Fiancee left me after 3 weeks

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Would she be able to marry another man and stay here within the 90 days? Or is the fiancee visa only allow her to marry me? I am worried maybe those numbers she was calling was another guy she online or something.

by the way, she still has not contacted me. How could someone be so cold hearted. I did everything for her for 2 years, treated her like a princess and she is here 3 weeks and she is gone. Wow, I am can believe how well she pretended to love me.

I haven't finished reading all of the posts yet so someone may have already addressed this again. While she is able to marry another man, she is NOT able to use that marriage to stay in the US. Her K-1 visa was issued in order for her to marry you. If she does not marry you, then she is not allowed to substitute another person and try to adjust status through marriage to someone else. You are her only ticket to staying legally in the US. That is why I suggested earlier - and others have cautioned since - that you need to be aware she may try to come back and pass her leaving off as an innocent error on her part and try to get you to marry her. That means she has discovered she cannot stay in the US by any other means.

It may be that she did not want to continue a relationship with you as you mentioned in one of your earlier posts (that was quoted here). It may be that she was already communicating with the other man and the two of them thought that it would be a short-cut for them to get together by her continuing on your K-1 visa, then her going to him and getting married. That may very well be a possibility, in which case they will discover that adjustment of status is not an option for her. All she can do is leave the country and have her new husband petition for her all over again - a situation that I am sure the Consulate and USCIS would take a very good look at.

Regardless, unless she marries you and applies to adjust her status to a permanent resident through marriage to you and only you, she will not be able to remain legally in the US, either unmarried or married to someone else.

I hope you have taken the steps outlined above (great post, btw T-Bone!) to protect yourself. She may have no intention of using you further now that she has been able to get to the US, but you have no way of knowing her motivation and need to proceed as if it were the worst case scenario, for your own protection.

Good luck.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

I haven't finished reading all of the posts yet so someone may have already addressed this again. While she is able to marry another man, she is NOT able to use that marriage to stay in the US. Her K-1 visa was issued in order for her to marry you. If she does not marry you, then she is not allowed to substitute another person and try to adjust status through marriage to someone else. You are her only ticket to staying legally in the US. That is why I suggested earlier - and others have cautioned since - that you need to be aware she may try to come back and pass her leaving off as an innocent error on her part and try to get you to marry her. That means she has discovered she cannot stay in the US by any other means.

It may be that she did not want to continue a relationship with you as you mentioned in one of your earlier posts (that was quoted here). It may be that she was already communicating with the other man and the two of them thought that it would be a short-cut for them to get together by her continuing on your K-1 visa, then her going to him and getting married. That may very well be a possibility, in which case they will discover that adjustment of status is not an option for her. All she can do is leave the country and have her new husband petition for her all over again - a situation that I am sure the Consulate and USCIS would take a very good look at.

Regardless, unless she marries you and applies to adjust her status to a permanent resident through marriage to you and only you, she will not be able to remain legally in the US, either unmarried or married to someone else.

I hope you have taken the steps outlined above (great post, btw T-Bone!) to protect yourself. She may have no intention of using you further now that she has been able to get to the US, but you have no way of knowing her motivation and need to proceed as if it were the worst case scenario, for your own protection.

Good luck.

Good advice and very accurate. TBone is also da man! Si!

In the meantime, check out FSU chicks! Good luck

[VeniyaAO 4]

some abbreviations I am not aware of

What is VAWA?

What is FSU chicks?

some abbreviations I am not aware of

[brian_n_phuong 193]

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[Gary and Alla 3,694]

some abbreviations I am not aware of

What is VAWA?

What is FSU chicks?

some abbreviations I am not aware of

VAWA Violence Against Women Act. A fiancee can pull a runner and claim that she was abused and under those conditions can get a green card. It usually involves her making some sort f criminal charge against the petitioner. It is often suggested in these case that the petitiner no longer HAVE ANY contact with the fiancee because she could use that to claim abuse.

FSU is "Former Soviet Union" Russia, Ukraine, Belarus and other former Soviet Republics but it usually refers to those three, also known here as "RUB" countries. Those three have closely related cultures, customs, language, other former Soviet Republics do not necessarily have such ties.

FSU and RUB countries are home to the best and most beautiful women in the world (I could be biased)

[brian_n_phuong 193]

some abbreviations I am not aware of

What is VAWA?

What is FSU chicks?

some abbreviations I am not aware of

Wow, that was fast!

Since your back I assume that you have already been to see the police, called all your credit card companies, and taken all the other time consuming measures that you were told.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

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[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Your name is on her visa. She can only become legal through marriage to you.

Not true.

[zubi 2]

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Wow, that was fast!

Since your back I assume that you have already been to see the police, called all your credit card companies, and taken all the other time consuming measures that you were told.

[JimVaPhuong 4,863]

VAWA Violence Against Women Act. A fiancee can pull a runner and claim that she was abused and under those conditions can get a green card. It usually involves her making some sort f criminal charge against the petitioner. It is often suggested in these case that the petitiner no longer HAVE ANY contact with the fiancee because she could use that to claim abuse.

Only if they're married. If they didn't marry yet then she can't use VAWA to adjust status, even if she marries someone else and accuses them of abuse.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Only if they're married. If they didn't marry yet then she can't use VAWA to adjust status, even if she marries someone else and accuses them of abuse.

Thanks.

[GringoD 33]

While I have even applauded the uscis in my own case for a recent RFE received last Monday, ...

..................I can't believe a story like this from the OP actually passed through the many hoops of the USCIS to arrive at the point of actually being granted a visa.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Green Card Seeker. Sorry for you OP.

Correction

Really stupid green card seeker.

[az110965 252]

While I have even applauded the uscis in my own case for a recent RFE received last Monday, ...

..................I can't believe a story like this from the OP actually passed through the many hoops of the USCIS to arrive at the point of actually being granted a visa.

All USCIS is concerned with is that the petition is filed correctly, both parties are legally free to marry and have met in the prior 2 years. Ohh - and most importantly - a check or money order for $340...

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

All USCIS is concerned with is that the petition is filed correctly, both parties are legally free to marry and have met in the prior 2 years. Ohh - and most importantly - a check or money order for $340...

True that.