Wife's son is moving out already. I have concerns.

[visaveteran1 33]

It could be.

Seriously, once we're "emptied" we're not on the prowl like we are when we're full. We're always looking, but there's a big difference between, "Oh, that's nice" and "Oh, that's nice enough for me to throw down right in the middle of this grocery store and sop up with a biscuit."

The ladies know this. The good ones make sure we're "taken care of" whenever we head out into a target-rich environment. "Going to the gun club with your buddies? Bye. See you at supper time." "Going to the grocery store to pick up a loaf of bread.... hold on a sec."

You're on to it here Slim. Women want power and control through sex. Men must honor their natural instructions to find women in life's "hunting grounds," mate and always we must retain the natural power men hold in the world. This is the dance of genders. It is a power struggle wrapped up in "civilized "romance."

Through this intermediate step called romance, courtship, dating...or whatever you care to call it...we (men and women) try to meet in the middle (pun intended). For us men, it's a hunt and we're out sniffing the air for Targets. Once we've succeeded...there's the period of let down...testosterone drop...and then calm. But soon the process reoccurs. A new hunt begins. We suffer marriage to satisfy our hardwired instructions to reproduce and sustain human life. That is to say, we settle down to: 1. make "hunting" easier, and 2. to protect and raise the results of the hunt...children. We give up a degree of freedom and power when we agree to stop open hunting and tie ourselves to only one target.

Here's where it gets tricky. If we have wise and knowing and erotic women (wives), they will try their utmost to keep our hunting in their bedroom and keep us "emptied" to use Gary's terminology. If, however, our women turn lazy, loose their sexual focus, or try to play the sexual power struggle game: "control by withhold," we will go elsewhere for the hunt, or turn into dower, weak, emasculated monkeys and turn all power over to the feminine. Either way, sooner or later, a divorce will resolve the issue...and we will try again to hunt like the young men we once were.

[TBoneTX 45,090]

we will go elsewhere for the hunt, or turn into dower, weak, emasculated monkeys and turn all power over to the feminine. Either way, sooner or later, a divorce will resolve the issue...and we will try again to hunt like the young men we once were.

As long as nothing (or everything) is done as a sperm-of-the-moment decision, se men.

[visaveteran1 33]

As long as nothing (or everything) is done as a sperm-of-the-moment decision, se men.

Yes, this is all a paradox. See man. Be man.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Here's where it gets tricky. If we have wise and knowing and erotic women (wives), they will try their utmost to keep our hunting in their bedroom and keep us "emptied" to use Gary's terminology. If, however, our women turn lazy, loose their sexual focus, or try to play the sexual power struggle game: "control by withhold," we will go elsewhere for the hunt, or turn into dower, weak, emasculated monkeys and turn all power over to the feminine. Either way, sooner or later, a divorce will resolve the issue...and we will try again to hunt like the young men we once were.

"Emptied" is Alla's terminology.

When you get out there hunting again be sure to use enough gun!

[slim 1,523]

(wives), they will try their utmost to keep our hunting in their bedroom and keep us "emptied"

If you read through history you can find examples of wives that would hire prostitutes, buy slaves, or use concubines to keep the husband "empty" so long as they were the only one bearing him children and therefore the heir to whatever fortune was at stake. Many, many, many instances of killing offspring to keep the man "trying" have occured.

No matter what we say... it's all biological at the end of the day. If you can understand that, you can exploit it.

"Emptied" is Alla's terminology.

I'll never ever forget a young lady from Thailand I met in the middle east. She tried her hardest and kept trying, kept trying, tried again... "Honey, you empty. I take everything!"

Sometimes I miss her. Such a giver!