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The reason I put up with her lack of love and hoped it would improve is because she just seemed to be having a hard time dealing with the new small town. I thought with time she would adapt.

Also she is the prettiest, hottest fiancee I have ever dated in my life. She is A++++++ hot, I just could not give that beautiful woman up. Wow, I doubt I would ever meet someone so pretty in my life again.

Everyone that saw her was absolutely shocked by her beauty. As you all know, women that look like that can get any guy they want and use them.

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az110965
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Wow. I'm REALLY sorry that this has happened to you, but before taking time to feel sadness, you NEED to PROTECT yourelf. 1) If she has an ATM card to your account - shut it down. 2) If she has pass

TBoneTX
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If this were me, I'd be on the phone right now with every one of my credit-card issuers (they have 24-hour lines for "lost or stolen cards" via which you can talk to a human being). Explain the situa

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I am so very sorry that this happened to you, not just that she left you and treated you like this, but also for the loss of your dream of a happy life together, the life for which you have worked so

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And MAYBE stop with I-129 petitions. This was your third. The other two didn't end so well either...

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Post some pix.

nekkid pics.

VERMONT! I Reject Your Reality...and Substitute My Own!

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Think about it... this was planned and executed as planned, as evidenced by the phone bill. There must heve been red flags you missed because you loved her so much, you were sincere and you were in this for the right reasons.

I know it hurts and I feel your pain, do not try to second guess the mindset of a woman that would do that to you and give her the benefit of doubt.

Immediately take the advice given by the other posters here, also

Notify your credit card companies not to authorize any new charges to your cards until further notice.

You have no idea what personal and financial information about you she might have copied or made notes of.

She jumped the shark and acted too soon, when she realizes she is hosed without a marriage, do not accept any 'cute puppy dog'

stories to worm her way back into your house.

Put a chair under the door knobs or the front and back doors before you sleep tonight, you do not need to wake up with two big hairy guys standing in your bedroom tonight.

AMEN!! :thumbs::thumbs::thumbs:

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My heart is broke.

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My fiancee arrived the Nov. 15th. I have been the happiest guy in the world with my fiancee until I got home from work today and found out she was gone. No message, no communication, her luggage is gone.

She seemed very happy here. We did lots of shopping, eating out, got a christmas tree in the forest, hockey games, cooking together..... I thought we were very happy as far as I knew. We had a great evening together last night, she seemed more romantic then ever and I went to work this morning like normal. She was talking to me via phone messages all day as usual.

Her phone is shut off now from the moment I arrived home from work. I tried to send her an email and it was rejected.

I do not know where she is. She does not know any people around my city. I found out through my phone bill she has been talking to people in 3 other states a lot for days so I assume she is in one of those states becuase she did not know anyone here.

I can not believe this has happened to me. I treated her like a princess always. I do not understand why women use men. I have known her for 2 years and we talked every day. How can women be so heartless to just leave and not say anything? I put 100's of hours into helping her get her visa and paid for everything. And she leaves me without any conversation at all?

I am confused as to what to do? Report her missing? Call the numbers she was calling? I don't think they will tell me anything she must have beening organizing with them to leave.

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Or - try "nonputas.com"
I've never seen a post on VJ more deserving of a +100,000 than this one, no man. :thumbs:

Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant, si man.

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06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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The reason I put up with her lack of love and hoped it would improve is because she just seemed to be having a hard time dealing with the new small town. I thought with time she would adapt.

Also she is the prettiest, hottest fiancee I have ever dated in my life. She is A++++++ hot, I just could not give that beautiful woman up. Wow, I doubt I would ever meet someone so pretty in my life again.

Everyone that saw her was absolutely shocked by her beauty. As you all know, women that look like that can get any guy they want and use them.

broken heart

Look dude...

If you're a 3 and she's a 10 odds are not in your favor of things working out.

If your 60 and she's 20, well you do the math. How many times does 60 go into 20? Not many.

The problem with some guys is that they go to a foreign country and hunt for the hottest "A++++++" woman, instead of finding and building a real relationship with an "A++" woman. You spend a week or two with the hottie and you're convinced "she's the one"...

Seriously man, get a grip. Don't you think if she is truly the most beautiful woman in the world she might know a thing or two about men?

I'll bet when you were with her in Columbia, the Pesos flowed freely out of your pockets. Daily trips to the mall to buy your "true love" gifts to show your undying affection. Hmmm, did you ever wonder why she picked YOU out of all the other men in the world?

You don't put up with "her lack of love" because she's hot. You meet a truly good woman who really loves you and guess what? A 7 1/2 becomes a 10...

You chose a woman to marry strictly because she is hot. What about her intergity, ethics, values, morals and scruples? Even the most beautiful woman will lose her looks over time and all you have left is her heart and soul.

You were destined to fail right from the very beginning because your relationship was based on B.S. There was no mutual respect, no honest communication and no real compatibility. What did you really think would happen?

Sigh...

3 petitions and STILL you haven't learned anything about women (American or otherwise). :bonk:

K-1 JOURNEY

157 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO NOA-2

181 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO INTERVIEW

07/14/2011 - I-129F sent via FedEx to USCIS
07/15/2011 - Arrived at CSC, signed for by E. Jameson
07/15/2011 - NOA-1 (E-Mail)
07/19/2011 - NOA-1 (Hard Copy)
08/01/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - NOA-2 (E-Mail)
12/22/2011 - X-Ray
12/22/2011 - Lab Work
12/23/2011 - NOA-2 (Hard Copy)
12/27/2011 - NVC Received
12/28/2011 - San Jose Embassy Case Number Assigned
12/29/2011 - NVC Sent Petition via DHL to Embassy
12/30/2011 - Embassy Received Petition, signed for by J. Rodriguez
01/04/2011 - Medical
01/09/2011 - Packet 3 Received
01/12/2011 - Embassy Interview - Approved
01/19/2011 - Visa Received
01/21/2012 - POE (Ft. Lauderdale, FL - USA)
01/23/2012 - SSA Issued Fresy's SSN
02/18/2012 - Wedding

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Life is not measured by the breaths you take. Rather, life is measured by the moments that take your breath away!

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I've never seen a post on VJ more deserving of a +100,000 than this one, no man. :thumbs:

Brilliant. Absolutely brilliant, si man.

Hola Bone!

Some guys will never learn, no man... :rofl:

K-1 JOURNEY

157 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO NOA-2

181 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO INTERVIEW

07/14/2011 - I-129F sent via FedEx to USCIS
07/15/2011 - Arrived at CSC, signed for by E. Jameson
07/15/2011 - NOA-1 (E-Mail)
07/19/2011 - NOA-1 (Hard Copy)
08/01/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - NOA-2 (E-Mail)
12/22/2011 - X-Ray
12/22/2011 - Lab Work
12/23/2011 - NOA-2 (Hard Copy)
12/27/2011 - NVC Received
12/28/2011 - San Jose Embassy Case Number Assigned
12/29/2011 - NVC Sent Petition via DHL to Embassy
12/30/2011 - Embassy Received Petition, signed for by J. Rodriguez
01/04/2011 - Medical
01/09/2011 - Packet 3 Received
01/12/2011 - Embassy Interview - Approved
01/19/2011 - Visa Received
01/21/2012 - POE (Ft. Lauderdale, FL - USA)
01/23/2012 - SSA Issued Fresy's SSN
02/18/2012 - Wedding

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K-1's approved:

mcat - 5

VeniyaAO - 3

is possible to make an intervention team, introduce these fellas to some nice church ladies?

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

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K-1's approved:

mcat - 5

VeniyaAO - 3

is possible to make an intervention team, introduce these fellas to some nice church ladies?

Mcat... Wow - a name from the past. Wonder if his wife and Veniya's fiance are both visiting their cousins.

Intervention won't work. In Veniya's first post when his girl split the first time, we all told him what the outcome would be. We predicted that the fiance would reappear and that she'd be gone when she was done with him - we just didn't know that she'd leave before AOS...

K-1 JOURNEY

157 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO NOA-2

181 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO INTERVIEW

07/14/2011 - I-129F sent via FedEx to USCIS
07/15/2011 - Arrived at CSC, signed for by E. Jameson
07/15/2011 - NOA-1 (E-Mail)
07/19/2011 - NOA-1 (Hard Copy)
08/01/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - NOA-2 (E-Mail)
12/22/2011 - X-Ray
12/22/2011 - Lab Work
12/23/2011 - NOA-2 (Hard Copy)
12/27/2011 - NVC Received
12/28/2011 - San Jose Embassy Case Number Assigned
12/29/2011 - NVC Sent Petition via DHL to Embassy
12/30/2011 - Embassy Received Petition, signed for by J. Rodriguez
01/04/2011 - Medical
01/09/2011 - Packet 3 Received
01/12/2011 - Embassy Interview - Approved
01/19/2011 - Visa Received
01/21/2012 - POE (Ft. Lauderdale, FL - USA)
01/23/2012 - SSA Issued Fresy's SSN
02/18/2012 - Wedding

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Life is not measured by the breaths you take. Rather, life is measured by the moments that take your breath away!

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The reason I put up with her lack of love and hoped it would improve is because she just seemed to be having a hard time dealing with the new small town. I thought with time she would adapt.

Also she is the prettiest, hottest fiancee I have ever dated in my life. She is A++++++ hot, I just could not give that beautiful woman up. Wow, I doubt I would ever meet someone so pretty in my life again.

Everyone that saw her was absolutely shocked by her beauty. As you all know, women that look like that can get any guy they want and use them.

broken heart

:lol: What a horrible reason to stay with someone.

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:lol: What a horrible reason to stay with someone.

You Right! Just cause shes Fine!:blink:

Sent NOA1 April 30th 2011

received May 2nd 2011

NOA1 Notice Date:May 4th 2011

NOA 2 txt/ email on july 18th 2011

NOA 2 received in Mail July 20th dated July 18th 2011

NOA2 in "74" days!

NO RFE

Personal issue in the Philippines

Medical Exam: March 22nd 2012

Medical Cleared on March 23rd 2012

Interview Date:April 16th, 2012......PASSED

Arrival Los Angeles California: July 7th 2012.

Marriage September 7th 2012 at San Bernardino County Hall of Records

Preparing for AOS

"I Wholly disapprove of what you say, But I will defend to the death, Your RIGHT to say it"

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