A final goodbye

[Barbie_Vazquez 10]

Dear VJS even though i havent been here u guys have been Awesome.and there really are a lot of lovely people here.am glad i met u all,esp midge mij,zeebee,camille,and many others whose names ive forgotten but have been very helpful.Sadly there wont be any K1 for me anymore,since my fiancee said hes scared he would get in trouble if he files for me because its been just a year after his divorce and he thinks prolonging the wait will make our petition be aproved .Honestly its been a few months but am really fustrated already and to hear him say that really hurt,my reason,we made a decision together,but it seems to me that he isnt willing to risk it all for me,am young, i love him with all my heart and not because of status,i honestly love him and have never for a split second thought of cheating on him,i put my life on hold for him,but i honestly have to find myself,cos waiting around seems like forever to me,considering the fact that we are already miles apart anything can happen along the way.i Hvae decided that we both go our seperate ways pursuing our dreams,and leave the rest to God.I have applied for a shool and france and waiting upon approval.i hope the time will help me forget.thank u all once again.

almost wife to be

Oh Rossie I am really sorry to hear this honey. I was hoping you would be joining me in this long journey. If he is divorced and free to marry he should be fine filing the I-129F. I wish you happiness.

[Barbie_Vazquez 10]

Oh Rossie I am really sorry to hear this honey. I was hoping you would be joining me in this long journey. If he is divorced and free to marry he should be fine filing the I-129F. I wish you happiness.

Camille

[AmberOctober 25]

Everything happens for the best, always!

[Pabe 2]

Sorry to hear that!!

We filed the K1 the very next day my husband got his divorce degree from the court house, so maybe a week after the actual divorce date. We had no problems getting the K1 (this was last year) and now we are happily married. So unless he has some other reasons not to file, I would say go for it.

[Scafidi454 22]

Dear VJS even though i havent been here u guys have been Awesome.and there really are a lot of lovely people here.am glad i met u all,esp midge mij,zeebee,camille,and many others whose names ive forgotten but have been very helpful.Sadly there wont be any K1 for me anymore,since my fiancee said hes scared he would get in trouble if he files for me because its been just a year after his divorce and he thinks prolonging the wait will make our petition be aproved .Honestly its been a few months but am really fustrated already and to hear him say that really hurt,my reason,we made a decision together,but it seems to me that he isnt willing to risk it all for me,am young, i love him with all my heart and not because of status,i honestly love him and have never for a split second thought of cheating on him,i put my life on hold for him,but i honestly have to find myself,cos waiting around seems like forever to me,considering the fact that we are already miles apart anything can happen along the way.i Hvae decided that we both go our seperate ways pursuing our dreams,and leave the rest to God.I have applied for a shool and france and waiting upon approval.i hope the time will help me forget.thank u all once again.

almost wife to be

Aren't you the same person who had harassment troubles at the POE?

[Marah Sabir 0]

Oh good luck to you on your new journey. Sorry to hear that things did not work out. May God guide you to the right path.

Edited February 8, 2012 by Sam and Abd

[KemalTuanaYalcin 16]

Dear VJS even though i havent been here u guys have been Awesome.and there really are a lot of lovely people here.am glad i met u all,esp midge mij,zeebee,camille,and many others whose names ive forgotten but have been very helpful.Sadly there wont be any K1 for me anymore,since my fiancee said hes scared he would get in trouble if he files for me because its been just a year after his divorce and he thinks prolonging the wait will make our petition be aproved .Honestly its been a few months but am really fustrated already and to hear him say that really hurt,my reason,we made a decision together,but it seems to me that he isnt willing to risk it all for me,am young, i love him with all my heart and not because of status,i honestly love him and have never for a split second thought of cheating on him,i put my life on hold for him,but i honestly have to find myself,cos waiting around seems like forever to me,considering the fact that we are already miles apart anything can happen along the way.i Hvae decided that we both go our seperate ways pursuing our dreams,and leave the rest to God.I have applied for a shool and france and waiting upon approval.i hope the time will help me forget.thank u all once again.

almost wife to be

I am very sorry to hear this and I cannot assume the emotions you are feeling right now. But some advise if you don't mind. Divorce in of itself is an emotionally difficult life event, whether it was wanted, needed etc. Although your fiance has made the decision that they are not ready to move forward now, that does not always mean that they won't be ready down the road. However, for you, see this as an opportunity to get to do more for yourself, expand your horizons, get out and see the world, possibilities are endless. You said you are young, take it from someone who married young initially, I wish I had take more time to get to know myself. Take this opportunity to focus on yourself. We never know what the future has in store for us, take it one day at a time and if it is mean to be that you two end up being together, them you will, and maybe as you venture out on this new journey alone you find someone who would be better for you in the long run. In any event, you dont have to say your goodbyes to anyone here, just because you are not currently going through an immigration event, if you've made friends, keep 'em, enjoy them and and build those relationships. Anyway, I wish you the very best, I am sorry you are hurting but each new day the pain will subside and hopefully more joyous events will take its place. Best of luck to you

[positive girl:) 1]

God has always better plans, just trust Him in all things... Sometimes it might not look to good in our eyes but there are always positive reasons why things happen... Goodluck!!!

[wife2be. 7]

I am very sorry to hear this and I cannot assume the emotions you are feeling right now. But some advise if you don't mind. Divorce in of itself is an emotionally difficult life event, whether it was wanted, needed etc. Although your fiance has made the decision that they are not ready to move forward now, that does not always mean that they won't be ready down the road. However, for you, see this as an opportunity to get to do more for yourself, expand your horizons, get out and see the world, possibilities are endless. You said you are young, take it from someone who married young initially, I wish I had take more time to get to know myself. Take this opportunity to focus on yourself. We never know what the future has in store for us, take it one day at a time and if it is mean to be that you two end up being together, them you will, and maybe as you venture out on this new journey alone you find someone who would be better for you in the long run. In any event, you dont have to say your goodbyes to anyone here, just because you are not currently going through an immigration event, if you've made friends, keep 'em, enjoy them and and build those relationships. Anyway, I wish you the very best, I am sorry you are hurting but each new day the pain will subside and hopefully more joyous events will take its place. Best of luck to you

WELL WE MADE UP I GUESS I OVER REACTED,AM GRATEFULL TO GOD FOR HIM,HES BEEN SO SUPPORTIVE AND LOVING,ABOVE ALL HE TREATS ME LIKE A QUEEN.WE SEND OUR DOCS ON FRIDAY.THANKS ALL OF YOU FOR THE LOVE AND SUPPORT

[wife2be. 7]

GREAT NEWS EVERYONE .WE MADE UP SFTER ALL THE CONFUSION.WE ARE BACK TOGETHER I GUESS WE REALISED THAT LOVE ALWAYS WINS AT THE END OF EVERY FIGHT.WE WOULD BE SENDING OUR DOCS ON FRIDAY!.ANY TIPS?.THANK YOU SO MUCH TO ALL VJS LOVE YOU ALL-WIFE TO BE