Marriage Fraud

[Harsh_77 718]

He cannot get his permanent card without your signature, I am sure you'll know what to do when the time comes if you're not divorced by then

Be strong.

Thats wrong... he can as long as it can be proven it was a good faith marriage.

[Shenzhen 34]

Hi all,

I haven't been checking this site for a while now, but here i am with a broken heart i type these lines.

I worked so hard to get my so called husband here (which i think all of us do), he is here work two jobs,send his family money, i lend him more money which he still say i'll pay you later. money is not a concern here, i found out that he married me just to get here, and because we are both from the same country it was easy for him to get here, he has the 2 conditional green card, he want to stay till he gets his permanent green card and move on. i feel like i been hit by a train, i can't beleive that such ppl exist, i know i was fooled .

i need help, i read i can report him but INS won't do anything, i don't want to be used, can anyone help me pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzze..

How did you find out he married you just to get here? Is it hard evidence? Was it words spoken in anger? Can you record a phone conversation with him asking why he used you? I would get some proof for the USCIS this absolutely horrible if it's true.

[Robert&Karen 264]

Rather than a divorce check into an annulment. Fraud is a valid reason for an annulment. This would negate the marriage and anything since.

[Ludyous 5]

I’m sure and don’t doubt people like him exist and are willing to go through whatever is needed to come to this country, but not everyone is tolerant and have the patience to be continuously deceiving until they get the permanent green card. It must be terrible faking love they don’t feel grrrrrrr just thinking about it makes me sick.

If I was in your shoes I would do whatever it takes to get this person out of the country Not doing anything will encourage more people to use others to come to America. Disgusting and shameful! These people have no heart.

ICE is the key. Call immediately and find out what exactly is needed to report him.

Edited December 14, 2011 by Ludyous

[FatimaEl 0]

Thank you all for your response, i checked with an immigration lawyer and she said i can't do a thing to him, calling ICE won't help he will be off the hook until his 2 year card expires, and he may accuse me for being an acomplice. i also checked with a Divorce lawyer and seems he will win as i own a house, car and have good income, he works under the table (cash), i feel all doors are closed in my face, Yes i have anger toward him but not to punish him for not wanting me or not loving me, he used me to get here.

He is so arrogant he thinks he can get anything he wants, we separated couple of times, and every time he apologized and we get back together i always forgive him, my family and friends tell me that he is just using me. he will leave the minute he gets his 10 year GC. sometimes i just want to let go and move on, but other times i say that's not right, i followed the law when i immigrated here never used anyone why should he use me. he is the kind who will act nice and romantic and say he loves me a lot, but i can't see that in his behavior toward me, in situation he should portray his love, i see only hate, disgust, i see someone who is forced to act as a loving person. i don't know if i explained it right, but to those who think i just want to punish him because he stopped loving me, i am not that kind, i forgave him so many times, went against my family's advise and even though after few weeks he will act in a way that i see i don't deserve his love. i don't react on my anger, i tried so many times to deal with this situation but never succeded.

i am going to ask for a divorce, end it and move on. not giving up easy. I will report him to the ICE no physical evidence

[dolphin1 5]

I'm so sorry to read that. Unfortunately, Morocco is well known for it's fraudsters. I wish you well.

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There are fraudsters even in here. Everywhere there's the bad and also there's the good. I still live and married to my USC wife, i got my 10yrs green card more than one year ago and i've never planned or thought to use her to come here or anything else. I work hard and i support her and her two kids, my family back home doesnt need or get a dime from me, as a matter of fact, they helped me even when i came here (they are not rich). There is an age difference between my wife and I, she doesnt work... we disagree, we fight and so on , and am still here with her and not thinking about going anywhere or leave her.