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GringoD   33

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Wow, Thank You Captain Obvious!

Munchausen Syndrome??? Hmm, why does that sound familiar??? Maybe becuase I said the same damn thing 10 pages ago ! :bonk:

Is there a syndrome for copying other's post? :rofl:

Brian, I think it's called REPETITIVE MICRO DRAMA :rofl::devil::rofl:

07/27/2011...........NOA1 received.

12/05/2011...........RFE received.

12/13/2011...........RFE response sent.

12/16/2011...........RFE RESPONSE received by Vermont S.C.

12/22/2011...........Teased by a text-message from uscis, saying they have received my response to the RFE.

12/30/2011...........LA VISA APROVADOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

01/12/2012...........Case Sent To Bogota Colombia, from the National Visa Center.

02/09/2012...........Schedule Interview.

03/23/2012...........Interview (to take place then)!

04/07/2012...........Arrived in USA.

07/01/2012...........MARRIED!

What next?

.......How the days DO slip away!

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az110965
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Wow. I'm REALLY sorry that this has happened to you, but before taking time to feel sadness, you NEED to PROTECT yourelf. 1) If she has an ATM card to your account - shut it down. 2) If she has pass

TBoneTX
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If this were me, I'd be on the phone right now with every one of my credit-card issuers (they have 24-hour lines for "lost or stolen cards" via which you can talk to a human being). Explain the situa

Kathryn41
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I am so very sorry that this happened to you, not just that she left you and treated you like this, but also for the loss of your dream of a happy life together, the life for which you have worked so

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naijaboy   16

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has the OP returned with an update yet :huh:

Nov 9th 2010 Petition received at California Service Center

May 4th 2011 Received petition Approval letter

May 12th 2011 Received Letter from NVC stating info has been forwarded to Lagos consulate office

July 14th 2011 Received Fiancé Visa packet and interview date (via email)

Sept 20th 2011 Interview day! Visa not approved.. Requesting more proof :-(

Sept 28th 2011 Second interview scheduled for early December :-)

Dec 5th 2011 Interview rescheduled consulate office caught fire :-(

Dec 6th 2011 Visa APPROVED!!!! :-D

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naijaboy   16

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Nov 9th 2010 Petition received at California Service Center

May 4th 2011 Received petition Approval letter

May 12th 2011 Received Letter from NVC stating info has been forwarded to Lagos consulate office

July 14th 2011 Received Fiancé Visa packet and interview date (via email)

Sept 20th 2011 Interview day! Visa not approved.. Requesting more proof :-(

Sept 28th 2011 Second interview scheduled for early December :-)

Dec 5th 2011 Interview rescheduled consulate office caught fire :-(

Dec 6th 2011 Visa APPROVED!!!! :-D

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brian_n_phuong   193

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Seriously, we dont know what happened. We were all talking to him this morning, and then he just .............. left??

Did he leave his suitcase behind? I feel so ..... so..... used ...

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GringoD   33

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Seriously, we dont know what happened. We were all talking to him this morning, and then he just .............. left??

Did he leave his suitcase behind? I feel so ..... so..... used ...

Maybe the OP was KIDNAPPED! :rofl:

07/27/2011...........NOA1 received.

12/05/2011...........RFE received.

12/13/2011...........RFE response sent.

12/16/2011...........RFE RESPONSE received by Vermont S.C.

12/22/2011...........Teased by a text-message from uscis, saying they have received my response to the RFE.

12/30/2011...........LA VISA APROVADOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

01/12/2012...........Case Sent To Bogota Colombia, from the National Visa Center.

02/09/2012...........Schedule Interview.

03/23/2012...........Interview (to take place then)!

04/07/2012...........Arrived in USA.

07/01/2012...........MARRIED!

What next?

.......How the days DO slip away!

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az110965   252

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AZ... I beg to differ with you.

We also bare the burden of proving the GENUINENESS OF THE RELATIONSHIP... THE SUBJECTIVE... not simply the objectivity of a relationship, which could in fact be little relationship at all.

PLEASE........................

You don't bear that burden with USCIS GringoD...

So don't "please................"

You prove the GENUINENESS OF THE RELATIONSHIP to the Consulate.

You can bet to differ all you want, but all USCIS cares about is what I responded to in regards to your earlier post, and the most important aspect of that was the check or money order.

K-1 JOURNEY

157 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO NOA-2

181 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO INTERVIEW

07/14/2011 - I-129F sent via FedEx to USCIS
07/15/2011 - Arrived at CSC, signed for by E. Jameson
07/15/2011 - NOA-1 (E-Mail)
07/19/2011 - NOA-1 (Hard Copy)
08/01/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - NOA-2 (E-Mail)
12/22/2011 - X-Ray
12/22/2011 - Lab Work
12/23/2011 - NOA-2 (Hard Copy)
12/27/2011 - NVC Received
12/28/2011 - San Jose Embassy Case Number Assigned
12/29/2011 - NVC Sent Petition via DHL to Embassy
12/30/2011 - Embassy Received Petition, signed for by J. Rodriguez
01/04/2011 - Medical
01/09/2011 - Packet 3 Received
01/12/2011 - Embassy Interview - Approved
01/19/2011 - Visa Received
01/21/2012 - POE (Ft. Lauderdale, FL - USA)
01/23/2012 - SSA Issued Fresy's SSN
02/18/2012 - Wedding

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GringoD   33

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ok, AZ... the uscis, the consulate....whateva.... all hoops to jump through, from beginning to end.

I still can't believe this OP got through them... where ever and when ever they are.

so... please. :blink:

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07/27/2011...........NOA1 received.

12/05/2011...........RFE received.

12/13/2011...........RFE response sent.

12/16/2011...........RFE RESPONSE received by Vermont S.C.

12/22/2011...........Teased by a text-message from uscis, saying they have received my response to the RFE.

12/30/2011...........LA VISA APROVADOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

01/12/2012...........Case Sent To Bogota Colombia, from the National Visa Center.

02/09/2012...........Schedule Interview.

03/23/2012...........Interview (to take place then)!

04/07/2012...........Arrived in USA.

07/01/2012...........MARRIED!

What next?

.......How the days DO slip away!

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brian_n_phuong   193

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ok, AZ... the uscis, the consulate....whateva.... all hoops to jump through, from beginning to end.

I still can't believe this OP got through them... where ever and when ever they are.

so... please. :blink:

:thumbs: :thumbs: :thumbs: Hook em Horns !

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az110965   252

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ok, AZ... the uscis, the consulate....whateva.... all hoops to jump through, from beginning to end.

I still can't believe this OP got through them... where ever and when ever they are.

so... please. :blink:

The "hoops" were obviously jumped through to the Consulate's satisfaction each time, and the Consulate is not a relationship counselor. As long as the paperwork is in order and there are no fraud indicators with regards to bonafied relationship the visa would have been granted. Plus payment for $350...

There is no limit to the number of K-1 visas a petitioner may apply for (there was 1 poster here a while ago that had 5 approved visas through the years).

It sounds like your indignant at the Consulates for approving the visa for the OP's beneficiaries. Why?

K-1 JOURNEY

157 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO NOA-2

181 DAYS FROM NOA-1 TO INTERVIEW

07/14/2011 - I-129F sent via FedEx to USCIS
07/15/2011 - Arrived at CSC, signed for by E. Jameson
07/15/2011 - NOA-1 (E-Mail)
07/19/2011 - NOA-1 (Hard Copy)
08/01/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - Touched
12/19/2011 - NOA-2 (E-Mail)
12/22/2011 - X-Ray
12/22/2011 - Lab Work
12/23/2011 - NOA-2 (Hard Copy)
12/27/2011 - NVC Received
12/28/2011 - San Jose Embassy Case Number Assigned
12/29/2011 - NVC Sent Petition via DHL to Embassy
12/30/2011 - Embassy Received Petition, signed for by J. Rodriguez
01/04/2011 - Medical
01/09/2011 - Packet 3 Received
01/12/2011 - Embassy Interview - Approved
01/19/2011 - Visa Received
01/21/2012 - POE (Ft. Lauderdale, FL - USA)
01/23/2012 - SSA Issued Fresy's SSN
02/18/2012 - Wedding

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Life is not measured by the breaths you take. Rather, life is measured by the moments that take your breath away!

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TeapotGirl   66

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Even if this a fictional horror story, I will still thank the OP because of this thread, I learned what VAWA, FSU, RUB, Munchausen syndrome are and what someone could do if this happens really to you or anybody you know.

It is not that far from reality at all, you know? Just the vanishing act, I mean. :star:

Happy New Year!

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Would she be able to marry another man and stay here within the 90 days? Or is the fiancee visa only allow her to marry me? I am worried maybe those numbers she was calling was another guy she online or something.

It seems she used 2000 minutes of talk time in 2 weeks and was on the internet constantly according to my extremely high cell phone bill.

She had SOME status when she came into the USA on the K-1 visa, allowed lawful presence in the USA for 90 days.

IF, during the 90 days, she marries TO YOU, then SHE is allowed to file for adjustment of status, leading to a 2 year conditional green card.

Another guy, not you? she could marry anyone she wants, sure - but she'll never be able to adjust from her CURRENT visa (the K-1) without marriage TO YOU.

That's the dealio. She's most likely had a plan in mind all along, but since she's abandoned you and any subsequent marriage? She cannot have further status in the USA based on marriage to anyone, unless she leaves the USA and some other fella files for her, starting all over again.

If she stays in the USA, most likely she'll remain underground for years.

You've been scammed, Sir. Sorry.

Sometimes my language usage seems confusing - please feel free to 'read it twice', just in case !
Ya know, you can find the answer to your question with the advanced search tool, when using a PC? Ditch the handphone, come back later on a PC, and try again.

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GringoD   33

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The "hoops" were obviously jumped through to the Consulate's satisfaction each time, and the Consulate is not a relationship counselor. As long as the paperwork is in order and there are no fraud indicators with regards to bonafied relationship the visa would have been granted. Plus payment for $350...

There is no limit to the number of K-1 visas a petitioner may apply for (there was 1 poster here a while ago that had 5 approved visas through the years).

It sounds like your indignant at the Consulates for approving the visa for the OP's beneficiaries. Why?

Not indignant; just surprised.

But, I'd be even more surprised, if this story were all actually true

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07/27/2011...........NOA1 received.

12/05/2011...........RFE received.

12/13/2011...........RFE response sent.

12/16/2011...........RFE RESPONSE received by Vermont S.C.

12/22/2011...........Teased by a text-message from uscis, saying they have received my response to the RFE.

12/30/2011...........LA VISA APROVADOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!

01/12/2012...........Case Sent To Bogota Colombia, from the National Visa Center.

02/09/2012...........Schedule Interview.

03/23/2012...........Interview (to take place then)!

04/07/2012...........Arrived in USA.

07/01/2012...........MARRIED!

What next?

.......How the days DO slip away!

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