how many would do it again

[brandonbeth 2]

If God forbid your marriage did not work out and you ended up in divorce, would you consider doing this process for a second time?

[brian_n_phuong 193]

If God forbid your marriage did not work out and you ended up in divorce, would you consider doing this process for a second time?

I am ! I just choose a different continent this time. So much for Europe, and hope for better luck with Asia.

[Enigma11561 336]

I am an older guy so...heck no.

[K&E2009 71]

If God forbid your marriage did not work out and you ended up in divorce, would you consider doing this process for a second time?

'This process'... as in bringing a foreign fiance(e) to America?

Well, I found the love of my life in Korea. She is American, I am Irish. Neither of us ever went there to 'find a foreigner'. So, to answer, I would do it if I happened to meet someone of a different nationality to me, yes. But, I wouldn't go out of my way to 'find' someone to love who was foreign.

[wee carrington 33]

'This process'... as in bringing a foreign fiance(e) to America?

Well, I found the love of my life in Korea. She is American, I am Irish. Neither of us ever went there to 'find a foreigner'. So, to answer, I would do it if I happened to meet someone of a different nationality to me, yes. But, I wouldn't go out of my way to 'find' someone to love who was foreign.

My thoughts exactly. If I wanted a specific 'breed' I'd get a dog.

[K&E2009 71]

My thoughts exactly. If I wanted a specific 'breed' I'd get a dog.

[El Cachalote 12]

I cannot say if I would or would not. It is human nature to want to be with someone...and I don't know what I'd do and frankly...I hadn't thought about it until you posted the question. "Que sera sera"!

[Hank_ 9,174]

"... if I was looking for a specific breed I would get a dog."

:rofl:

Excellent answer!

I didn't start out looking for a foreigner, but through some nudging from a good friend it happened.

Would I do it again... if ? Bite your tongue!!!

Edited January 2, 2012 by Hank_Amy

[carolynhotstuff 252]

My husband and I have had a very long, hard visa journey and one thing I have learned is that I never want to go through this again.

[Darnell 8,478]

The K-1 process? Heck No.

I'd move to her country, where ever that is, set up as landed gentry, however is possible to do it, there.

I don't see that happening with my wife and I, though - to divorce -we're extremely happy and there's money in the bank - I see her every three or four months.

[GnBnL 50]

I would say I would absolutely do it again...next time, I would know exactly what to expect, and it would make it so much easier!

[pilotdude 1]

I'm doing it again and am wiser about choosing a well-matched partner and what it takes to make a marriage flourish.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

It all depends on the person. If my husband and I were to not work out, I would definitely head back to Canada, though. If I happened to meet an American man and fall in love again, I would at least know what I was in for.

[mr and mrs 187]

My thoughts exactly. If I wanted a specific 'breed' I'd get a dog.

there are LOTS of people who shop by 'breed' for partners here on VJ. and websites to help them do it.

[Misis Salome 2]

I probably will not...besides by the time I think of doing it again, they probably change the policies...different problems and level of stress again.