Any February 2012 filers?

[Darkmoonfaerie 19]

HAHAHA!! I know, right? I'm sure we've all been in situations where we hear about people doing "long distance" relationships only to find out that they're a few hours away (by plane or by car). I know all of us here would think, "Psh! Please."

I've done 1hr by car for a few yrs and then did Massachusetts to Iowa for 7 yrs. I went away for school and left my then bf at home. I thought that was just the worst thing ever. Then I moved home, and we split up shortly after. I swore I would NEVER do another LDR......a few months later I got insomnia while house sitting, logged on to Facebook and that all went right out the window. Now I wish it was simple as a last minute $100 plane ticket and 2 hrs in flight anytime I want to see my sweetie

[kimmie 2]

HAHAHA!! I know, right? I'm sure we've all been in situations where we hear about people doing "long distance" relationships only to find out that they're a few hours away (by plane or by car). I know all of us here would think, "Psh! Please."

LOL! I have this one FB friend that keeps posting about how she only sees her BF every few weeks and how hard it is and all I want to do is unfriend her because she has NO idea what hard is - that and she can't spell. And then I come on here and read about couples who haven't seen each other in a year, who have to schedule when they can talk, who have been waiting for a lot longer than I have, and it puts it in perspective a little bit. Plus I'm antsy because he will be here in 2 weeks and time seems to have slowed to a glacial pace...guess I should go dust off the old treadmill and put my butt back where he remembers it. :-p

[OrderofProtection 42]

that and she can't spell. :-p

That just made my Saturday, thanks kimmie

[R&RM 11]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today. There's been one major issue I've been waiting for him to make up his mind about and he finally has and it qualifies as an irreconcilable difference sadly. Heartbroken doesn't begin to describe it, I'm in that phase, I can't stop crying, i won't be able to sleep, it'll be tough going for a really long time. Plus I will have my son to break the news to and that is the worst of part of it all. I've already started re-initiating him to our "just-the-two-of-us" theme. I also have practical matters to attend to as I begin to reconsider the direction of my life. In a strange way, I am still so glad because I have read too many sob stories on here, I didn't want to be one of those people who find themselves stranded in a foreign country because something went awry so when this issue came to my attention, I opted to deal with it head on so that no matter what, there are no surprises in the future. So, I'm a wreck right now, but thank God, I'm a wreck in my home country and I will figure it out. I just had to let you guys know, you will inevitably be hearing a lot less from me but I will all the same update my timeline when NOA2 comes in for the benefit of other members in the future.

I wish all of you so much joy and happiness in your lives, the visa is just the beginning, I'm praying most of all that the rest of your lives be filled with love and peace as He intended for us.

[MissK 5]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today. There's been one major issue I've been waiting for him to make up his mind about and he finally has and it qualifies as an irreconcilable difference sadly. Heartbroken doesn't begin to describe it, I'm in that phase, I can't stop crying, i won't be able to sleep, it'll be tough going for a really long time. Plus I will have my son to break the news to and that is the worst of part of it all. I've already started re-initiating him to our "just-the-two-of-us" theme. I also have practical matters to attend to as I begin to reconsider the direction of my life. In a strange way, I am still so glad because I have read too many sob stories on here, I didn't want to be one of those people who find themselves stranded in a foreign country because something went awry so when this issue came to my attention, I opted to deal with it head on so that no matter what, there are no surprises in the future. So, I'm a wreck right now, but thank God, I'm a wreck in my home country and I will figure it out. I just had to let you guys know, you will inevitably be hearing a lot less from me but I will all the same update my timeline when NOA2 comes in for the benefit of other members in the future.

I wish all of you so much joy and happiness in your lives, the visa is just the beginning, I'm praying most of all that the rest of your lives be filled with love and peace as He intended for us.

Oh, I'm so sorry you are going through this.... It's so sad when things end, but if it's really something the two of you can't work out then all in all it's better like you say to know now than later....

All the best to you and your future!!

[StarGirl 13]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today.

Hi Rose, I just read your post about you breaking up with your fiancé, and... I am so-so sorry ((( You sound like an absolutely amazing, caring person, and I hate it happened to you. I just hope that everything works out the best possible way for you. Please, be strong.. and keep in mind that it might be the end of your K-1 journey, but your whole life is in front of you.

and 100 HUGS. Eli

[afoyoswa 178]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today. There's been one major issue I've been waiting for him to make up his mind about and he finally has and it qualifies as an irreconcilable difference sadly. Heartbroken doesn't begin to describe it, I'm in that phase, I can't stop crying, i won't be able to sleep, it'll be tough going for a really long time. Plus I will have my son to break the news to and that is the worst of part of it all. I've already started re-initiating him to our "just-the-two-of-us" theme. I also have practical matters to attend to as I begin to reconsider the direction of my life. In a strange way, I am still so glad because I have read too many sob stories on here, I didn't want to be one of those people who find themselves stranded in a foreign country because something went awry so when this issue came to my attention, I opted to deal with it head on so that no matter what, there are no surprises in the future. So, I'm a wreck right now, but thank God, I'm a wreck in my home country and I will figure it out. I just had to let you guys know, you will inevitably be hearing a lot less from me but I will all the same update my timeline when NOA2 comes in for the benefit of other members in the future.

I wish all of you so much joy and happiness in your lives, the visa is just the beginning, I'm praying most of all that the rest of your lives be filled with love and peace as He intended for us.

Oh Rose, I'm so, so sorry to hear this. You'll be in our thoughts.

[Darkmoonfaerie 19]

Rose, I'm so sorry for what you're going through. It's so sad that it didn't work. You have the right outlook though. Best to know now before you've made the huge changes. You will get through this and know that we're all here for you *huge hugs*

[kimmie 2]

I'm so sorry to hear that, Rose. I hope everything works out for you in the future. Please keep in touch and let us know how you are getting on. Thinking of you. xxx

[Pillo 0]

I also sent out the i-129f in February, I'm going keep an eye on this thread.

Good luck to everyone.

[kimmie 2]

I also sent out the i-129f in February, I'm going keep an eye on this thread.

Good luck to everyone.

Welcome Pillo!! :-) Hope it's a quick journey for you!

[KTandTommy 31]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today.

I'm so sad for you

I guess in a way, like you say, it's good that you worked this out before travelling to another country and uprooting yourself. But terribly heartbreaking nonetheless.

I wish you all the best in your future, and that your broken heart is mended in time.

[StarGirl 13]

I also sent out the i-129f in February, I'm going keep an eye on this thread.

Good luck to everyone.

Hello, Pillo and welcome

Edited May 6, 2012 by StarGirl

[Aurelya 0]

Hi gang,

It's a sad day for me, the day this journey becomes irrelevant to me. We broke up today. There's been one major issue I've been waiting for him to make up his mind about and he finally has and it qualifies as an irreconcilable difference sadly. Heartbroken doesn't begin to describe it, I'm in that phase, I can't stop crying, i won't be able to sleep, it'll be tough going for a really long time. Plus I will have my son to break the news to and that is the worst of part of it all. I've already started re-initiating him to our "just-the-two-of-us" theme. I also have practical matters to attend to as I begin to reconsider the direction of my life. In a strange way, I am still so glad because I have read too many sob stories on here, I didn't want to be one of those people who find themselves stranded in a foreign country because something went awry so when this issue came to my attention, I opted to deal with it head on so that no matter what, there are no surprises in the future. So, I'm a wreck right now, but thank God, I'm a wreck in my home country and I will figure it out. I just had to let you guys know, you will inevitably be hearing a lot less from me but I will all the same update my timeline when NOA2 comes in for the benefit of other members in the future.

I wish all of you so much joy and happiness in your lives, the visa is just the beginning, I'm praying most of all that the rest of your lives be filled with love and peace as He intended for us.

I'm so sorry Rose!

Take Care!

I also sent out the i-129f in February, I'm going keep an eye on this thread.

Good luck to everyone.

WELCOME!!!

[Darkmoonfaerie 19]

Welcome Pillo