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[bibizuca 0]

Please i need some informations is very important! I dont know what i gona do.

i came here in 2009 whirh K1 visa. maried at 26 days and he dinied make the 2 process... saying was alot money... any away. after 2 years and 5 months im here we send the papers . Now i have my Work and trip autoriz.

WAIting for the process...

The poit is 2 weeks ago he said looking into my eyes " i know ypu just waiting for u green card. after this you gona live me"

That hurts so bad. i have a idea what he have in hes mid, but hurt when i listen.

When i was pregnant i was decid goin back to my country. and he act understand etc.

our baby born and im very nervous because he is so streesfull all the rime. treet me bad. Never beat me but dond do me right!

I promiss( swer) if i can i retourn today with my chid i will. bur i cant live live like this! I asked to him for we make a marriege terapy and his excuse is: he is tired because work much.

some time i want leave him. But i dont want be confusef like this kida women come for GC! I do not!!!!

He humilate me, control me. yell me. just for a idea: he want i have a lean drive licend. becase like this i cant go alone.. when pregnant my counsi was gona send me a airple ticket for stay a weekend , he said no if i go he will start go out alone. .I just image: if i was a poor( what i do not!)

Now he dont support me what life i have in my country. Was not poor!

My counsi sayd: he make this whith me beciuse he know i dont do a divorce becouse im very clear: " divorce just if u be a unfaifull( have outer woman) or beat me! What he dont do! ah he keeping saing job?at home... ah pleases. im die sufocTe!

Please i know i type alot worg englis if u understand what i can do for prove to imigration what he do to me! tks for everybody anser!

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Post has been moved from Immigration News forum to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits forum as a more likely place for the OP to get useful advice

[Leatherneck 693]

It is very obvious you're in lots of emotional pain over this. Is there anyone you can actually talk about this with, like a sister, brother, other family members or even a neighbor? If he's not willing to get counseling, which sounds like would be a good first step here, then no one can force him.

Do you two share any friends that maybe can talk with him about how this is hurting you? Does he have family nearby that you can talk with about this? What about religious help? Do you attend church, a mosque or synagogue where you can reach out for help and counseling?