Does it matter?

[ndu26 114]

Hello everyone!!!!

HAppy New Year all.

As silly as this may sound, does anyone out there have any experiences of stories on whether COs take into consideration who does more of the calling?

I am in this relationship and so far everything is going on well but nothing set in stone yet. Because of the nature of my job, we are better able to communicate at particular times of the day than others. usually when he initiates the call and runs out of minutes, I call back (more convenient and cheaper too; I use rebtel). Now I am the USC and female and I was wondering if some CO will frown at the pattern.

A lot of times he calls but never gets through to me if I am unable to talk at the time. When I see the missed calls I call back when possible and we can end up talking for several hours. Since the call log will show I initiated such a long call, I was wondering if this could count against us in the eventuality that we need it.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Never heard of such a thing.

FWIW I did ALL the calling since I got the cheap rates. Alla would "ring my phone" if she wanted to talk and then I would call her back. Much cheaper that way. Had anyone asked we would have told them that.

[Neonred 3,774]

  On 1/2/2012 at 10:40 AM, Gary and Alla said:

Never heard of such a thing.

FWIW I did ALL the calling since I got the cheap rates. Alla would "ring my phone" if she wanted to talk and then I would call her back. Much cheaper that way. Had anyone asked we would have told them that.

LOL That's exactly what we did too.

[catheaven 3]

i think this is standard practice when it comes to long distance relationships-- im doubtful it would matter!

[ndu26 114]

  On 1/2/2012 at 3:43 PM, catheaven said:

i think this is standard practice when it comes to long distance relationships-- im doubtful it would matter!

:thumbs: THANKS people!!!! much reassured

[Rufus2012 175]

When it comes to phone calls, she always calls me. In part because I am such a great catch and she just can't resist me, but I think the fact she pays next to nothing for long distance is part of it too.

[LoveNigarmostyle 164]

  On 1/2/2012 at 10:31 AM, ndu26 said:

Hello everyone!!!!

HAppy New Year all.

As silly as this may sound, does anyone out there have any experiences of stories on whether COs take into consideration who does more of the calling?

I am in this relationship and so far everything is going on well but nothing set in stone yet. Because of the nature of my job, we are better able to communicate at particular times of the day than others. usually when he initiates the call and runs out of minutes, I call back (more convenient and cheaper too; I use rebtel). Now I am the USC and female and I was wondering if some CO will frown at the pattern.

A lot of times he calls but never gets through to me if I am unable to talk at the time. When I see the missed calls I call back when possible and we can end up talking for several hours. Since the call log will show I initiated such a long call, I was wondering if this could count against us in the eventuality that we need it.

Most of us here in the US make the calls due to the reasonable prices. I use rebtel as well. My fiance calls and after we talk few minutes, I call him back for longer conversations. There is nothing wrong with that. If a CO asks you say, yes he called me to ask me to call him back or he ran out of credits, so i called him back.

I have seen a post about a CO asking this question and the answer I indicated was sufficient. You keep the line of communication with your man on going and provide them when it becomes needed.

Good luck!

  On 1/2/2012 at 4:19 PM, Rufus2012 said:

When it comes to phone calls, she always calls me. In part because I am such a great catch and she just can't resist me, but I think the fact she pays next to nothing for long distance is part of it too.

[souleymon 27]

Ironically,i call my US fiance more than she calls me,cos she is on my Family n friend List.Its cheapers for me cos i mostly have Free call card on my fones.

She text for free on her tmobile and she wld ask me to call if necessary for a long chat.

I can definately defend that when my interview comes up next week....

[patient2010 93]

no worries u will be fine who calls and how long should not be an issue

[Bisola 2011 16]

  On 1/2/2012 at 10:31 AM, ndu26 said:

Hello everyone!!!!

HAppy New Year all.

As silly as this may sound, does anyone out there have any experiences of stories on whether COs take into consideration who does more of the calling?

I am in this relationship and so far everything is going on well but nothing set in stone yet. Because of the nature of my job, we are better able to communicate at particular times of the day than others. usually when he initiates the call and runs out of minutes, I call back (more convenient and cheaper too; I use rebtel). Now I am the USC and female and I was wondering if some CO will frown at the pattern.

A lot of times he calls but never gets through to me if I am unable to talk at the time. When I see the missed calls I call back when possible and we can end up talking for several hours. Since the call log will show I initiated such a long call, I was wondering if this could count against us in the eventuality that we need it.

Question? I've seen a lot of ppl use Rebtel. What are their rates to Nija and what is the quality of their calls? I know I can look it up, just being lazy... Lol.

.

Edited January 3, 2012 by Bisola 2011

[Travis and Meghan 24]

I made most of the calls to my USC husband because it was cheaper for me. Didn't even get brought up in interview or anything

[ndu26 114]

  On 1/2/2012 at 4:19 PM, Rufus2012 said:

When it comes to phone calls, she always calls me. In part because I am such a great catch and she just can't resist me, but I think the fact she pays next to nothing for long distance is part of it too.

typical!!!!

[ndu26 114]

  On 1/2/2012 at 8:24 PM, souleymon said:

Ironically,i call my US fiance more than she calls me,cos she is on my Family n friend List.Its cheapers for me cos i mostly have Free call card on my fones.

She text for free on her tmobile and she wld ask me to call if necessary for a long chat.

I can definately defend that when my interview comes up next week....

Gods' grace next week

[ndu26 114]

  On 1/3/2012 at 4:20 AM, Bisola 2011 said:

Question? I've seen a lot of ppl use Rebtel. What are their rates to Nija and what is the quality of their calls? I know I can look it up, just being lazy... Lol.

.

8.4 cents per minute. I just like the direct dialing using local numbers I can easily remember and I can link my account to any phone. With my cablevision worldcall, I have to be at home and use the home phone for their service .

Thanks everyone!!!

Edited January 3, 2012 by ndu26

[Bisola 2011 16]

  On 1/3/2012 at 5:37 PM, ndu26 said:

8.4 cents per minute. I just like the direct dialing using local numbers I can easily remember and I can link my account to any phone. With my cablevision worldcall, I have to be at home and use the home phone for their service .

Thanks everyone!!!

Omgosh! Really! And I thought I was getting a deal with .30 a minute. Thanks for the info Rebtel here I come!!!

Edited January 3, 2012 by Bisola 2011