CHANGE OF ADDRESS

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

Hi Everyone

We are having a very difficult time with my parents they have threaten us and kicked us out if the house casue ( we wanted our own place(ironic isnt it? )) Now with the change of address the 10 days havents passed yet its only been 3 cause well with all the moving. My dad called immigration or got in contact with them saying we had left, they printed out the AR-11 ( wich we already have and filled out and sending it on monday) He however wants the letter with all my husbands personal info. He will and has used my personal info. before and against me I know and he had said so himself he will do the same to my husband, therfor I dont want to hand him the form. He him self if not mistaken he has to send a form aswell (form I-865) indicating he knows were we are. (and they do they have been around to see were we are living)

He has been trying to pose as a lawyer to scare us off. I dont know what to do If anyone has a ny comments for any thing we can tyry as a solution it will be deeply appriciated.

He says he will do and stop at nothign to get him deported he wants him out of here.... I understood that the AOS he would be bound untill he becomes a USC or if he chooses to stay as a resident its 10 years a r 40 quartes of work right ????

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP US !!!!!

Yale

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

question .......

I know I have to fill out an I-865 with our new add.

However does my dad when he fill his out doe he put in His add or our new add. ????

[diadromous mermaid 36]

question .......

I know I have to fill out an I-865 with our new add.

However does my dad when he fill his out doe he put in His add or our new add. ????

Please calm down. The alien files an AR-11 with the Service within 10 days of moving. The sponsor or joint sponsor of an immigrant only files an I-865 if the they move. You are the primary sponsor of your alien spouse and will have an obligation to report your new address within 30 days. If your Dad has not moved, he does not have an obligation to report.

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

but does he still have to inform that my husband and I have moved with an I-865 as well ???

[aussiewench 9]

but does he still have to inform that my husband and I have moved with an I-865 as well ???

Yale,

As DM stated, there is nothing that is required from your father unless he moves. That is his only obligation. You dont have to give him any information that you dont wish to.

*hugs* darlin', how awful for you both

[meauxna 15]

but does he still have to inform that my husband and I have moved with an I-865 as well ???

Yale, calmate mija!

Just what DM said.

Bret files AR-11.

You file I-865.

Your dad needs a spanking and he does not file anything.

Immigration is not going to talk to him about Bret's case--it doesn't matter that he's your dad. Bret has not done anything wrong, and your dad can not 'get him deported' for anything. If you want to be sharp with your dad, tell him to take his I-864 to a contract lawyer and he will find out that there is nothing that Papa can do about that contract now for a long, long time. But don't start a war with your parents. I hope this will all blow over very soon and you will all be a family again.

Plus, you guys can't move off the island until I've been there to visit.

xxxmeauxna

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

Thanks a ton Mo, Diddie, Wench always being there for us! *hugs*

One more question, although im the primary sponsor, and he's the co-sponsor, he makes 10 times th amount i make, which in effect i guess would make him the sponsor,...does it really work that way? or i still stand as the primary sponsor even though i dont make enough???

Well, my dad did something a while back which he'

d been doing for a while and supporting it. Brett spoke against it because it kept continuing ( my brother abusing his wife, adultry and other things) and Brett as i said wasnt going to let that continue, spoke against it.

When my dad got caught out for supporting it, THATS when he got like he is now,...my dad is giving out my social security number and all my personal information, and he's "trying" to do the same with Brett, but to use it in a bad manner henceforth why we dont trust him.

My dad has alraedy tried to pose as his lawyer, (which we're going to go visit on monday to inform his lawyer that he all of a sudden has a "twin" lol because that isnt right, and my dad made up all these legal documents, using my dad's lawyers information WITHOUT the lawyers knowledge or concent....now does that seem right to you???

thanks everyone for your replies *hugs* love ya's!

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Thanks a ton Mo, Diddie, Wench always being there for us! *hugs*

One more question, although im the primary sponsor, and he's the co-sponsor, he makes 10 times th amount i make, which in effect i guess would make him the sponsor,...does it really work that way? or i still stand as the primary sponsor even though i dont make enough???

Well, my dad did something a while back which he'

d been doing for a while and supporting it. Brett spoke against it because it kept continuing ( my brother abusing his wife, adultry and other things) and Brett as i said wasnt going to let that continue, spoke against it.

When my dad got caught out for supporting it, THATS when he got like he is now,...my dad is giving out my social security number and all my personal information, and he's "trying" to do the same with Brett, but to use it in a bad manner henceforth why we dont trust him.

My dad has alraedy tried to pose as his lawyer, (which we're going to go visit on monday to inform his lawyer that he all of a sudden has a "twin" lol because that isnt right, and my dad made up all these legal documents, using my dad's lawyers information WITHOUT the lawyers knowledge or concent....now does that seem right to you???

thanks everyone for your replies *hugs* love ya's!

Regardless of your ability to meet the financial requirements of the Affidavit of Support, the spouse of the immigrant in a marriage-based case is the primary sponsor. So, simply put..no Dad will not be considered the primary sponsor (he's a joint sponsor).

[morocco4ever 63]

Wow, I don't know what started this entire mess, but it sounds nasty. It sounds like your dad has some problems, and I think it is best if you don't give him ANY more personal information.

Now if I am understanding right, he signed a contract with the government to be a co-sponsor. From everything I have read once you have signed that then you are bound. He can't go back on it.

I hope you work out the problems with your family, but I will be honest with you, don't EVER share anything personal with your father and don't do anything that requires any of his assistance. I think if you do you will have an ongoing problem with him. Cut off all of this help and it cuts off his power to control you.

Good luck.

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

thankx

i thoguth i would have to go back ther and hand him the papers... he thinks he is all that smart threatening me and Brett saying he already talkedto lawyers and #######.... he handed me a manila envelope with the supossed add for the lawyer that is advising him .. but that was in there was the AR-11 and everything else downloades papers from the net and highligted i thought a lawyer would be a tad bit more proffesional dont you think??? but this makes me feel way better knowing he doesnt need anythign from our part we already are sending ours on monday casue we werent sure but everythign is already filled.

Wow, I don't know what started this entire mess, but it sounds nasty. It sounds like your dad has some problems, and I think it is best if you don't give him ANY more personal information.

Now if I am understanding right, he signed a contract with the government to be a co-sponsor. From everything I have read once you have signed that then you are bound. He can't go back on it.

I hope you work out the problems with your family, but I will be honest with you, don't EVER share anything personal with your father and don't do anything that requires any of his assistance. I think if you do you will have an ongoing problem with him. Cut off all of this help and it cuts off his power to control you.

Good luck.

Thats what we are trying to do but we cant seem to get rid of him... its been almost 4 months since we have actually sat dowen and have normal human being civilized conversation...... were not htere anymore (thankgoodness) we just finished moving our stuff today and now he still keeps on with this ####### WILL IT EVER END !?!?!?!?!?!?!? but yes your absolutly right if i dont give him info (wich we wount) he doesnt have anypower and thats whats eating him alive not being able to control the ones around him.

[meauxna 15]

When my dad got caught out for supporting it, THATS when he got like he is now,...my dad is giving out my social security number and all my personal information, and he's "trying" to do the same with Brett, but to use it in a bad manner henceforth why we dont trust him.

My dad has alraedy tried to pose as his lawyer, (which we're going to go visit on monday to inform his lawyer that he all of a sudden has a "twin" lol because that isnt right, and my dad made up all these legal documents, using my dad's lawyers information WITHOUT the lawyers knowledge or concent....now does that seem right to you???

No, what you've written does not seem right. If it's true, it's very serious. My personal advice is that it is time to cut the apron strings as the saying goes, and for you and Bret to be independant adults. Moving out is a huge step toward that, and it might take awhile for Papa to understand that you two are cleaved to each other now and it's time for him to butt out of your legal affairs. If you guys are going to church, it's time to talk to the boss there, IMO.

Not knowing anything about your family, who can tell you how to go about this? No one. But I sincerely encourage you to all do your best to bury this issue and get back together. The way you've told the story, Dad is acting crazy. If I were you, I would show this thread, or tell this story, to a non-family member who knows you all and make sure you are seeing Dad's side before you do anything too permanent.

[Yodrak 7]

Madame-Butterfy,

Read the first paragraph of the I-865 instructions (when and why to use the form), and the form itself (what information for who).

Yodrak

but does he still have to inform that my husband and I have moved with an I-865 as well ???