RUBbette Wives & Housework, si man

[TBoneTX 45,654]

First thing would be enough for me to send her back home on another 21 hours 4 flights the very next day.

- Victor from Russia

Si, man. In addition, if she'd been like some (many? most?) immigrant wives from a certain country, insisting on sending all our money to her family, she'd have been on the next flight(s) back.

[cappucino boy 29]

Hmmmmm,

You guys all have Russian and women from Ukraine,

My little Polish sausage just found out we have a dishwasher in the new house. We used to do all the dishes by hand and I still do. She hates it when I wash the dishes that way and not put them into the dish washer. This from a woman who didn't know they had dish washers. If we ever return to Poland I know we will have to have a place with a dishwasher and a dryer.

Cleaning the lint trap, no problem. Her description of my several year's collection of lint next to the dryer? Those words are not taught in class.

Why is there water in the toilet?

The dishwasher is where I will hide anything I do not want her to find.

And, I will never be able to find anything in the kitchen ever, again.

This is after 5 days, and for a visit.

I am a very happy man.

Merry Christmas, and enjoy watching the 'Irony of Life'.

[TBoneTX 45,654]

Some chicas rapidly grasp the usefulness of higher technology, si man.

We entertained friends over the last 2+ days. When I got home from work on Monday, Mrs. T-B. had outdone herself getting the casa spotless. As part of this, every trash basket was full, which made for extra work on this normal semiweekly "heavy-garbage" day (including the cat's box & Mini-B.'s diaper pail). I just got finished when our friends arrived, huffnpuff man.

Then, we had a, uh, turkey fire in the kitchen, and now everything still smells like burnt grease. I have those Air-Wick or Renuzit thingies in every room. To be fair, Mrs. T-B. didn't start the inferno, nor did I, no man and no man.

[Loving_girl 38]

hi guys, i am reading your posts about you partners/wifes and wondering if this discussion is followed only by men (married to UA RUS woman)? cos seems like that one way street.....not fair

and

TBoneTX, señor, a veces suenas bien machista me interesa si tu esposa tambien esta de acuerdo con tus puntos de vista? si, man

but still very interesting to read your "reviews" about your wifes, some are true, some are very relative and age limited (meaning that some equal girls/woman raised in USSR forgeting that now all is changed and those who are younger are more open, more familiar to "modern tech" even some do know about dish-washers, washing mashings and kitchen apps

not trying to be mean, but you make me smile guys enjoy reading you all but some female point of view should be present too sometimes

[TBoneTX 45,654]

1. hi guys, i am reading your posts about you partners/wifes and wondering if this discussion is followed only by men (married to UA RUS woman)? cos seems like that one way street.....not fair

2. TBoneTX, señor, a veces suenas bien machista me interesa si tu esposa tambien esta de acuerdo con tus puntos de vista? si, man

3. but still very interesting to read your "reviews" about your wifes, some are true, some are very relative and age limited (meaning that some equal girls/woman raised in USSR forgeting that now all is changed and those who are younger are more open, more familiar to "modern tech" even some do know about dish-washers, washing mashings and kitchen apps

1. My thread so my rules, but you can probably contribute something if you know your place and behave yourself. Sure -- add something.

2. English-only except in the regional forums, si man... uh... OK... Mrs. T-B. probably doesn't realize how privileged she is. She probably loses perspective because a nearly-3-year-old (Mini-B.) is running the entire operation here. Actually, Mrs. T-B. did wonderfully well in cleaning up for our recent visitors, leaving me all the trash baskets to empty and throwing all unorganized items into the space in the garage formerly meant for parking the T-B.-mobile.

3. Mrs. T-B. has finally fouled the chief "rag-on-a-stick" beyond even what the "Heavy-Duty" cycle on the washing machine can overcome, so I'll throw it out when she's not looking. She'll probably grab one of my "ugly Gringo shirts" and use that next.

For anyone who hasn't read it, see man:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/382775-mrs-t-b-the-citizenship-test/

[Loving_girl 38]

1. My thread so my rules, but you can probably contribute something if you know your place and behave yourself. Sure -- add something.

Wow, thanks Will be super quite (though it's not my way to behave) and again do not agree with MACHISTA points of views and taking a wife as a "decoration" or "housekeeper"

Maybe this cos i am way younger than the spouses over here, but as someone already mentioned in this thread that young generation is a bit different from women who worked, studied in the USSR.

My huble opinion is: home apps are good if not overloading the house, mutual respect is also welcome while talking about house work cos it's freaking hard, unless u have a maid

Do not consider appropriate compare latin american woman (as far as i understood ur wife is del Ecuador) and RUB woman, cos they are tooo different worlds (say so cos been in Lat. America for a big time and know how different are latinas and ucranianas (in my case) different from the point of view of housekeeping, style (choosing clothes) and while behaving with a man) . DO NOT say that we are from different planets (i just generalize RUBs and Latinas) but in the end we all are female and all we need is LOVE but also agree when men say some "ladies" are materialistic or look for a sponsor (but still, it all depends and is a human factor!).

Yes, in RUB countries some try to hook a guy that has DINERO but this happens when "lady" is a ""zero" herself (no education, or still in the university, from the family where life with mans' money is charished, or is just thinks as "I AM A LADY MEN OWN ME" which is wrong, cos noone owns nobody!) and such ladies are usually not well informed as for life outside Ukraine and take any foreigner for a rich guy (which is farrrr from being reality). Maybe its post-USSR way of thinking that somewhere life is better and they have the right to think so, but still as a representative of "younger generation", consider that first of all girl has to "create herself" get education, get well paid job (which i know is hard in UA), travel, develop herself etc.

For the guys who still are in search of "slavic beauty", I want to say the following:

1. Do not be super focused on the beauty of local ladies (especially young around 19=28 y.o. cos u may burn) -majority looks for them but doubt that they want marriage

2. For God sake, do not go that often to marraige agency (so many times i hear that girl from the agency gets her money and disappears, THAT IS A BUSINESS in majority of cases!!) - do not say all are bad, but if u go to the agency check it 10000 times....cruel I know, but it's life,,,,be informed plus u get what u desirve cos local ladies are super spoiled with attention and money and are focused on USE and RUN than in anything else, but if the guy who is at his 50s comes to UA and checks for girls of 20s....we all know what for....so the end is predictable

3. Good girls/ladies are normally not in bars, hotels, discos and marriage agencies....be creative there are lots of places to find really good women! - for those who will be interested maybe someday will give hints where to find them

And to finish, I am for equality, openess, ability to expess ourselves. Sorry for my lyrics and if I hurted someone's feelings!

[TBoneTX 45,654]

That's OK, Dear -- we'll probably tolerate your opinions, even though you are a mere woman and we are all machos.

You said, "some try to hook a guy that has DINERO but this happens when 'lady' is a 'zero' herself (no education, or still in the university, from the family where life with mans' money is charished, or is just thinks as 'I AM A LADY MEN OWE ME'"

You have described a great many Americanas whom I have met and unfortunately tried to go out with.

In returning to the topic of this thread, last night I ran the fullest load of dishes that could possibly be crammed into the dishwasher. Mrs. T-B. had company during the day and threw everything from the sink into the machine. Of course, I had to empty everything in order to reorganize it; and of course, the kitchen counters and stove were completely covered with remains of Mrs. T-B.'s entertainment of her guests. It probably took 40 minutes just to get everything ready for washing. Good gringo husband that I am, I waited until the load ran & dried, then emptied the machine before I went to bed... at 2:45 a.m., zzz man.

Edited January 5, 2014 by TBoneTX

[Loving_girl 38]

That's OK, Dear -- we'll probably tolerate your opinions, even though you are a mere woman and we are all machos.

Machos , thanks for TOLERATING ME will try to do my best not to wake up the machismo over here ya que soy chica

You said, "some try to hook a guy that has DINERO but this happens when 'lady' is a 'zero' herself (no education, or still in the university, from the family where life with mans' money is charished, or is just thinks as 'I AM A LADY MEN OWE ME'"

You have described a great many Americanas whom I have met and unfortunately tried to go out with. -thats a problem of lack of education and self esteeme, cos girl/woman who is lazy or somehow thinks that man can solve or imrpove her financial side of life is veryyy wrong cos doubt that lots of guys want to be sponsors for no reason or for "beautiful eyes" plus I do think that this "problem" is all over the world

I see you are really enfocado with dish-washing and yes, seems that Good gring esposo is a nice house-keeper donoo if Mrs. T-B told you: Gracias amor

Okay, done for today, off to cook some comida rica and wash dishes after que vida dura

[TBoneTX 45,654]

Mrs. T-B. rarely thanks me, sigh man. You're going to wash dishes?!

[Loving_girl 38]

Si, man I always wash dishes (hate having dirty dishes when I still cook, prefer it all to be neat and clean) and guess what......the rest of the house too But in our couple we have some kind of an agreement: if I cook - he washes dishes (if he is around), if he cooks - I wash dishes, if we have dishes left from the other day - they are cleaned by the one who got up first

As for cleaning around: normally the big cleaning we split up, every-day cleaning is on me

Uff que buena mujer soy y modesta

Edited January 6, 2014 by Loving_girl

[TBoneTX 45,654]

Si, si si... muy modesta. Now get back to your housework.

[Darnell 8,478]

Wow, thanks Will be super quite (though it's not my way to behave) and again do not agree with MACHISTA points of views and taking a wife as a "decoration" or "housekeeper"

Maybe this cos i am way younger than the spouses over here, but as someone already mentioned in this thread that young generation is a bit different from women who worked, studied in the USSR.

My huble opinion is: home apps are good if not overloading the house, mutual respect is also welcome while talking about house work cos it's freaking hard, unless u have a maid

Do not consider appropriate compare latin american woman (as far as i understood ur wife is del Ecuador) and RUB woman, cos they are tooo different worlds (say so cos been in Lat. America for a big time and know how different are latinas and ucranianas (in my case) different from the point of view of housekeeping, style (choosing clothes) and while behaving with a man) . DO NOT say that we are from different planets (i just generalize RUBs and Latinas) but in the end we all are female and all we need is LOVE but also agree when men say some "ladies" are materialistic or look for a sponsor (but still, it all depends and is a human factor!).

Yes, in RUB countries some try to hook a guy that has DINERO but this happens when "lady" is a ""zero" herself (no education, or still in the university, from the family where life with mans' money is charished, or is just thinks as "I AM A LADY MEN OWN ME" which is wrong, cos noone owns nobody!) and such ladies are usually not well informed as for life outside Ukraine and take any foreigner for a rich guy (which is farrrr from being reality). Maybe its post-USSR way of thinking that somewhere life is better and they have the right to think so, but still as a representative of "younger generation", consider that first of all girl has to "create herself" get education, get well paid job (which i know is hard in UA), travel, develop herself etc.

For the guys who still are in search of "slavic beauty", I want to say the following:

1. Do not be super focused on the beauty of local ladies (especially young around 19=28 y.o. cos u may burn) -majority looks for them but doubt that they want marriage

2. For God sake, do not go that often to marraige agency (so many times i hear that girl from the agency gets her money and disappears, THAT IS A BUSINESS in majority of cases!!) - do not say all are bad, but if u go to the agency check it 10000 times....cruel I know, but it's life,,,,be informed plus u get what u desirve cos local ladies are super spoiled with attention and money and are focused on USE and RUN than in anything else, but if the guy who is at his 50s comes to UA and checks for girls of 20s....we all know what for....so the end is predictable

3. Good girls/ladies are normally not in bars, hotels, discos and marriage agencies....be creative there are lots of places to find really good women! - for those who will be interested maybe someday will give hints where to find them

And to finish, I am for equality, openess, ability to expess ourselves. Sorry for my lyrics and if I hurted someone's feelings!

Ah - please remember that TBone started this thread as he was seeking solace about stuff going down at his house, and thought perhaps that spouses of RUB womens would give him a different point of view.

IMO, he caves when a RUB woman actually shows up and tells him 'the truth'.

It happens, at least every 3 months. So, I welcome you to this topic, and thank you for engaging with the TBone. I pray he can refactor his life and environs one more time so that both adults in the house stay happy. Sure, it means yet another refactor, but he can do it !

[Loving_girl 38]

Si, si si... muy modesta. Now get back to your housework.

Don't mass with Ukrainian woman never know what she may do/say/think Si, man o mejor digo: Si Señor jajajja o Si, su excelencia

Housework is done, please do not be jelous of RUB girls (most of time we are good wifes, mothers, partners, cookers etc.) SI MANNNNNNNN Ask guys married to Ukrainian woman, doubt that they will say she can not cook, keep things in order or is bad mother!

Edited January 6, 2014 by Loving_girl

[Loving_girl 38]

Ah - please remember that TBone started this thread as he was seeking solace about stuff going down at his house, and thought perhaps that spouses of RUB womens would give him a different point of view.

IMO, he caves when a RUB woman actually shows up and tells him 'the truth'.

It happens, at least every 3 months. So, I welcome you to this topic, and thank you for engaging with the TBone. I pray he can refactor his life and environs one more time so that both adults in the house stay happy. Sure, it means yet another refactor, but he can do it !

Applaud you standing for support, and giving me slight feed back towards TB Never the less his posts are really funny, though sometimes full of sexism and machismo As UA woman i may say that we had the CHARACTER and do not usually man mass with us As for me, it´s hard to argue with me, ask my man

[Darnell 8,478]

granted, the humour in this post is priceless - I hope TBone is amassing a book for publication.