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Married on 1st trip to Nigeria yes or no?

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olumides_wife   17

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You obviously have some issues about your relationship still. I don't personally blame you. You've probably copped a lot of judgement and you will continue to be judged. Nothing here is even remotely close to the scrutiny your relationship will suffer, or the questions your boyfriend will be asked.

Your relationship doesn't "irritate" me nor did or imply such. As " are quote marks you are obviously trying to imply an animosity to my posts that simply isn't there, that is a very sneaky move. Not one part of my post is negative, it's fact. You are right however that I should stop posting. You are clearly naive despite your years and unwilling to listen to reason or accept anything unless posted in a manner that cow-tows to your naivety and delicate nature. You do however need to toughen up. It will be a long and heart-breaking road. Look into moving to his country as that may well be the eventual outcome.

Be blessed! Lol!



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VanessaTony
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I agree with everyone else that getting married on this first visit, especially seeing you've only been together for 7 months and Nigeria is a high fraud consulate, is risky. You said in another post

NigeriaorBust
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Lagos will knock that attitude right out of you. You think we have been harsh, Lagos is known for tearing couples up without even blinking. If you choose to ride your high horse and ignore help offe

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^Aw, I just troll through this forum looking for good ethnic recipes but I saw this thread. Makes me sad that you're willing to take the substantial risk of getting married on the first visit to presu

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Lol thanks!

AMEN too what you said also. One thing you are not lacking is some ####### and a lot of guts. Qualities much needed to survive and remain sane throughout this process.

I am sure everyone on this thread can raise their hand when asked were your friends, or family or total strangers (i.e...this thread) objecting or questioning your nigerian love.

Let's all remember and keep in the front of our minds the raised eyebrows, smirks, shaking heads, the "I told you so's" or just all the negative hype spewed at you and cut Olumide_girl some slack. Goodness. Peace and love we should all have some commonality here. I'm just saying.

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AMEN too what you said also. One thing you are not lacking is some ####### and a lot of guts. Qualities much needed to survive and remain sane throughout this process.

I am sure everyone on this thread can raise their hand when asked were your friends, or family or total strangers (i.e...this thread) objecting or questioning your nigerian love.

Let's all remember and keep in the front of our minds the raised eyebrows, smirks, shaking heads, the "I told you so's" or just all the negative hype spewed at you and cut Olumide_girl some slack. Goodness. Peace and love we should all have some commonality here. I'm just saying.

And with that said.....thread closed LOL....seriously thanks!



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Lagos will knock that attitude right out of you. You think we have been harsh, Lagos is known for tearing couples up without even blinking. If you choose to ride your high horse and ignore help offer we will be waiting with the I told you so trophy.

This will not be over quickly. You will not enjoy this.

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Lagos will knock that attitude right out of you. You think we have been harsh, Lagos is known for tearing couples up without even blinking. If you choose to ride your high horse and ignore help offer we will be waiting with the I told you so trophy.

Seems like you fell pretty hard from your own horse sorry for your hardship...but this thread is closed....blessings!

PS...took much advice from this thread! Ignored the rest!



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Seems like you fell pretty hard from your own horse sorry for your hardship...but this thread is closed....blessings!

PS...took much advice from this thread! Ignored the rest!

This thread is not closed. A closed thread is unable to be commented on. If you want to have it closed that is totally your prerogative. I have reported this thread to a mod to be closed for you. For your reference, if you want to close a thread you have started (or report posts for breach of TOS etc) you click on the report button found on the left of any post. I reported it stating you were the OP and indicated you wanted it closed based on your posts.

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As it appears that the OP would like to have her thread closed, I am officially closing it to further discussion.

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