Why a Girl from the Philippines

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

Lmao. I don't know how this thread went from dating Filipinas to dating Filipina bar girls but my opinion is...

despite of their job description, I think bar girls also dream of having a normal happy relationship with someone who will appreciate them despite of the nature of their job, whatever it is. That's why they tend to give more attention to their husbands, because they want to get out of their present emotional situation.

Nothing wrong with bar girls, as long as they aren't hiding something you weren't expecting, or maybe you were, not that there is anything wrong with that between consenting adults.

[Kang 22]

Like any other nation: it's a combination of a good and the bad ones. You just have to be keen and exposed to the culture to minimize the mistake. Sometimes if you meet just a real bad one, you tend to stereotype: visa hungry, #######, liar little brown monkeys.

My fiance was coughing when we arrived in Subic bay here around here on June. Then he met this guy at the bar, and he was told that he was sick because I gave him a chlamydia.

What is that guy doing in a bar and in the Philippines?

(is he Pinoy?)

[paul_kay 31]

Nothing wrong with bar girls, as long as they aren't hiding something you weren't expecting, or maybe you were, not that there is anything wrong with that between consenting adults.

LMAO...or maybe I was?! Sorry I got lost in translation.

[Kang 22]

Not sure about number 4 since although there isn't legally any divorce in the Philippines, many are annulled and legally separated. These three usually differ only in legality, technicality but bottom is two couples aren't together anymore

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

***** Moving from K1 to Philippines forum as question/ discussion is not about the K1 process*****

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I have no scientific proof, but believe me, Filipinas are absolute FREAKS in bed.

[Hank_ 9,174]

Well I am not buying that one.... "girls are girls are girls" ... not.

I could be prejudice.... but that's fine.

Edited November 18, 2011 by Hank_Amy

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I have no scientific proof, but believe me, Filipinas are absolute FREAKS in bed.

No more than any other repressed Catholic girl. I suggest renting a room close to the simbahan for the really freaky stuff, so that she can makita ang pari soon afterwards so that she can gumawa pangungumpisal.

[ronluvme 10]

Zen den,

Your absolutey right.american women take notice.

Ronluvme

[BobnCherry 10]

You Guys are all the best maybe we organize a annual VJ Party kinda like a sturgis for VJ people hehehe. For those not familair with the sturgis event people from all over the USA meet and have a big party for a week.

I plan on going next year went in 08 and loved it!!! I showed pics of it to my fiancee and she can't believe there are that many Harleys all in one place.

[The Nature Boy 4,224]

Sometimes I think their is some misperception as to how girls from the philippines are, I can only relate my own story. First I have always thought that girls from this part of the world are beautiful both inside and out. I was fortunate to have been to the Philippines when I was serving in the USMC and have been to diffrent parts of Asia for business since then.

To me a girl is a girl is a girl meaning yes there will be cultural influence and yes maybe certain attributes that are local to that community or area but beyond that is a woman, a woman who just happens to live in another country who sometimes eats diffrent foods, speaks other languages and lives in a diffrent climate. What woman anywhere in the world does not want to be loved and cared for, and to feel secure, and I answer most all women do. once in love geography goes right out the window.

Of course there is an attraction to a better life, but thats just an attraction, the real thing is the same old things that have drawn couples together and kept them together for centuries, Love, Committment, chemistry, similair beleifs and attitudes, being able to make one another laugh and just that over all feeling of being meant to be. I think there are a lot of misperceptions both on behalf of westerners as well as east, I think though if people search their heart they will find that it all comes down to love, no matter where you may be from.

For me, I know I met a girl who just happens to live in another country and for me she is the girl I love, not a girl from the philippines, but just a beautiful woman inside and out. I think most of the people here on VJ know this and are lucky, so that being said cheers to us all, God Bless us and our realionships today,tommorow and the next.

I wish VJ had a like button

[one...two...tree 2,762]

I like that you can shop for them in the teen clothing area without getting arrested.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I like that you can shop for them in the teen clothing area without getting arrested.

Sometimes in the boys clothing area as well.

[Hank_ 9,174]

I plan on going next year went in 08 and loved it!!! I showed pics of it to my fiancee and she can't believe there are that many Harleys all in one place.

I was there in '08 as well.... sorry I missed ya!

[TeapotGirl 66]

Lmao. I don't know how this thread went from dating Filipinas to dating Filipina bar girls but my opinion is...

despite of their job description, I think bar girls also dream of having a normal happy relationship with someone who will appreciate them despite of the nature of their job, whatever it is. That's why they tend to give more attention to their husbands, because they want to get out of their present emotional situation.

Not all but its just that kind of job is surrounded with lies. From their name, age, address, educational attainment, hobbies-anything that will lead them to cash. For ordinary women who isn't used to lie, that doesn't feel normal. But of course, there are still women that are born pathological liar even if they are not bar worker.

Not sure about number 4 since although there isn't legally any divorce in the Philippines, many are annulled and legally separated. These three usually differ only in legality, technicality but bottom is two couples aren't together anymore

Or just parted ways...because it's expensive to hire a lawyer. One of the reasons why couples just live together, have children but not married.

What is that guy doing in a bar and in the Philippines?(is he Pinoy?)

He's a Canadian. We met him in the resorts bar. I dunno what is he doing around the Subic bars. Maybe because he is an alcoholic. I saw him before I slept, when I got up, he's still there. For 4days it's always like that. In all fairness, he gave a lot of jaw dropping cautionary tips to my fiance.

Edited November 19, 2011 by teapotgurl1983