Looking for a good investigator

[lcortes53 0]

A very close friend of mine in the Philippines has made several claims about the infidelity of my significant other. Many of these instances coincide with periods of time in which I could not get in contact with her. For example I wouldn't hear from her for 2 or 3 days straight. When she would finally contact me she would say that she didn't have load and there was no load station. I plan on filling for divorce but want the supporting of a Private Investigator to support it. Does anyone know any reputable investigators????

[Enigma11561 336]

All an investigator will do is confirm or deny your suspicions. The fact that you no longer trust her, in my opinion, means your relationship is becoming unglued.That would be enough for me to divorce, regardless of what an investigator will find. Save your money.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

I agree with Enigma but if you really want solid proof it sounds like your friend might be in a position to provide some.

All I've ever heard about PI in the PH is that you're a waste of money.

[Brian121957 43]

I would be cautious of what this friend has said. If they really know so much as facts and they are your friend then they should be able to back it up with exact details(name,place.time). As friendly as the Filipinos are some times they just like to talk and can be real back stabbers for the strangest reasons.

Next time you can't reach her on the phone, try www.aryty.com and send a load to her phone. It only takes about 30 seconds to get a load sent right from you PC.

[pinoygwapo 1]

Please do not cloud yourself with negative reports from a close friend. Perhaps claims were all hoax and tailored for you to loather your significant other. Talk to her in person, pour out your heart, but don't judge. See what your significant other has to say. Cheers.

[Deputy Purple 1,294]

Please do not cloud yourself with negative reports from a close friend. Perhaps claims were all hoax and tailored for you to loather your significant other. Talk to her in person, pour out your heart, but don't judge. See what your significant other has to say. Cheers.

I would agree that it's quite possibly "Crab Mentality" as all you have are unsubstantiated reports from your friend but...

If you trust a friend more than your trust your wife (who should be your best friend and so much more) then there are deeper problems in the marriage...

[lcortes53 0]

I would agree that it's quite possibly "Crab Mentality" as all you have are unsubstantiated reports from your friend but...

If you trust a friend more than your trust your wife (who should be your best friend and so much more) then there are deeper problems in the marriage...

Sooooooo much good advice that I probably needed to hear. Too much time deployed and too many horror stories of cheating wives and gf.... maybe its time I choose my friends wiser and forget the bad things that happen in my past.

Consider this thread complete

[Tahoma 2,292]

No contact for two or three days? Something is wrong with that picture.

No place to buy load? I don't believe it.

If you need further proof...check this out.

[Ban Hammer 13,695]

Consider this thread complete

is that a request for closing it?

[mr and mrs 187]

i took it as that.

[Ban Hammer 13,695]

thread closed. if op didn't mean for this to be closed, pm me.

Edited January 20, 2012 by charles!