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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Romania
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Hi Everyone ! I am really really struggling with this decision. During the whole K1 process I have been planning to go to Romania to be with my man at his interview. Well 3 months ago we went on a vacation to Puerto Vallarta and am excited to say I am 3 months pregnant with Twins !! I have not been feeling the best, but my doctor says it is my choice to go or not. She said there are no major risks in traveling but I will be far away from home etc. We have lots and lots of proof of our relationship, but i still feel like I need to be there because its such big day. I am just really nervous to fly and dont want anything to happen to our babies. What would you do ?? Thanks everyone :)

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: India
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I think you should not go there your fiance can go to interview by him self. After approval from embassy he is coming there to be with you so My advise is you should take rest and don't take any risk. Good luck

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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OP.. I disagree with your doctor. Your vacation got you pregnant and thats OK. Your should be asking for a signed Medical Reason from your Doctor stating it is not in the best Interest of the Unborn Children to travel because your Stress reflects on the Unborn Children and he should have these papers for the Interview. Signed by your doctor. Anyone with a brain will tell you: The Stress is enough without being pregnant and traveling. You will encounter Stress, apitite changes and sleep loss. Not Good for Carrying children. It may or maynot be important you show at the interview but if they ask: You cannot attent in the Best Interest of the Children.

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TIM/MAV K1-JOURNEY
3/27/2007....We first met on myspace
1/30/10 ......My Honey proposed
8/15/10 ......He visit Philippines(2wks) & met my family
12/17/10 ....USCIS received the Filed I-129F for K1-visa
12/21/10 ....Received hard copy,NOA1
5/25/11.......Received RFE
6/09/11.......NOA2 approved
12/07/11.....Visa fee paid at BPI

6/11/13.......2nd visa fee payment
7/10-11/13.. Medical Exam completed@St.Lukes Clinic
1/15-16/14.. 2nd Medical exam updated
1/21/14...... k1 interview-Visa Approved
.....................................................................
8/29/14...... Submitted AOS application
10/03/14.....Biometrics
01/07/15.....Received my EAD card

01/31/15..... I got my SSN from the mail

04/20/15......AOS Interview - Approved :star:

4/24/15 .......Got the Driving Permit Card

4/30/15 .......Green Card Received :) (Exp.4/20/17)

http://youtu.be/BVf45EcdFwQ

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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At some consulates, the failure of the U.S. citizen to be on the premises for the interview can be damaging or fatal to the issuance of the visa. Happily, the U.S. embassy in Romania is apparently not one of those. Have your fiance carry a letter from you, or e-mail the consulate yourself, that explains your situation and your intention to attend if circumstances were otherwise.

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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Very good advice T-Bone. The circumstances of a risky manuever exceed Common Sense based on the situtation. :thumbs:

TIM/MAV K1-JOURNEY
3/27/2007....We first met on myspace
1/30/10 ......My Honey proposed
8/15/10 ......He visit Philippines(2wks) & met my family
12/17/10 ....USCIS received the Filed I-129F for K1-visa
12/21/10 ....Received hard copy,NOA1
5/25/11.......Received RFE
6/09/11.......NOA2 approved
12/07/11.....Visa fee paid at BPI

6/11/13.......2nd visa fee payment
7/10-11/13.. Medical Exam completed@St.Lukes Clinic
1/15-16/14.. 2nd Medical exam updated
1/21/14...... k1 interview-Visa Approved
.....................................................................
8/29/14...... Submitted AOS application
10/03/14.....Biometrics
01/07/15.....Received my EAD card

01/31/15..... I got my SSN from the mail

04/20/15......AOS Interview - Approved :star:

4/24/15 .......Got the Driving Permit Card

4/30/15 .......Green Card Received :) (Exp.4/20/17)

http://youtu.be/BVf45EcdFwQ

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Romania
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Hi Everyone ! I am really really struggling with this decision. During the whole K1 process I have been planning to go to Romania to be with my man at his interview. Well 3 months ago we went on a vacation to Puerto Vallarta and am excited to say I am 3 months pregnant with Twins !! I have not been feeling the best, but my doctor says it is my choice to go or not. She said there are no major risks in traveling but I will be far away from home etc. We have lots and lots of proof of our relationship, but i still feel like I need to be there because its such big day. I am just really nervous to fly and dont want anything to happen to our babies. What would you do ?? Thanks everyone :)

Congrats to you two,and best of luck.I can't tell you to go or not to go...:) I was in your man's shoes,and wished so bad my fiance could be there with me that day.After all we decided that he doesn't need to come for the interview.Everything went good,didn't get the visa at the first interview,because they wanted more documentation,proving our relationship(not that I didn't have enough)...lol...but anyway,the second interview went even better,they didn't even looked at what I gave them,my visa was already approved.If you guys have all what they ask for,than there is no problem,I believe everything will go well.If you really feel that you need to be there,maybe you need to go.It is your decision.

Best of luck and take care!:)

K1- Visa Journey

July 2007-Met Hubby online
January 2008-Started K1 visa process
11/07/2008-NOA(I-797C,Approval Notice)
03/05/2009-K1(K2) Visa Approved
06/23/2009-POE( JFK,NY)
08/15/2009-Married


AOS Journey
11/19/2011(Day00)-Mailed AOS(I-485/EAD/AP For me and my son)
11/21/2011-(Day2)-AOS delivered(no text,no email though from USCIS)
11/22/2011-(Day3)-Application routed to NBC for processing,as stated in the text/email notice received on 12/08/2011
12/08/2011-(Day20)-Text/Email received)
12/09/2011-(Day21)Check cashed
12/13/2011-(Day24)I-797C,NOA hard copies received in the mail(dated 12/08/2011)
12/30/2011-(Day41)Case transferred to another USCIS office for processing(don't know yet which office)
01/06/2012-(Day47)Received text/email that our case is being now processed to another USCIS office
01/09/2012-(Day50)Notice(dated 12/30/11) received in the mail,case transferred to CSC,still no biometrics appt yet
01/25/2012-(Day64)-AP approved-still no biometrics appointment yet...
02/16/2012-(Day86)-Received Biometrics Appt.Notice in the mail
02/29/2012-(Day99)-Biometrics done and EAD approved,email received the same day EAD card/document production ordered
03/05/2012-(Day104)-2nd EAD email update received Card/Document production ordered
03/06/2012-(Day105)-3rd EAD email update received Card/Document mailed
03/09/2012-(Day106)-EAD/AP combo card received in the mail
04/13/2012-(Day140)-10 year Green Card approved(no interview)

...and the Journey continues...in about 3 years...

Naturalization Journey

07/03/2015-N-400 Application mailed via USPS Priority Mail

07/13/2015-N-400 Application Rejected on the basis of insufficient supporting documentation for the Fee Waiver

07/18/2015-N-400 Application mailed via USPS Priority Mail

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I went alone at my interview and had no issues at all. I was asked about 6 easy questions and that was it. Most people going through Bucharest go alone and all that i talked to had pretty easy interviews with no problems. It`s not required to be there with your fiance in Romania and i don`t think it makes any difference at all. Good luck and congrats for the pregnancy!

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03/31/2010 filed I129

12/16/2010 Interwiew-Approved

02/07/2011 POE-Chicago

03/16/2011 Wedding!!!

05/23/2011 AOS,EAD,AP apps sent

07/15/2011 EAD, AP approved

10/05/2011 AOS approved

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