Fiancee left me after 3 weeks

[jojolicious 38]

If I file a notification to USCIS that she left me but later we decide to get married will that notificaiton filed cause her a problem of getting green card or us being married?

Sigh. If you notify USCIS about her abandoning you then it will be placed on her A#-file and will more than likely be considered when they look at whether or not you are BOTH in a bona fide relationship. The notification won't affect you getting a marriage license, getting married or living together but it could affect her getting a greencard. Her abandonment of you and her utter disregard for your relationship would certainly be a hurdle she would have to overcome.

It takes two OP. Right now you seem to be the only person left in your relationship. Good luck!

[mari&Ryan 93]

If I file a notification to USCIS that she left me but later we decide to get married will that notificaiton filed cause her a problem of getting green card or us being married?

Oh man you need help and not precisely from USCIS, police or ICE, Seriously. Things we have to read geez!

[patient2010 93]

WOW!!! I am so sorry to hear this

[VeniyaAO 4]

To file, someone mentioned to report her alien #

Is that on her visa? I do not have a copy of her visa. I do not know her alien number. I have the case # from when they processed the petition in Bogota. Any way to find out her alien #?

Edited December 12, 2011 by VeniyaAO

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

To file, someone mentioned to report her alien #

Is that on her visa? I do not have a copy of her visa. I do not know her alien number. I have the case # from when they processed the petition in Bogota. Any way to find out her alien #?

You don't have copies of the NOA#2? It would be the number that starts with "A".

[Ron and Rhea 42]

If I file a notification to USCIS that she left me but later we decide to get married will that notificaiton filed cause her a problem of getting green card or us being married?

Dude if my wife/fiance/gf were gone when I came home, packed her bags, but making phone calls and text messages, (over 2k minutes and on internet constantly)....it would be pretty obvious to me what is going on.

Since you know she is calling and texting, I know with Verizon, you can see the numbers she is contacting, have you bothered to call any of those phone numbers up?

[GringoD 33]

I think Veni is holed up in da HeartBreak Hotel ;-)

[az110965 252]

If I file a notification to USCIS that she left me but later we decide to get married will that notificaiton filed cause her a problem of getting green card or us being married?

Are you actually still considering getting married to this woman? Have you even heard from her since she disappeared?

Some people think you are just a troll trying to create drama. I think you might actually be nuts!

How good of a wife do you think this woman will make based upon her actions since she arrived?

[naijaboy 16]

Are you actually still considering getting married to this woman? Have you even heard from her since she disappeared?

Some people think you are just a troll trying to create drama. I think you might actually be nuts!

How good of a wife do you think this woman will make based upon her actions since she arrived?

:no:

[Ron and Rhea 42]

Are you actually still considering getting married to this woman? Have you even heard from her since she disappeared?

Some people think you are just a troll trying to create drama. I think you might actually be nuts!

How good of a wife do you think this woman will make based upon her actions since she arrived?

"Some people think you are just a troll trying to create drama. I think you might actually be nuts!"

Succinct....

[VeniyaAO 4]

HELP!

Many of you have been giving me advice to report my fiancee leaving me after 3 weeks together. But as you know she came back home a couple weeks ago.

Today she left again. I came home from work and she was gone. The difference this time, she took every thing she owns and everything I gave her.

Wow, I am shocked, my heart is BROKE. I dreamed of this working out but now I see she left for good. All of her stuff is gone. There is no note explaining where she went.

I am very worried for her, she left and does not have much money. Someone came to my house and took her this morning? Who? I do not know.

I do not know where she is. I am very worried for her but she apparently cares nothing about me. She never even let me a note.

OK, so I called USCIS and they told me that they do not keep any personal records. I explained to the guy and he said no he could not take my information. Their service is for only approving the visa.

I explained to him she has a month left on her visa, so he said she is not yet illegal. There agency did not seem a bit interested in taking the information. How I get this documented?

I called the cousin where she went before and the cousin said my fiancee informed her last night that she was sad here and the adjustment to this town was just too hard for her. She said she was planning to return to Colombia.

He said if I think I have been a victim of visa fraud to contact the following two agencies. I do not think I am a victim of visa fraud. It seems she is returning to Colombia.

Immigration Customs Enforcement Agency

www.ice.gov

1-866-347-2423

and

US Customs & Border Protection Agency

1-800-232-5378

www.cbp.gov

However, none of her family has the money to purchase a plane ticket to Colombia. Therefore, I do not think she went to Colombia. I suspect she is staying with someone local or in the USA.

What should I do? Call the two agencies USCIS referred me to? Wait until after the visa is up? Give it a week to see if she contacts me?

I feel bad to report her if she really is on her way back to her Country. I really do not think is planning to commit visa fraud. She just was unable here. I did everything I could think of to make her happy here. Many gifts, clothes, introduce her to people, working out together, we kept very busy. According to her cousin and another friend of hers I spoke to, it seems her plan is to return to Colombia.

advice?

Edited January 6, 2012 by VeniyaAO

[kenh86 1]

she got an iphone? you know phones these days, you can track her down with a program installed. but only if it can be simple as that then it'll be a great tool.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

HELP!

Many of you have been giving me advice to report my fiancee leaving me after 3 weeks together. But as you know she came back home a couple weeks ago.

Today she left again. I came home from work and she was gone. The difference this time, she took every thing she owns and everything I gave her.

Wow, I am shocked, my heart is BROKE. I dreamed of this working out but now I see she left for good. All of her stuff is gone. There is no note explaining where she went.

I am very worried for her, she left and does not have much money. Someone came to my house and took her this morning? Who? I do not know.

I do not know where she is. I am very worried for her but she apparently cares nothing about me. She never even let me a note.

OK, so I called USCIS and they told me that they do not keep any personal records. I explained to the guy and he said no he could not take my information. Their service is for only approving the visa.

I explained to him she has a month left on her visa, so he said she is not yet illegal. There agency did not seem a bit interested in taking the information. How I get this documented?

I called the cousin where she went before and the cousin said my fiancee informed her last night that she was sad here and the adjustment to this town was just too hard for her. She said she was planning to return to Colombia.

He said if I think I have been a victim of visa fraud to contact the following two agencies. I do not think I am a victim of visa fraud. It seems she is returning to Colombia.

Immigration Customs Enforcement Agency

www.ice.gov

1-866-347-2423

and

US Customs & Border Protection Agency

1-800-232-5378

www.cbp.gov

However, none of her family has the money to purchase a plane ticket to Colombia. Therefore, I do not think she went to Colombia. I suspect she is staying with someone local or in the USA.

What should I do? Call the two agencies USCIS referred me to? Wait until after the visa is up? Give it a week to see if she contacts me?

I feel bad to report her if she really is on her way back to her Country. I really do not think is planning to commit visa fraud. She just was unable here. I did everything I could think of to make her happy here. Many gifts, clothes, introduce her to people, working out together, we kept very busy. According to her cousin and another friend of hers I spoke to, it seems her plan is to return to Colombia.

advice?

I am sorry this happened to you. Twice.

From your other thread, there were red flags all over her behavior. My advice is to cut your losses and let her go.

If you think you've been a victim of fraud, then report it. If you don't think so, move on with your life.

[brian_n_phuong 193]

The only person commiting fraud is the person that keeps purpetuating this fake story.

Go back and look at his previous posts and build your own timeline based on the posts. Nothing makes sense.

Edited January 6, 2012 by brian_n_phuong

[jojolicious 38]

move on with your life sooner rather than later

Edited January 7, 2012 by jojolicious