Oh no! Please Help!!!! Somebody Contacted and told My husband! that i put some stuff on his file!

[Incongo 0]

Hi i hope everyone remember my story but i was the one that reported my husband abandoned me after a month of living here.

He tried to report me for abuse and later told the cops that he didnt want to press charges on on me..

Well i immediately went to ice and withdraw the I130 petiton or whatever the number is when you withdraw petition!!

And I documneted everything I mean everything he did, the condom, the phone records calling date lines everything I documented everything and took it in to the uscis.

I told the uscis in my documents that I was scared for my life and i told them how my husband is working under the table and that i told them i would report him to the IRS because I lost my job while we was together and he just up and abandoned me when he got caught cheating on me.

Anyhow he just called me tonight and told me he know everything that I did and he talk to a consular or somebody on the up and they told him what I did and put on his file I was like #######???? he told me some of the things that I mentioned above what i wrote in my documents..

How the heck do he know all these things??? let me find out the uscis or Ice somebody is being shady and contacting my husband telling them what I am doing! so he goes on to say i need to watch my back and that he is going to now build a case around me!

Like how cuz im not abusing him or anything???? so what kind of case can he build around me?

but i can't get over the fact he knew that i put all this stuff on his file..do yall guys think they contacted him gave him a warning or something??

This is crazy so now he might go and try to really file a Wava case around me?????? a false one at that!!

Help!

[EAbbas 213]

it's possible he read VJ and saw evthing you posted

[Incongo 0]

it's possible he read VJ and saw evthing you posted

good question but no he do not know i post on here at all!! nobody knows who i am on this forum that why i am incongo but my husband never heard of this board and he does not read well.. so therefore no it is not this forum at all.

He said a consular told him about it?!!! ####### they are doing calling him telling this

[Anh map 2,098]

good question but no he do not know i post on here at all!! nobody knows who i am on this forum that why i am incongo but my husband never heard of this board and he does not read well.. so therefore no it is not this forum at all.

He said a consular told him about it?!!! ####### they are doing calling him telling this

You are assuming that he is telling you the truth.

Could a common friend have told him?

[jkelly07 120]

did you put all that in writing to uscis and ice it's possible he was sent copy to ask if it is true.before auction is taken.

[Lexy 2]

Could he have gotten this under the Freedom of Information Act? Usually when there is a complaint against you, you will be informed of the facts of the complaint but not the person who made the complaint. So even no one told him who made the complaint the deduced it was you because you lived together and no one else could have known all the correct facts about his shady business...

[Lexy 2]

I mean who would have an interest in contacting USCIS and the IRS with facts about his cheating other than yourself? You of course because you have an interest to protect regarding financial sponsorship and immigration. He figured it out, not hard to do.

[Moomin 292]

If he knows how to claim abuse I'd betcha he's at least searched the internet for information. Most of us came to VJ because we needed information on subject regarding our situation(K1, CR1, ROC etc). Even though your name might not be here it's rather easy to identify someone(or identify with). Don't forget you found VJ - never underestimate anyone's ability to do the same, or recognize your specific way of writing and details of your situation.

Even though it's just an assumption, I do agree with Eabbas.

Right now(after having read your other posts) I wouldn't exactly trust your husband.

[Incongo 0]

You are assuming that he is telling you the truth.

Could a common friend have told him?

I don't know but it like he knew too much and a common friend told him? i do not know who that common friend that could know about me writing all that stuff up and giving it to uscis and ice. Therefore i do not think a friend told him that, plus none of his friends talk to me or anything

[Incongo 0]

did you put all that in writing to uscis and ice it's possible he was sent copy to ask if it is true.before auction is taken.

I do not know that is why i am asking you, but yes i put it all in writing and sent it to the UcIS!!

He said he knows everything and he knows what im doing and up to!!

I heard another guy on here said he knew/heard his wife withdrew the petition and he ended up filing an abuse case against him..

So if somebody from uscis and ice contacted him that like setting me up and trying to allow him to get a lawyer and try to get me on some false ###### if they are contacting him about what i wrote against him!!!

Because he said he now is going to get me and he is going to bld a case against me so the usicis and ice is giving him ammunition to get back at me!n and that is not FAIR! if they are doing that ####### to ppl!!!

[Incongo 0]

Could he have gotten this under the Freedom of Information Act? Usually when there is a complaint against you, you will be informed of the facts of the complaint but not the person who made the complaint. So even no one told him who made the complaint the deduced it was you because you lived together and no one else could have known all the correct facts about his shady business...

I guess so this could be possible, but how the hell he can get that info but when i try to get info on him or anything i can't get it!

why is it these aliens can get all these benifits and know what going on with them when they are using us citizen and we can't find nothing out!

now i heard if he files a WAVA against me report abuse that they wont even contact me and tell me anything but he can find out what i put against him..that some shady ###### if the uscis and ICE is contacting him!

[Incongo 0]

If he knows how to claim abuse I'd betcha he's at least searched the internet for information. Most of us came to VJ because we needed information on subject regarding our situation(K1, CR1, ROC etc). Even though your name might not be here it's rather easy to identify someone(or identify with). Don't forget you found VJ - never underestimate anyone's ability to do the same, or recognize your specific way of writing and details of your situation.

Even though it's just an assumption, I do agree with Eabbas.

Right now(after having read your other posts) I wouldn't exactly trust your husband.

Sorry but he cannot read..so he wont be on this website he dont even know how to use a computer either..hmm he does have friends but i doubt they know who i am and talking about it ppl everyday getting fraud.

[Penguin_ie 5,996]

***** Moving from ROC to Effects of Major Changes forum as our ICE specialists post there *****

[ThaitoUSA 15]

What is your concern about him knowing? If you are being truthful, then he already knows all of the things you said that he had done. It does not need to be a secret that you reported it to ICE.

[bdawn 66]

Hi i hope everyone remember my story but i was the one that reported my husband abandoned me after a month of living here.

He tried to report me for abuse and later told the cops that he didnt want to press charges on on me..

Well i immediately went to ice and withdraw the I130 petiton or whatever the number is when you withdraw petition!!

And I documneted everything I mean everything he did, the condom, the phone records calling date lines everything I documented everything and took it in to the uscis.

I told the uscis in my documents that I was scared for my life and i told them how my husband is working under the table and that i told them i would report him to the IRS because I lost my job while we was together and he just up and abandoned me when he got caught cheating on me.

Anyhow he just called me tonight and told me he know everything that I did and he talk to a consular or somebody on the up and they told him what I did and put on his file I was like #######???? he told me some of the things that I mentioned above what i wrote in my documents..

How the heck do he know all these things??? let me find out the uscis or Ice somebody is being shady and contacting my husband telling them what I am doing! so he goes on to say i need to watch my back and that he is going to now build a case around me!

Like how cuz im not abusing him or anything???? so what kind of case can he build around me?

but i can't get over the fact he knew that i put all this stuff on his file..do yall guys think they contacted him gave him a warning or something??

This is crazy so now he might go and try to really file a Wava case around me?????? a false one at that!!.

Help!

Just mentioning a consular told him provokes some considerable doubts as to how truthful what he is saying is! It's a big lie! Once you get here the consular officer at the U.S embassy in his home country has no power over his case by whatsoever! It's possible he got the info from VJ either personally searching online for the way forward or through friends. Don't be ignorant thousands of people - if not millions - get online to try to find information that addresses their situation. He has absolutely no case to build against you. He has seen his crushed reality and trying to instill fear. Just be careful when talking to him; he's desperate and might record your conversation. He'll NOT succeed so don't give him any tool. USCIS and ICE know better, trust me! Just relax!

Edited December 1, 2011 by benanddawn