ATTN: VJ Women...order this book!

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Because that would be lying.

In your sorry world it would be.

New mods, new day. Since Charles got the power, the RUB forum has been nice and mellow.

Really.

Charles has been modding since before you were even a member.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

In your sorry world it would be.

Really.

Charles has been modding since before you were even a member.

Charles has new powers now. He be da man. Pair him up with "Brad and Vika" and the RUB regional forum is smelling like a rose these days. Also that new mod...the Irish gal... Penguin isn't half bad either. This board just keeps improving with time.

Edited November 5, 2011 by Why_Me

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Charles has new powers now. He be da man. Pair him up with "Brad and Vika" and the RUB regional forum is smelling like a rose these days. Also that new mod...the Irish gal... Penguin isn't half bad either. This board just keeps improving with time.

Oh yes indeed. You and your cesspool imagination are a great asset to what was supposed to be a family immigration board.

Edited November 5, 2011 by Rebecca Jo

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Oh yes indeed. You and your cesspool imagination are a great asset to what was supposed to be a family immigration board.

Level playing fields must suck eh Rebecca Jo? It is what it is, so learn to deal with it.

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Level playing fields must suck eh Rebecca Jo? It is what it is, so learn to deal with it.

Oh, I'm once again impressed by your internet machismo.

Why don't you take your pornographic Tarzan/Jane routine and put it where the sun doesn't shine.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

Oh, I'm once again impressed by your internet machismo.

Why don't you take your pornographic Tarzan/Jane routine and put it where the sun doesn't shine.

Have a piece, it's on me.

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Have a piece, it's on me.

OMG, I wouldn't eat that if it were free.

Looks like something someone would serve up after pork chops.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

You could start one in Off Topic, like "Why do ________* women make the best wives?"

* Insert one or more of the following:

• Russian
  
• Asian
  
• Persian
  
• Submissive
  
• Young
  
• Ugly
  
• Toothless
  
• Petite
  
• Bowlegged
  
• Short
  
• Tall
  
• Fat
  
• Skinny
  
• Smart
  
• Rich
  

Ukrainian. Here we go!!!!!!!!!!!

[tmma 467]

...... it's on me.

looks more like it's been in you. Seriously, that looks awful .

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

OK, so a relative of mine in the UK who is 70 , a landowner and rich- and ill with emphysema (sp) is corresponding with his 33 year old girlfriend. She's flying up to visit him next week. I've seen her emails and she is beautiful, well educated and ' in love with him'.,<----quotes from her.

i think they are marrying in the UK on her visit. She's flying in from Moscow. Now, I love this relative and he is convinced of her love- and that it's HIM she wants. I was thinking...' eh- wth.....I mean it's obvious what is this relative's selling factor....but, hey, if he gets a shag or 2 before he pops.......it's all good,'.

I'm not B.Sing...this is true. But it did remind of of a couple of you guys in the RUB forum. I mean, there are hot guys in Russia, who are not old, overweight and that are around the same age and score out of 10 as some of your wives. Why are these lovely well educated women marrying you guys, or my old coot of a relative in the UK?

You want the real answers or just poking fun?

There are 116 women for every 100 men in Ukraine and that is the average for young women. The odds are far higher against them at age 30 or 40. The average life span of a man in Ukraine is 58, a woman 77. Population dymanics. The dfference is OBVIOUS. If you do not know what 116 women to 100 men looks like on the street...go to Ukraine.

Alcoholism is a pervasive problem in the FSU. FSU women do not like drunks because they are notr reliable and FSU women are very traditional in their beliefs of the roles for women in the family which is still incredibly important there. She sees a drunk as nothing but trouble. Scratch 30% of the men at least, maybe 50%. Now the odds are 116 to what? 75? maybe. That means if ALL the Russian men who aren't drunks marry ALL the women, it leaves 41 women unmarried out 116. OR 16 unmarried and 25 miserable, abused women. Those are not good odds, even for musical chairs.

Now add in that there is a strong cultural desire for women to be married and care for a family. I am almost done with demographics.

the other is that any man can look good when he is 22 or 23, but maybe he will be a drunk by age 33 and they will be divorced with two kids. Now if a guy is 50 and he has a good job (good means stable and pays enough to live, not necessarily "rich")and is not an alcoholic and is not abusive, then he probably will not be ever. If he is from American he has a life expectancy of 79. Not bad at all! I am not all that much older than Alla, she looks younger than she is. I don't. Our age difference is slightly more than common in the USA but not much. We do know some couple with age differences of 30 years, Alla and I are on the "low side" for age difference in the couples we know. None of them make any judgements, Alla's best friend has a husband 30 years older than her and I have never heard Alla even mention it.

A large portion of the population, less now than before, were raised in the Soviet Union and had a lot of disapointment in life. They have had a difficult life. There are things burned into the memory of the little girl that is now my MIL, that I do not have the fortitude to discuss and I stand in awe of the woman, to be frank. They were always told of the glory of communism and that the promised land was just on the horizon. Promises and maybes and things that fade mean nothing to those people. You can not understand it and I cannot either, though maybe just a tad better than the average American.

So they do not care about yor bank account, your car, or even your home as long as it is enough for the family and their idea of "enough" is quite less than yours or mine. I assure you. Money gets lost, it has twice in my wife's lifetime simply evaporated and been worthless the next day. You have no idea of that and wouldn't handle it well. Cars work for a while and break. So does the hot water and elevator. They believe it will.

They want something enduring, good looks are not enduring, anyone with a brain can see that. Women do not concern themselves with good looks for men.

I assure you my wife believes she has hit the jackpot with me. I have a woodshop and make her things, I remodel all the rooms in our home and do amazing ceramic tile work, our kitchen and bathrooms look as good as anyone making ten times my income because I do it myself. She eats on a table I made, sleeps on the bed I made, hangs her clothes in the wardrobe I made, all design copies from Italian furniture catalogs she dreamed about but knew she could never own. We go places together whenever we can, there is no one I would rather be with, for any reason. I care for the kids as if they were my own, she KNOWS that now and that is what she imagined before we married. I make them a priority as she does. I am a warm fuzzy bear she takes a bath with every night and holds all night who keeps her warm and safe. She gets to live her lfie as she dreamed, caring for family, doing a job using her education, using the skills she loves to use. There are richer, better looking guys than me, but try to find one that will really care for her, help her with her difficult education, teach the bys to drive, help Pasha to learn English. You cannot buy those things from my wife. I guess I could go on. Never mind.

Frankly, a woman that says "Why is SHE with YOU?" is exactly the kind of superficial woman I had no interest in. And it is a fact that an American woman cannot have the combination of life experiences that result in the qualities I admire in my FSU wife. The recipe is all wrong. Not to say that someone else doesn't want that, or prefer that. I can imagine that sentence will be the only one some people focus on. Oh, well. Just proves the case.

I am very proud of my intelligent, talented, loving, caring and drop dead gorgeous wife. I consider myself the luckiest man on earth. And while people who would rather think bad things like to say I only care about her looks, you would have to ignore that I proudly post her other accomplishments since she has arrived and not just to brag (a little bragging OK) but to show other women from other non-native English speaking countries that they CAN succeed, have a rewarding life, and make progress in their new home

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

You want the real answers or just poking fun?

There are 116 women for every 100 men in Ukraine and that is the average for young women. The odds are far higher against them at age 30 or 40. The average life span of a man in Ukraine is 58, a woman 77. Population dymanics. The dfference is OBVIOUS. If you do not know what 116 women to 100 men looks like on the street...go to Ukraine.

Alcoholism is a pervasive problem in the FSU. FSU women do not like drunks because they are notr reliable and FSU women are very traditional in their beliefs of the roles for women in the family which is still incredibly important there. She sees a drunk as nothing but trouble. Scratch 30% of the men at least, maybe 50%. Now the odds are 116 to what? 75? maybe. That means if ALL the Russian men who aren't drunks marry ALL the women, it leaves 41 women unmarried out 116. OR 16 unmarried and 25 miserable, abused women. Those are not good odds, even for musical chairs.

Now add in that there is a strong cultural desire for women to be married and care for a family. I am almost done with demographics.

the other is that any man can look good when he is 22 or 23, but maybe he will be a drunk by age 33 and they will be divorced with two kids. Now if a guy is 50 and he has a good job (good means stable and pays enough to live, not necessarily "rich")and is not an alcoholic and is not abusive, then he probably will not be ever. If he is from American he has a life expectancy of 79. Not bad at all! I am not all that much older than Alla, she looks younger than she is. I don't. Our age difference is slightly more than common in the USA but not much. We do know some couple with age differences of 30 years, Alla and I are on the "low side" for age difference in the couples we know. None of them make any judgements, Alla's best friend has a husband 30 years older than her and I have never heard Alla even mention it.

A large portion of the population, less now than before, were raised in the Soviet Union and had a lot of disapointment in life. They have had a difficult life. There are things burned into the memory of the little girl that is now my MIL, that I do not have the fortitude to discuss and I stand in awe of the woman, to be frank. They were always told of the glory of communism and that the promised land was just on the horizon. Promises and maybes and things that fade mean nothing to those people. You can not understand it and I cannot either, though maybe just a tad better than the average American.

So they do not care about yor bank account, your car, or even your home as long as it is enough for the family and their idea of "enough" is quite less than yours or mine. I assure you. Money gets lost, it has twice in my wife's lifetime simply evaporated and been worthless the next day. You have no idea of that and wouldn't handle it well. Cars work for a while and break. So does the hot water and elevator. They believe it will.

They want something enduring, good looks are not enduring, anyone with a brain can see that. Women do not concern themselves with good looks for men.

I assure you my wife believes she has hit the jackpot with me. I have a woodshop and make her things, I remodel all the rooms in our home and do amazing ceramic tile work, our kitchen and bathrooms look as good as anyone making ten times my income because I do it myself. She eats on a table I made, sleeps on the bed I made, hangs her clothes in the wardrobe I made, all design copies from Italian furniture catalogs she dreamed about but knew she could never own. We go places together whenever we can, there is no one I would rather be with, for any reason. I care for the kids as if they were my own, she KNOWS that now and that is what she imagined before we married. I make them a priority as she does. I am a warm fuzzy bear she takes a bath with every night and holds all night who keeps her warm and safe. She gets to live her lfie as she dreamed, caring for family, doing a job using her education, using the skills she loves to use. There are richer, better looking guys than me, but try to find one that will really care for her, help her with her difficult education, teach the bys to drive, help Pasha to learn English. You cannot buy those things from my wife. I guess I could go on. Never mind.

Frankly, a woman that says "Why is SHE with YOU?" is exactly the kind of superficial woman I had no interest in. And it is a fact that an American woman cannot have the combination of life experiences that result in the qualities I admire in my FSU wife. The recipe is all wrong. Not to say that someone else doesn't want that, or prefer that. I can imagine that sentence will be the only one some people focus on. Oh, well. Just proves the case.

I am very proud of my intelligent, talented, loving, caring and drop dead gorgeous wife. I consider myself the luckiest man on earth. And while people who would rather think bad things like to say I only care about her looks, you would have to ignore that I proudly post her other accomplishments since she has arrived and not just to brag (a little bragging OK) but to show other women from other non-native English speaking countries that they CAN succeed, have a rewarding life, and make progress in their new home

That's your story. I'm still sticking with the 9" schlongs w/tongues to match.

[Amby 490]

My wife is a tad under 5 ft. There are pictures of her in my photos from my profile. The wedding dress she is wearing she made herself. In Vietnam it is the custom and culture for the woman to stay very slim. It was very rare to find a fat Vietnamese babe. I did push my wife to gain some weight as I thought she was too thin and she has somewhat. I think she can handle even a few more lbs. but she likes to look as pretty as much as she can and her upbringing is so ingrained that she can't bring herself to gain much weight. It is hard to find clothes that fit her. It is very rare to find size 00 clothing. She has found something she likes in size 0 though and liked and then bought it and she will just tailor it herself to fit her. In fact I had seen a dress that was hot and asked her to try it on. There was only size 0 and was so disappointed that it was a tad big in the waist. She saw where and knew I liked her in it and said that she could fix it the way I wanted. I bought it. She tailored and it fits like a tight glove on her and is hot. I just need to find an event where she can wear it to. I promise to take pics.

oh ok. I guess 95lbs is fine if you're shorter. I was just trying to imagine 90-95lb girls who are 5'-5'3-4" and I was like whaaat?

thanks for taking the time to reply I was just curious.

[tmma 467]

You want the real answers or just poking fun?

There are 116 women for every 100 men in Ukraine and that is the average for young women. The odds are far higher against them at age 30 or 40. The average life span of a man in Ukraine is 58, a woman 77. Population dymanics. The dfference is OBVIOUS. If you do not know what 116 women to 100 men looks like on the street...go to Ukraine.

Alcoholism is a pervasive problem in the FSU. FSU women do not like drunks because they are notr reliable and FSU women are very traditional in their beliefs of the roles for women in the family which is still incredibly important there. She sees a drunk as nothing but trouble. Scratch 30% of the men at least, maybe 50%. Now the odds are 116 to what? 75? maybe. That means if ALL the Russian men who aren't drunks marry ALL the women, it leaves 41 women unmarried out 116. OR 16 unmarried and 25 miserable, abused women. Those are not good odds, even for musical chairs.

Now add in that there is a strong cultural desire for women to be married and care for a family. I am almost done with demographics.

the other is that any man can look good when he is 22 or 23, but maybe he will be a drunk by age 33 and they will be divorced with two kids. Now if a guy is 50 and he has a good job (good means stable and pays enough to live, not necessarily "rich")and is not an alcoholic and is not abusive, then he probably will not be ever. If he is from American he has a life expectancy of 79. Not bad at all! I am not all that much older than Alla, she looks younger than she is. I don't. Our age difference is slightly more than common in the USA but not much. We do know some couple with age differences of 30 years, Alla and I are on the "low side" for age difference in the couples we know. None of them make any judgements, Alla's best friend has a husband 30 years older than her and I have never heard Alla even mention it.

A large portion of the population, less now than before, were raised in the Soviet Union and had a lot of disapointment in life. They have had a difficult life. There are things burned into the memory of the little girl that is now my MIL, that I do not have the fortitude to discuss and I stand in awe of the woman, to be frank. They were always told of the glory of communism and that the promised land was just on the horizon. Promises and maybes and things that fade mean nothing to those people. You can not understand it and I cannot either, though maybe just a tad better than the average American.

So they do not care about yor bank account, your car, or even your home as long as it is enough for the family and their idea of "enough" is quite less than yours or mine. I assure you. Money gets lost, it has twice in my wife's lifetime simply evaporated and been worthless the next day. You have no idea of that and wouldn't handle it well. Cars work for a while and break. So does the hot water and elevator. They believe it will.

They want something enduring, good looks are not enduring, anyone with a brain can see that. Women do not concern themselves with good looks for men.

I assure you my wife believes she has hit the jackpot with me. I have a woodshop and make her things, I remodel all the rooms in our home and do amazing ceramic tile work, our kitchen and bathrooms look as good as anyone making ten times my income because I do it myself. She eats on a table I made, sleeps on the bed I made, hangs her clothes in the wardrobe I made, all design copies from Italian furniture catalogs she dreamed about but knew she could never own. We go places together whenever we can, there is no one I would rather be with, for any reason. I care for the kids as if they were my own, she KNOWS that now and that is what she imagined before we married. I make them a priority as she does. I am a warm fuzzy bear she takes a bath with every night and holds all night who keeps her warm and safe. She gets to live her lfie as she dreamed, caring for family, doing a job using her education, using the skills she loves to use. There are richer, better looking guys than me, but try to find one that will really care for her, help her with her difficult education, teach the bys to drive, help Pasha to learn English. You cannot buy those things from my wife. I guess I could go on. Never mind.

Frankly, a woman that says "Why is SHE with YOU?" is exactly the kind of superficial woman I had no interest in. And it is a fact that an American woman cannot have the combination of life experiences that result in the qualities I admire in my FSU wife. The recipe is all wrong. Not to say that someone else doesn't want that, or prefer that. I can imagine that sentence will be the only one some people focus on. Oh, well. Just proves the case.

I am very proud of my intelligent, talented, loving, caring and drop dead gorgeous wife. I consider myself the luckiest man on earth. And while people who would rather think bad things like to say I only care about her looks, you would have to ignore that I proudly post her other accomplishments since she has arrived and not just to brag (a little bragging OK) but to show other women from other non-native English speaking countries that they CAN succeed, have a rewarding life, and make progress in their new home

I wasn't poking fun at all; especially considering I am writing about someone in my own family in the UK.

As for the highlighted bit- you don't know anything about me ( if you were talking to me personally). I DO know what that's like...all too well, actually; and the qualities that your wife possesses are not unique to a woman from only one part of the world. There are superficial people everywhere and the way SOME guys talk about their wife on certain forums smacks of the very same superficiality they profess to detest in American women.

I honestly think it's lovely that you are in awe of your wife, and so committed to your life and family together. She IS accomplished and very attractive. There is NO argument from me about that. I've seen pics of a lot of the RUB ladies and they are gorgeous. It's the ugly, base way their American husbands ( not you, mostly) speak of them and ' women' in general that's really classless, yet their wife looks so classy. It's mystifying.

As for my relative ( he's not a close blood relative); It has raised eyebrows as you can imagine, but I am of the mind of ' eh- if he's happy than so what?'

[kokylolo 7]

I'm guessing it's the guy that's looking for the mom type seeing how he chose to marry an older chick. Nothing wrong with a fling now and then with an older gal, but I'm not sure about marriage. Chicks don't usually age as well as men.

I look 5 years younger than my husband, and I am 4 years older...

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

I wasn't poking fun at all; especially considering I am writing about someone in my own family in the UK.

As for the highlighted bit- you don't know anything about me ( if you were talking to me personally). I DO know what that's like...all too well, actually; and the qualities that your wife possesses are not unique to a woman from only one part of the world. There are superficial people everywhere and the way SOME guys talk about their wife on certain forums smacks of the very same superficiality they profess to detest in American women.

I honestly think it's lovely that you are in awe of your wife, and so committed to your life and family together. She IS accomplished and very attractive. There is NO argument from me about that. I've seen pics of a lot of the RUB ladies and they are gorgeous. It's the ugly, base way their American husbands ( not you, mostly) speak of them and ' women' in general that's really classless, yet their wife looks so classy. It's mystifying.

As for my relative ( he's not a close blood relative); It has raised eyebrows as you can imagine, but I am of the mind of ' eh- if he's happy than so what?'

Agreed. I mean the way some men talk about their wives on here like it's nothing more going out and buying a new car or something. I mean it just rankles me. arrhhhggg.

btw did I mention my wife is 20 years younger than me, and when she hits the ripe ol age of 30 I'l most likely trade her in for a newer model? Until then I'l keep her around...I mean the sex is great, and her bod is super tight.

I look 5 years younger than my husband, and I am 4 years older...

Your in the minority, but you sound like a keeper.