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[Dave-n-Oksana 49]

You want the real answers or just poking fun?

There are 116 women for every 100 men in Ukraine and that is the average for young women. The odds are far higher against them at age 30 or 40. The average life span of a man in Ukraine is 58, a woman 77. Population dymanics. The dfference is OBVIOUS. If you do not know what 116 women to 100 men looks like on the street...go to Ukraine.

Alcoholism is a pervasive problem in the FSU. FSU women do not like drunks because they are notr reliable and FSU women are very traditional in their beliefs of the roles for women in the family which is still incredibly important there. She sees a drunk as nothing but trouble. Scratch 30% of the men at least, maybe 50%. Now the odds are 116 to what? 75? maybe. That means if ALL the Russian men who aren't drunks marry ALL the women, it leaves 41 women unmarried out 116. OR 16 unmarried and 25 miserable, abused women. Those are not good odds, even for musical chairs.

Now add in that there is a strong cultural desire for women to be married and care for a family. I am almost done with demographics.

the other is that any man can look good when he is 22 or 23, but maybe he will be a drunk by age 33 and they will be divorced with two kids. Now if a guy is 50 and he has a good job (good means stable and pays enough to live, not necessarily "rich")and is not an alcoholic and is not abusive, then he probably will not be ever. If he is from American he has a life expectancy of 79. Not bad at all! I am not all that much older than Alla, she looks younger than she is. I don't. Our age difference is slightly more than common in the USA but not much. We do know some couple with age differences of 30 years, Alla and I are on the "low side" for age difference in the couples we know. None of them make any judgements, Alla's best friend has a husband 30 years older than her and I have never heard Alla even mention it.

A large portion of the population, less now than before, were raised in the Soviet Union and had a lot of disapointment in life. They have had a difficult life. There are things burned into the memory of the little girl that is now my MIL, that I do not have the fortitude to discuss and I stand in awe of the woman, to be frank. They were always told of the glory of communism and that the promised land was just on the horizon. Promises and maybes and things that fade mean nothing to those people. You can not understand it and I cannot either, though maybe just a tad better than the average American.

So they do not care about yor bank account, your car, or even your home as long as it is enough for the family and their idea of "enough" is quite less than yours or mine. I assure you. Money gets lost, it has twice in my wife's lifetime simply evaporated and been worthless the next day. You have no idea of that and wouldn't handle it well. Cars work for a while and break. So does the hot water and elevator. They believe it will.

They want something enduring, good looks are not enduring, anyone with a brain can see that. Women do not concern themselves with good looks for men.

I assure you my wife believes she has hit the jackpot with me. I have a woodshop and make her things, I remodel all the rooms in our home and do amazing ceramic tile work, our kitchen and bathrooms look as good as anyone making ten times my income because I do it myself. She eats on a table I made, sleeps on the bed I made, hangs her clothes in the wardrobe I made, all design copies from Italian furniture catalogs she dreamed about but knew she could never own. We go places together whenever we can, there is no one I would rather be with, for any reason. I care for the kids as if they were my own, she KNOWS that now and that is what she imagined before we married. I make them a priority as she does. I am a warm fuzzy bear she takes a bath with every night and holds all night who keeps her warm and safe. She gets to live her lfie as she dreamed, caring for family, doing a job using her education, using the skills she loves to use. There are richer, better looking guys than me, but try to find one that will really care for her, help her with her difficult education, teach the bys to drive, help Pasha to learn English. You cannot buy those things from my wife. I guess I could go on. Never mind.

Frankly, a woman that says "Why is SHE with YOU?" is exactly the kind of superficial woman I had no interest in. And it is a fact that an American woman cannot have the combination of life experiences that result in the qualities I admire in my FSU wife. The recipe is all wrong. Not to say that someone else doesn't want that, or prefer that. I can imagine that sentence will be the only one some people focus on. Oh, well. Just proves the case.

I am very proud of my intelligent, talented, loving, caring and drop dead gorgeous wife. I consider myself the luckiest man on earth. And while people who would rather think bad things like to say I only care about her looks, you would have to ignore that I proudly post her other accomplishments since she has arrived and not just to brag (a little bragging OK) but to show other women from other non-native English speaking countries that they CAN succeed, have a rewarding life, and make progress in their new home

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Good video Kip and pretty much true excet why did the Russian chick have a British accent? Oh horror! English with a Russian accent or better, just Russian is SO much hotter.

I mean a naked hot Russian chick snuggles up to you and starts taling Russian in your ear and you wonder how in God's name did we ever win the effin' cold war???????

[tmma 467]

In Texas you can and they do.

Oh that's good.

Must have been a local ordinance thing, then....because a few years ago I thought to myself ' hey, there is a huge hole ( no pun intended) in the market here'.....I saw a great business op....but when I researched the direct marketing of these items......it was a no go. maybe stuff has changed,or my information is out of date. I found this out a few years ago, it seemed like a huge hassle with permits & just gave up & started shopping in DFW, or buying the real deal stuff in AMS ( and I don't mean herbs).

Edited November 6, 2011 by tmma

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Oh that's good.

Must have been a local ordinance thing, then....because a few years ago I thought to myself ' hey, there is a huge hole ( no pun intended) in the market here'.....I saw a great business op....but when I researched the direct marketing of these items......it was a no go. maybe stuff has changed,or my information is out of date. I found this out a few years ago, it seemed like a huge hassle with permits & just gave up & started shopping in DFW, or buying the real deal stuff in AMS ( and I don't mean herbs).

You host "passion Parties" ???

Alla went to one. At first she was like "there are artificial c*cks everywhere!" I left with the guys and came back later and OMG!!!!!! A little wine and those girls were OUTTA control!!!!!!!!

They did this for their annual "women's day" party, March 8. what a hoot!

[tmma 467]

You host "passion Parties" ???

Alla went to one. At first she was like "there are artificial c*cks everywhere!" I left with the guys and came back later and OMG!!!!!! A little wine and those girls were OUTTA control!!!!!!!!

They did this for their annual "women's day" party, March 8. what a hoot!

No, I don't.

But years ago I did look into it as there was NO ONE in this area doing anything like that. I can't remember the name of the company, but they were out of Ca and had no foot hold in this area. At the time I thought it was a gross disservice to the ladies of this county not to do it. But as wrote above...at the time it was a no go. They are alot of fun. We had them all the time in the UK, too.

Edited November 6, 2011 by tmma

[luckytxn 2,265]

Oh that's good.

Must have been a local ordinance thing, then....because a few years ago I thought to myself ' hey, there is a huge hole ( no pun intended) in the market here'.....I saw a great business op....but when I researched the direct marketing of these items......it was a no go. maybe stuff has changed,or my information is out of date. I found this out a few years ago, it seemed like a huge hassle with permits & just gave up & started shopping in DFW, or buying the real deal stuff in AMS ( and I don't mean herbs).

Some towns in Texas are ####### about anything. You know about the dry towns and stuff. Even Houston has made it hard to own and run a nice naked bar. Luckily I live in Galveston county.

Don't give up on the market idea though. Woman are huge pervs.

Edited November 6, 2011 by luckytxn

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

In Texas you can and they do.

My cousin who lives in Ft. Worth said those toys were illegal. That was back in 2003.

Edited November 6, 2011 by Why_Me

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Some towns in Texas are ####### about anything. You know about the dry towns and stuff. Even Houston has made it hard to own and run a nice naked bar. Luckily I live in Galveston county.

Don't give up on the market idea though. Woman are huge pervs.

Galveston was ALWAYS the Sodom and Gomorrah of Texas. The Strand? Are you kidding me?!! They took alot of the fun out if it but I doubt they changed much really.

To my knowledge, if I recall, there was something about sex toys could not actually LOOK like a "sex toy" This completely flipped me out.

Ok, so first you have grown ups deciding that other grown ups can't have something so unimagineably horrible as sex toy in their own bedroom, but they implement a law that would require a "committee" of some sort, and I am presuming these are adult government employees paid with tax dollars, to actually sit around and review sex toys and decide which is OK and which is not. Can you even imagine?

"Vibrating Rubber ducky? Show of hands...this one is OK. Vibrating Dolphin? Yeah sure right? Does everyone agree? King Tut the monster vibrating, rotating c*ck? NO WAY!!!!!!!!!!"

Why do otherwise sane states have to go there? ####### gets up their butt to cause that?

And you know, there is a whorehouse, or 6, or 40 operating in every county, strip clubs everywhere, young men in fast cars driving 90 miles to Waco to buy beer and whiskey...#######!

Don't EVEN talk to me about Alabama, it is just a bad joke.

[Danno 1,228]

that's crazy. sex toys are part of a healthy sex life.

Clinton would agree wholeheartedly.... but you see what can happen when you get caught.

[ONA 133]

How about just having a thread about how ANY woman makes a great wife if she's respected, loved and cherished?

Does ANY man make a good husband if he's respected loved and cherished? No way. The same for women.

Some people are just not marriage material, it doesn't matter how much you love them and care for them.

[sandinista! 1,816]

Does ANY man make a good husband if he's respected loved and cherished? No way. The same for women.

Some people are just not marriage material, it doesn't matter how much you love them and care for them.

I think she means in the context of nationality as a predictor. Clearly not all RUB women are marriage material- some of y'all are hell in heels and not in the fun way. Just like women everywhere.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

How about just having a thread about how ANY woman makes a great wife if she's respected, loved and cherished?

why doesn't your husband start one?

[Amby 490]

why doesn't your husband start one?

why doesn't your wife come on here and start a thread about how awesome her husband is? that was silly gary! why would you expect someone who doesn't even use VJ to come on here and start a thread about something. silly man!

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

why doesn't your wife come on here and start a thread about how awesome her husband is? that was silly gary! why would you expect someone who doesn't even use VJ to come on here and start a thread about something. silly man!

why would someone expect another man to start a thread raving about how great women he isn't married to are? Are you kidding me?

Kind of silly to ask "why don't we have a thread about..." Seriously?

START ONE!! Go up and right, click on "start new topic" and go for it.

Amazing you would think that I am the silly one.

Alla does not need to come here and tell you how wonderful I am, I do that myself and it is every bit as valid as someone having a signature espousing the virtues of their own nationality and others that they deem superior.

Glad there is no double standard.

[Ban Hammer 13,502]

why doesn't your wife come on here and start a thread about how awesome her husband is?

i asked nessa about doing just that. she hasn't stopped laughing yet.