to discuss with your husband. You may want to go to the doctor to get a check up to eliminate that you are not the problem. Once that is done then you will know for sure it is your husband's issue. So I recommend as a first step to get check up. Alternatively you will evetually have to have a heart to heart talk with your husband. He might be aware he has an issue.

[luckytxn 2,264]

hello everyone. im27 years old and my husband is 52 years old iv been here in usa for 8 months and i really wanna have baby.i dont want to ask my husband to go and see a doctor because i dont wana insult him.. i just dont want him to feel that im having a doubt that he cant get me pregnant... can you guys give me advice what can i take like vitamins what so ever that dont need prscription from a doctor? thanks

If he hasn't had a vasectomy then don't worry. Just keep trying and trying and trying, if you catch my drift.

My wife is on my azz big time also to knock her up. Not only that but my new Mother-in-law apparently is going to die an unhappy woman if I fail at getting her more grandkids as she has stated to me numerous times. It is not like I don't want to but I am 52 years old myself and stress is not good for me. So try not to pressure your hubby.

[leasmith 0]

he dint under go vasectomy.. he's been telling me that its too early to see a doctor.. and might be we are both stress' and the more i force it to happen the more were gana get frustrated... he also drink beer evrynyt but not to the extend that he'l gt drunk....like 4 to 8 cans of coors light,,,,and everytime he had beer he wont get erection..sorry for the word i used.

[luckytxn 2,264]

In before the lock.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

he dint under go vasectomy.. he's been telling me that its too early to see a doctor.. and might be we are both stress' and the more i force it to happen the more were gana get frustrated... he also drink beer evrynyt but not to the extend that he'l gt drunk....like 4 to 8 cans of coors light,,,,and everytime he had beer he wont get erection..sorry for the word i used.

It sounds to me like he's not keeping his end of the marriage up.

[Penguin_ie 5,995]

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Op, keep in mind it takes the average couple 7 months to conceive, so you are still within the "normal" range. Are you keeping track of your fertility? There are several ways of doing that such as taking your temperature first thing in the morning, using ovulation sticks etc- google it. That may help, at least you'd know whne you are most fertile to seduce your husband (though may be best not to tell him when, so he doesn't get "performance anxiety"!).

[Leatherneck 693]

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Op, keep in mind it takes the average couple 7 months to conceive, so you are still within the "normal" range. Are you keeping track of your fertility? There are several ways of doing that such as taking your temperature first thing in the morning, using ovulation sticks etc- google it. That may help, at least you'd know whne you are most fertile to seduce your husband (though may be best not to tell him when, so he doesn't get "performance anxiety"!).

I agree here, track your fertility and when you're ovulating by using the tools available on the market that will help you to determine this and pay attention to your body each month as to how you feel 12-16 days after your last cycle. The window to conceive is very short, so get to him before he gets to the Coors.

Some good reading for you before you spend money for a doctor to get a check up.

1. http://www.early-pregnancy-tests.com/

2. http://www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/understandingovulation.html

Good luck!

[Nagishkaw 510]

At 52, does your husband even want to be a father?

[Ban Hammer 13,451]

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two words - thread bans. this is a sensitive topic, please refrain from the off the cuff commentary.

Edited February 23, 2012 by charles!

[SMOKE 1,426]

he dint under go vasectomy.. he's been telling me that its too early to see a doctor.. and might be we are both stress' and the more i force it to happen the more were gana get frustrated... he also drink beer evrynyt but not to the extend that he'l gt drunk....like 4 to 8 cans of coors light,,,,and everytime he had beer he wont get erection..sorry for the word i used.

google 'antler velvet'. tell him its for his heart health. you just better be ready for his 'healthy heart'

[MyLittlePony 340]

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[Calypso 464]

Don't completely rely on fertility calculators or ovulation calendars in monitoring your O day. Amazon has very affordable ovulation test strips that you may use and they are 95%-99% accurate.

You need more than luck but good luck anyway. Just make sure that you really wanna have kids though, not that your parents or your husband's parents want to see new grandchildren, or that it is a part of society's expectation that kids follow marriage, or that you want somebody to take care of you when you grow old. Be deliberate.

[luckytxn 2,264]

Don't completely rely on fertility calculators or ovulation calendars in monitoring your O day. Amazon has very affordable ovulation test strips that you may use and they are 95%-99% accurate.

You need more than luck but good luck anyway. Just make sure that you really wanna have kids though, not that your parents or your husband's parents want to see new grandchildren, or that it is a part of society's expectation that kids follow marriage, or that you want somebody to take care of you when you grow old. Be deliberate.

Please tell that to my wife. Maybe she will listen to you since you a girl.

[X Factor 1,112]

google 'antler velvet'. tell him its for his heart health. you just better be ready for his 'healthy heart'

Here is an article on antler velvet. I doubt whether it will help .... but you never know.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Velvet_antler