Age difference of fiance to fiancee?

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I'm a pig and proud of it.

Edited December 8, 2011 by Crusty Old Perv

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

I'm a pig and proud of it.

I know who you are. You don't need an introduction.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

no commer?! I'm dissapointed.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

[rlogan 2,036]

huh? lol....really? dude I was not putting down or not handling anything or anyone,

Sure you were. You seem to feel obligated to serve your opposition. For example:

Luckily, I hope, there are not a lot of middle aged men pining way for teenagers, Filipina or any nationality.

Obvious for its casting of middle aged men as sick and desperate if they are attracted to what men of all ages are biologically programmed to be attracted to. You "hope" we are "lucky" if they aren't. Why would it be lucky? Why should we hope for men to be different from their genetic programming? You are your own worst enemy with statements like this.

I was thinking common sense would prevail on my response....I was referring to actual relationships, not sal sal sessions, lol.

Two put-downs in this one on behalf of your opposition. First, that "common sense" dictates middle aged men should not be attracted to ideal breeding age females. Common sense dictates that if you want children then it is very stupid to be marrying a middle aged woman. You should be marrying ideal breeding age women like I did. Millions of years' evolution has this common sense built into it by making you attracted to females with the lowest risk of birth defects and the highest probability of successful child-rearing.

The second put-down is the sniping about "sal sal" sessions as opposed to "actual relationships". The defining aspect of a relationship is making a family together, and once again the older a woman is the greater the risk of birth defects and in the end the inability to have children at all.

I see this all the time with men feeling like they have to be ashamed of themselves for being attracted to the women that make the best mothers biologically. Stop doing this. The reason evolution made you attracted to young but sexually mature women is because they are the most fit for offspring. Since that is what by definition creates a family, then it is idiotic to get defensive about it and say the things you have above.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

I know you. I am surprised that you settle for less than yourself.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

silence is acceptence.

[Ron and Rhea 42]

I'm a pig and proud of it.

You're too funny....I've noticed these guys hate to jack with you because you just agree with them...you know the secret, it takes two to argue, just agree and laugh, they can't come back at that......laugh all the way with your 20something yr old gal on your arm ahhaha.

[Ron and Rhea 42]

logan dude, you're wound too tight, take a deep breath, it will be ok...all I was saying is I hope their are not a lot of dudes into little teenybopper girls, I am sure there are, just as there are guys who are into animals, or other dudes, (a few of them, I suspect, are on here, ahhah).....bfd.

To be honest I only read a line or two of your entire post, I really am not interested in your thoughts.....

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

You're too funny....I've noticed these guys hate to jack with you because you just agree with them...you know the secret, it takes two to argue, just agree and laugh, they can't come back at that......laugh all the way with your 20something yr old gal on your arm ahhaha.

He won't "just laugh" bcoz he seeks answers. Why_me is just confused about himself.

Edited December 8, 2011 by Crashed~N2~Me

[rlogan 2,036]

logan dude, you're wound too tight, take a deep breath, it will be ok...

Haw! Way too funny. Manipulation 101: painting your target as an angry person, crazy, perverted, etc. Try provoking them and then blame them for it. But you'd have to get me angry, and it isn't going to happen.

all I was saying is I hope their are not a lot of dudes into little teenybopper girls, I am sure there are, just as there are guys who are into animals, or other dudes, (a few of them, I suspect, are on here, ahhah).....bfd.

To be honest I only read a line or two of your entire post, I really am not interested in your thoughts.....

Then you wouldn't be responding to every post, and most especially not with personal attacks. Another lame effort at manipulation...

[Hank_ 9,174]

Hey Hank, I just now realized that one link you supplied had a bunch of sub links with some really cool and funny things on them...good find brother...!!

Yes it did and I have been back to read a few times since... enlightening!

[sunandmoon 450]

[Ban Hammer 13,337]

[sunandmoon 450]

Sort of an interesting read.

http://www.filipinawives.com/AgeDifferences.htm

that website used to have a popular Philippine Forum. when I was first learning about the process, I joined VJ. I took a pretty vicious beating from some members when asking questions about follow to join for a K-2. I found refuge in The asawa forum. one member there, Ray Bacon pointed out the plus and minus of follow to join, and encouraged me to have my then fiancee's daughter come at the same time as her mom. They came here at the same time and it's one of the best decisions we've ever made. the asawa forum shut down in 2006 and I decided to give VJ another try. I found the Manila Embassy Interview Thread in the Embassy Forum. what I like about it was it's spirit of community. It was so popular, it got so big it had to be restarted 3 times, that the Philippine Forum was created on VJ back in 2007...