Petition sent back to NVC at interview

[NY_BX 397]

We had all these things but they refused to look at anything. He only has the same friends I have and I have his facebook password.

He has done nothing wrong. We were in background checks forever. It took from November 2010 to the end of August 2011 just to get the NOA2. This is just a sad situtation. The good news is that one day we will live together even it is not in the United States.

As I understand how easy it is to turn a blind eye to your spouse, please look at this with fresh eyes and include him in your critical analysis. He did SOMETHING WRONG. Maybe it wasn't wrong to you, but it certainly was wrong to the embassy. There's a reason why they asked him over and over again "how did you ask her to marry you?" I agree, he may have another facebook account and out of nerves he might've given them his private account's password (which defeats the purpose).

I think you should continue to email and try to get answers.

Good luck to you.

[Laure&Colin 558]

As I understand how easy it is to turn a blind eye to your spouse, please look at this with fresh eyes and include him in your critical analysis. He did SOMETHING WRONG. Maybe it wasn't wrong to you, but it certainly was wrong to the embassy. There's a reason why they asked him over and over again "how did you ask her to marry you?" I agree, he may have another facebook account and out of nerves he might've given them his private account's password (which defeats the purpose).

I think you should continue to email and try to get answers.

Good luck to you.

I think you guys are being a little harsh with the OP. We DON'T KNOW why the husband's visa was denied. Saying he has a "secret" facebook account to entertain ohter girls is pure speculation, not to say invention and I don't think it's particularly helpful.

The top priority is for the OP to learn what the denial is based on, from the embassy point of view. The husband already said he doesn't know why it happened. Harassing him and reproaching him the outcome of the interview sounds useless to me right now.

You're missing the point where the OP says he was in background checks for an incredibly long time at USCIS stage. They were not looking at his facebook account at that time. There was already a red flag in this case. It seems credible to me that it is related to the age difference, but we don't have all the information the COs had, for all we know he might have a criminal record or something else.

[NY_BX 397]

I think you guys are being a little harsh with the OP. We DON'T KNOW why the husband's visa was denied. Saying he has a "secret" facebook account to entertain ohter girls is pure speculation, not to say invention and I don't think it's particularly helpful.

The top priority is for the OP to learn what the denial is based on, from the embassy point of view. The husband already said he doesn't know why it happened. Harassing him and reproaching him the outcome of the interview sounds useless to me right now.

You're missing the point where the OP says he was in background checks for an incredibly long time at USCIS stage. They were not looking at his facebook account at that time. There was already a red flag in this case. It seems credible to me that it is related to the age difference, but we don't have all the information the COs had, for all we know he might have a criminal record or something else.

Uh- who said he has a secret facebook account to entertain other girls? Who said she should harrass or reproach him (or the outcome of the interview)?

I personally never meant the guy is cheating on her. What I mean is, she claims he did nothing wrong.... well, maybe he did. She needs to look at this with all the pieces of the puzzle, including him. That's all.

[Miss smarty pants 84]

Or.....maybe the consular had bad coffee, was impatient, and was already biased before it was even his turn. It is all speculation. Nobody knows. It could be much simpler than has been speculated. Guessing doesnt help.