Age difference of fiance to fiancee?

[Ron and Rhea 42]

Hank, nice ride...I do like the Venture too. I have a 98 FXSTC, the one I ride most often, and a old 81 Lowrider with some issues. My baby is a 79 Honda CBX, (air cooled inline 6 cyl)....I've had her since 81, bought it from another Marine.

[Ron and Rhea 42]

I don't know the averqe but I am 75 and filed for a K3 in July. My spouse was turned down for K1,,,,,i don't know why. My wife to be will turn 31 this December 30th. Never been married and no children. Why she loves me is primrily a cultural thing rather than a gold-digger one. I was married to my first wife for 50 years before she had a heart attack so I am not in it for the sexual aspect or a marriage. Age is golden in the Philippines.

Paul, what I really want to know is do you have a saggy butt? hahah, j/k, it was a reference to some other poster on here that mentioned guys and their ages and their azzez.....

Good for you brother, I hope you two are together soon. You guys tried a K1 but couldn't do it, so are doing a K3 now?

[JoBri 548]

To those who filed k-1, what is the average age difference of a fiance to a fiancee? Is it a matter of desperation for such young girls to marry old guys? Is it for love or money?

K1, K3, what's the dif? We all started engaged I reckon before we got married.

Anyways, to answer that question, my wife is 14 years younger than me. She was the youngest principal in her district of 100 principals at the age of 34. She had a good career, good income, a promising future. The superintendent of schools in the Metro Manila school system wanted her to become the superintendent in the future. She was respected and successful, beautiful and financially secure. She had no desire to come to the USA, and choosing to let go of her life in the Philippines was not an easy choice for her. She knew she was coming into a life of financial struggle, and having to give up her successful career. So, I guess you can kinda rule out money in her choice. You can pretty much also rule out a desire to come to the USA and start from the bottom as a food worker in a school cafeteria and a resident assistant in an assisted living after being a principal of a school. I guess that leaves love.. Our beautiful son just turned 16 months old. I give thanks for the family I have.

Blessings to all

[Farsider 7]

I have been called a wise-"something" many times, but man is usually not the word...

I ride a Yamaha Venture. I have been riding Ventures of one form or another since 1983... guess I am addicted to that V-4 motor.

Nice bike ! I've got a buddy who has one - it's a great motorcycle.

[Ron and Rhea 42]

Here is my 98 FXSTC......painted by me, ahha, can you tell.

Edited November 28, 2011 by Ron & Diana

[Farsider 7]

This is a great topic (thanks OP)... and one of the best threads going on this site in a long time! Some real personalities have come out in this thread - lol.

For us.... yeah we've got a bit of a gap age-wise between us. But we've known each other 4 years before marrying... spent tons of time together in the PI and even a few months in the U.S. We've met each other's parents & other relatives, & friends and that all went down well. We both dig traveling, scuba, Captain & Cokes & balut. And we can't seem to get enough of each other But there's a lot of big differences between us too!

One of us is rich, the other is (uh... I mean, was) not ..... one of us is HOT , the other is NOT .... one of us is spontaneous, the other is ####### .... one of us smokes, the other a total health nut. One of us is an MBA, the other went to work straight out of high school.... One of us is really young, the other is really, well... not young (chronologically speaking).

So.... is it LOVE?... or MONEY? Do we stand a chance?!

CLick on our wedding pics link (below) & see if you can guess our age difference (some of you guys know us so... hush!).

[Farsider 7]

Oh yeah, almost forgot..... here's my other girlfriend (she's younger than me too!)

[Hank_ 9,174]

Hank, nice ride...I do like the Venture too. I have a 98 FXSTC, the one I ride most often, and a old 81 Lowrider with some issues. My baby is a 79 Honda CBX, (air cooled inline 6 cyl)....I've had her since 81, bought it from another Marine.

Yup I know the CBX well, very cool that you have hung onto it, I go all the way back to the CB160 and the list gets long and varied from there, just never a Harley. Lot of the guys I ride with in the PGR ride H-D. We each have our addictions for sure!!

Oh... Thank you for your service! And belated Happy Birthday! (I was Air Force but I know all Marines had a birthday recently)

Edited November 28, 2011 by Hank_Amy

[SuperDuper! 230]

Hey Peter_Pan, your thoughts are offensive to me as I am older than my fiance, I am 51 and she's 27....I do not have a saggy butt, however I do take care of myself and train at a gym. I've seen many guys quite a bit older than me walking around in the shower and their buttocks are sublime, haha...I've also seen big fat #### younger guys, who's asses look like 50lbs of chewed bubblegum, so what?

I am not beyond some assistance from Dr. Levitra, however, again, I know plenty of guys half my age who also partake when they feel the need.

I think the point is your opinion is just that, your opinion, it means jack to me....Rlogan gave you some logic you could not come back at....I can feel a bit of jealousy in your posts, why hate, let people live their lives and mind your own 'bidnezz'.....

Agreed, Peter Pan's comments have some growing up to do. Pffft!

[Hank_ 9,174]

Here is my 98 FXSTC......painted by me, ahha, can you tell.

That's looking very sweet, a few of my buddies would really like your bike (just leave the keys in it they will stop by...) Me, I have been addicted to touring bikes since my '83 GW but when the Venture came out in '83 I kissed the Wing good-bye and been addicted since.

Amy refers to my bike as my girlfriend...

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Age difference:19-20 years depending on the time of the year.

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