Age difference of fiance to fiancee?

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

when the Saints scored wit 1:37 left. oh well, guess it's not meant to be. they had a good season.. then after the pass to Davis, it brought me back to the days of Montana and Young...

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/346778-who-will-jesus-favor-on-saturday-night/page__view__findpost__p__5102884

[easyriders2011 14]

My fiance is a lot younger than me, better educated than me...she has a 4 year degree, vs 2 for me, and she is exploring med school when she arrives here. She is also a RN, very beautiful and is not desperate for me or any man. She and I have many common interests and both enjoy life to the fullest, our age diff is just numerical.

That said, I take offense to Enigma's post and find it insulting....I will say that I have found, in most instances, people with such a narrow minded opinion are usually older women, or old guys who can't get a younger woman, or are with an older woman and are a bit jealous...but thats my 2cents.

IMO, live and let live, everyone else can bite me.

I agree with you.

Enigma is the only one who has found true love... so self righteous. I got news for you Enigma, if your fiancee/wife's standard of living doesn't match yours, then you have just as much to worry about as any person here who's wife is younger.

Naw you're probably right, nobody has ever married a guy her own age just to get to the states....and then run off.

Worry about yourself and let others worry about their lives.

[easyriders2011 14]

Is it just me or doesn't Kang seem like a troll.

He doesn't have any photos, or avatar. No time line, no particular visa. He is just out looking to start a fight.

Is there a moderator in the house? .....

[ScottnIzabela 25]

i had quit dating or caring a long time ago. so sick of the ####### from women my age and all their issues. my first wife passed away in 2001. at first it was some fun but after a while it just gets to the point where i was fixing their car, feeding them or just for sex. really i want and need better than that. so my wife now well we met online(in 2007) and been apart some 2 times but we keep coming back together. and now we are good. she is 8 years younger than me. very happy and close.

and i have NO IDEA about the younger women.

in fact i have no idea about any woman LOL

Edited January 15, 2012 by ScottnIzabela

[Hank_ 9,174]

Boy do I understand that one! Jeez I was so tired of the BS with the dating scene was ready to just pack it in and become a hermit, but a good buddy of mine pointed me towards the Philippines... who would have thought I would find such happiness.

One person is always seeking something from another... that's what make the world spin! And finally someone makes my world spin!

Edited January 15, 2012 by Hank_Amy

[southcalhog 43]

when the Saints scored wit 1:37 left. oh well, guess it's not meant to be. they had a good season.. then after the pass to Davis, it brought me back to the days of Montana and Young...

Me Too, SunandMoon.......Thought just that!

[lierre 224]

i'm 27. he's 29.

this stereotype with western guys and asian women sucks, but we really can't deny that even asians (pinoys for that matter) have this bias too.

it is offensive. but i know for a fact some girls do it.

my fiance used to tell me to let go of his hand when we're in public. cause he didn't want others to think i'm a bargirl. i just tell him that i don't dress skimpily enough to be one.

and i have a rock on my ring finger. that ought to tell them who i am.

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

Is it just me or doesn't Kang seem like a troll.

He doesn't have any photos, or avatar. No time line, no particular visa. He is just out looking to start a fight.

Is there a moderator in the house? .....

he's been on my radar screen since his post.

[southcalhog 43]

Is it just me or doesn't Kang seem like a troll.

He doesn't have any photos, or avatar. No time line, no particular visa. He is just out looking to start a fight.

Is there a moderator in the house? .....

I would have to Agree with you "easyrider"!

[Ugly_American 11]

Loved the niners win and happy to see smith with better stats than brees. Im just a fair weather casual fan, but i was on the edge of my seat.

To topic: i had a bachelor's degree before my wife was born. We have arguememts and our various issues, but we're both loyal and committed. Topping it off i've fallen on tough job times and she may soon become the bread-winner. I think and hope that any relationship only lasts if both are 100% committed and willing to work out tough issues, even on a daily basis. communication is critical.

[actob99 156]

Newbie here to the site but not to the Phils. Have been living/going there once a month for about 4 years now, good job for that.. I have known my fiancee for about 2 years through a friend of mines wife and we have been in a serios relationship for 1 year. I'm 40 and my fiancee is 19.. Funny story, I was in her province last week going through all the paperwork and having her write out her own intent to Marry doc. When I looked at her Birth Certificate, her father was 67 years old and her mother was 29 years old at the time she 2was born and they weren't married. I knew this but it didn't register until I seen it on paper. Point is, it's a cultural thing that only we as a part of this culture understand. I have had discussions with my friends here in the states, with their wives looking at me like I'm dating their 19 year old daughter, haha. Interesting discussions!!!

Were in love and don't care about age, her mother loves me and the idea, my parents love her and the idea, my 1 of 2 kids has met her and they both like the idea, I could give a SH^& what anyone else thinks... Live life like you want to as it can be gone tomorrow. Peace to all and thankful I found this site. Sending in my 129F packet next week. Look forward to the process and the support from the site.

[Hank_ 9,174]

All the best in your journey!

Age is an issue only in the minds of the "puny-brains".

[LSnBigBear 61]

I like this topic. I lived in Cebu City area for 5 years on business assignment. Our story quickly (i hope) I first fell in love with many filipinas or so I thought in 5 years. I even dated an Attorney that was just 10 years my younger. I met my fiancee the old fashion way,,,,, got drunk and had SML courage (San Miguel Light). She was at my local Ex Pat Bar for the first time to watch the band of which her roomate was dating the English band member. They were not allowed to be there alone so they had her roomates mother as escort. Kinda like old Philippines before internet where good woman always had a family member as escort. Well I asked her out and next day I met her at Jollibee (fastfood). When she walked up I swear she looked 13 years old. I asked her right away her age and ID. Kinda hubog (drunk) the night before forced me not to remember what she looked like.

I was caught up with age difference and kept her at arms lenght for the last 6 months I was there. We were very close but I never let her move in with me. She stayed nights with me but once again I was concerned as she was 23 and I am 45. Well I got back to USA and saw many couples now with larger age gap. My niece is dating her former 8th grade teacher (how weird is that). He is 61 and she is 20. My love for Carmela is greater then answering why her two son's are 3 and 5 years older then her and she now has a 2 year old Granddaughter. She is a now a Lola too. lol.

Love does not know age. I tried "not" to love her because I feared the age gap and her being 4'11" 88 pounds and me 6'1 and 300 "what would people think". What this has forced me to do is stop drinking as I worked out all the time but could not lose weight because of BEER>>> Now I have lost weight, feel great as being with a woman 22 years my younger I will need some energy..... I love this feeling. We will file her K1 by end of March as I am starting a new job mid February.

Those that will have problems with our age difference are probably bitter older couples that the wife wrinkles her nose up and her husband thinks "what a lucky guy. Atta boy" lol...

As for more on the topic. Men going to Philippines for love do this because they want a good person nothing like the ex wife they had before. Even in the Philippines you will see local couples now with age gaps. Filipinas often believe that an older man is now settled down and loyal to her. That is all the women there want is love and commitment. They are jealous too.... All this above is why age does not matter there or anywhere in the world now. And oh BTW. My oldest sister was married to a doctor that is 93 now and she is 65.

Age does not matter if it is true love... Sorry this was so long. I got going lol

Edited January 21, 2012 by LSnBigBear

[LSnBigBear 61]

My fiance is a lot younger than me, better educated than me...she has a 4 year degree, vs 2 for me, and she is exploring med school when she arrives here. She is also a RN, very beautiful and is not desperate for me or any man. She and I have many common interests and both enjoy life to the fullest, our age diff is just numerical.

That said, I take offense to Enigma's post and find it insulting....I will say that I have found, in most instances, people with such a narrow minded opinion are usually older women, or old guys who can't get a younger woman, or are with an older woman and are a bit jealous...but thats my 2cents.

IMO, live and let live, everyone else can bite me.

My fiancee has a degree in Education and likewise, she does not need me for anything but love... She supports herself now. One of the few I have ever dated, foreign or domestic that has been self sufficient. And she even sends her Mama and Papa money monthly......

[Tim/Mav 305]

To those who filed k-1, what is the average age difference of a fiance to a fiancee? Is it a matter of desperation for such young girls to marry old guys? Is it for love or money?

I admit it. I'm a "Craddle Robber". 16 1/2 Age difference. SO WHAT IS YOUR AGE DIFFERENCE. We Answered !