met fiance while still married but divorced now

[VanessaTony 3,567]

Why do you keep posting this stuff? We know all this. We've TOLD you your situation will most be an issue.

[Rebecca616 38]

Your fiancee has to know everything about you and if she didnt even know you were married when you met should be cause for concern. Also, why would you petition your fiancee if she might be pregnant by another man? From an outside point of view it doesnt seem like you two have a very honest relationship with each other.

Edited February 24, 2012 by Rebecca616

[rasta 37]

why would i petition if she is pregnant by another man? because i love her ?

relationship does not seem honest? what relationship is 100% honest and how many people that are married cheat? 55% ofr americans have cheated on their spouses.

but all in all i am ready to move to kenya to be with her if she gets denied. nothing can stop us from being together nothing

[Ben and Jill 37]

why would i petition if she is pregnant by another man? because i love her ?

relationship does not seem honest? what relationship is 100% honest and how many people that are married cheat? 55% ofr americans have cheated on their spouses.

but all in all i am ready to move to kenya to be with her if she gets denied. nothing can stop us from being together nothing

I am not sure how far along you are in the process...it would be helpful if you would please fill out your timeline

Just a thought...how pregnant is she??? Will her interview be scheduled BEFORE the baby is born? (highly unlikely if you just started the process) If not, what are you going to do if the Nairobi Embassy makes her take a DNA test and they find that the baby is not yours???? Do you think she will be granted a visa to the US? There is no way that will happen if the baby isn't yours. Just something to think about. I apologize for being judgmental, but I have to agree with Rebecca616.

Also, one more note...."what relationship is 100% honest"...just the simple fact that you said that isn't good. Relationships should be a 100% honest...and nobody should cheat on anybody, everrrrrrr.

Edited February 28, 2012 by Ben and Jill

[Peter_Pan 661]

I don't see why having a baby with someone else would make her ineligible. Granted, he would have to petition for the baby as well, which won't be an USC, but it isn't impossible or unheard of.

[Ben and Jill 37]

I don't see why having a baby with someone else would make her ineligible. Granted, he would have to petition for the baby as well, which won't be an USC, but it isn't impossible or unheard of.

I understand ~ was only giving my opinion as the Nairobi Embassy is not an easy Embassy to go through.

Edited February 28, 2012 by Ben and Jill

[S_R 148]

she was not aware of my relationship untill after the divorce

Red Flag.

[rasta 37]

red flag blue flag green flag.

i love her and we really dont have to live in the usa , we can live anywhere else in the world, if you really love someone you be with them regardless of the situation.

the only flag im not taking is the WHITE flag of surrender. because they can deny us a visa but cant deny us being together.

[C-ma'am 684]

red flag blue flag green flag.

i love her and we really dont have to live in the usa , we can live anywhere else in the world, if you really love someone you be with them regardless of the situation.

the only flag im not taking is the WHITE flag of surrender. because they can deny us a visa but cant deny us being together.

That's a great attitude! If you love each other, you do what you want.

As per the information that's been provided on your specific question; everyone is just letting you know that this could be a big issue.

So now, you have two choices:

1) File and see what happens

2) Don't file and go wherever the wind takes you with her.

Good luck and best wishes!

[rasta 37]

That's a great attitude! If you love each other, you do what you want.

As per the information that's been provided on your specific question; everyone is just letting you know that this could be a big issue.

So now, you have two choices:

1) File and see what happens

2) Don't file and go wherever the wind takes you with her.

Good luck and best wishes!

my situation is this i met her in 3 yrs ago , she has a 2 yrs old son . i met her while i was married but she didnt know untill after i got divorced, i filed my petition after i got divorced , petitioned approved by uscis, now it has been sent to the consulate , almost scheduling an interview in a month or so. medical and visa fee paid for both her and her son. i have phone records , pictures of us together , pictures of me attending her sons 1st Birthday, affidavit from her and my parents consenting to us getting married in the usa, 134 affidavit of support. employer letter , 5 years tax returns. income above 125%. divorce decree. mpesa receipts showing money sent to her from western union. she knows my whole family.

[C-ma'am 684]

my situation is this i met her in 3 yrs ago , she has a 2 yrs old son . i met her while i was married but she didnt know untill after i got divorced, i filed my petition after i got divorced , petitioned approved by uscis, now it has been sent to the consulate , almost scheduling an interview in a month or so. medical and visa fee paid for both her and her son. i have phone records , pictures of us together , pictures of me attending her sons 1st Birthday, affidavit from her and my parents consenting to us getting married in the usa, 134 affidavit of support. employer letter , 5 years tax returns. income above 125%. divorce decree. mpesa receipts showing money sent to her from western union. she knows my whole family.

I'm sorry, I had missed the part that you had already filed.

Then, I'm afraid, all you CAN do is wait. It's out of your control and nothing can be done until the interview happens and they give you an approval or denial.

Try to stay positive, perhaps (and God willing) everything will be ok and you have nothing to worry about; but, at least, now you know that this could be a really big problem. You didn't plan on it to being this way, but it is what it is.

Aside from the opinions on the experienced members, I don't see how anything else anyone can say, could solve or modify your own and unique process.

Step away from the computer.... this will only cause more anxiety and uncertainty. Like I said, this situation is beyond your control, or ours for that matter.......

[Xanax 349]

my situation is this i met her in 3 yrs ago , she has a 2 yrs old son . i met her while i was married but she didnt know untill after i got divorced, i filed my petition after i got divorced , petitioned approved by uscis, now it has been sent to the consulate , almost scheduling an interview in a month or so. medical and visa fee paid for both her and her son. i have phone records , pictures of us together , pictures of me attending her sons 1st Birthday, affidavit from her and my parents consenting to us getting married in the usa, 134 affidavit of support. employer letter , 5 years tax returns. income above 125%. divorce decree. mpesa receipts showing money sent to her from western union. she knows my whole family.

That's all a good start.

It you piled the I129-F after you were free to marry it should not be a problem. It you were not free to marry you will probably be denied.

My advice would be to find out if the child is yours, it it is not it might be hard to take them from the their home country and them a USC.

Relationships should be honest, in my opinion and I would suggest transpancy in your relationship, especially now. They can ask almost anything in the interview and your fiancée must know the answer(s) or she could be denied.

I would look into what it takes to live in her country just in case as well and be prepared to defile IF your petition is denied or for RFE's / AP.

Edited February 28, 2012 by BrittandDan

[Hank_ 9,174]

why would i petition if she is pregnant by another man? because i love her ?

relationship does not seem honest? what relationship is 100% honest and how many people that are married cheat? 55% ofr americans have cheated on their spouses.

but all in all i am ready to move to kenya to be with her if she gets denied. nothing can stop us from being together nothing

now that is a basis for a lasting relationship!

[Ben and Jill 37]

I'm sorry, I had missed the part that you had already filed.

If he would fill out his timeline, it would make it easier for us to help him, and we would have known all this already. Geez!

now that is a basis for a lasting relationship!

Unbelievable isn't it?? Whatever at this point. I wish them the best.

Edited February 28, 2012 by Ben and Jill

[rasta 37]

living in kenya is not a problem, i own a house in kenya , and i have dual citizenship kenyan and american.

being together is what is important, this is just a hurdle. good luck to everyone.