unusual attitude

[niki 0]

I had my interview yesterday.She(the officer) even did not answer my good morning.no eye contact.constantly shouting at me.Anybody else with such experience?

[canadian_wife 1,822]

I am sorry, but they are not required to be nice. Sometimes I find that CO's are intentionally mean in order to shake you up.

Regardless - an approval is an approval, no matter what form it comes in !

[EAbbas 213]

I had my interview yesterday.She(the officer) even did not answer my good morning.no eye contact.constantly shouting at me.Anybody else with such experience?

My husbands Interview was with a wonderful CO but they made him wait until last and did like an hour long interview but evthing turned out good...

but the first few ppl that he saw at the window weren't very nice... they were the ones taking in his documents... they gave him an attitude but idk why... he just smiled and said good morning and kept his calm...

[niki 0]

I did not got approved.She found hundred excuses not to approve me yesterday.I had my AOS interview several years ago, the officer was though but not mean.

[bigdog 376]

An approval is an approval.

[niki 0]

And the funniest part is this is 9 yrs marriage.she still wants proof of living together.

[maya62 7]

Well I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe someone peed in her Cherrios that morning, or maybe they have instructions to be @$$holes every 10th interview. Or maybe someone in her family just died, so better yet, answer her hostility with compassion. Could be anything and may not have anything to do with you. Just be cool, shepherd your application through the process carefully, and give them what they ask for. You're almost there! Best of luck...

Illegitimi non carborundum!

maya

[niki 0]

I did not take it personally.I know people have issues with their health and financial situation that may impact their performance at work.Or maybe she did not like my face.she did not give me even 30 s to speak and clear things up.you sit in front of an officer in an hour interview, and she either comprehend thing in her prejudgment way or if you want to explain stop you and talk to you loud.what else you can do?

[joonphon 7]

I did not take it personally.I know people have issues with their health and financial situation that may impact their performance at work.Or maybe she did not like my face.she did not give me even 30 s to speak and clear things up.you sit in front of an officer in an hour interview, and she either comprehend thing in her prejudgment way or if you want to explain stop you and talk to you loud.what else you can do?

report her? or If you get a chance to be inteviewed by her again, this time just try to look mean and answer her back loudly? I don't know. sorry to hear about this situation.

[NickD 203]

report her? or If you get a chance to be inteviewed by her again, this time just try to look mean and answer her back loudly? I don't know. sorry to hear about this situation.

Always have to be nice, super nice. Can't help but feel some racial prejudiced is involved, and still feel strongly about the only government certifying board I encountered where you don't meet with a board, just one person. Isn't right by no standards.

To be more specific about colors, how about black and yellow against white? See the OP is from Iran, could also be religion and color. We are not suppose to be this way in this country, suppose to be a giant melting pot.

25 years ago, my town was all white, but more recently, all different colors in my neighborhood. Only thing I care about is they are good people, and that they are.

[Angel cosmos 0]

I had same experience too,the officer was so mean,he told me to get original w-2 tax and evidences that the relationship is real which i've got but my concern now is,can they allow me if i take my documents & go there anyday to submit??my dear niki don't worry everything will be fine.

[Jemmi 3]

nick i had one of those too. no handshake, no hello , no eye contact. she was as evil as they come. but you have to stay nice. i too, had to provide proof of marriage and i filed 5 years residency and i am married 29 years.when i was done i was out of that room so fast and out the door, i didnt even wait on my husband and kids. i just wanted to get out of that building as fast as i could. i know i scared anybody that was sitting in the waiting room.i wish you all the best for the next time and that you get a different IO.

[Udella&Wiz 325]

My CO wasn't particularly personable either. I suppose they met a fair number of people who are trying to lie so they have to be wary.

[niki 0]

Yes , I requested another officer for the next time.I respect all of the races and religions, but I am not even dark skin or tanned skin.I've already talked to congressman's office,they gave me some names that I may write to them a letter discussing the issue.I am still shocked.she did not let me finish more than 2 sentences constantly interrupted me with loud voice.

[Brian121957 43]

Yours is a prime example.

I have asked the question before if The COs ever gets a "God Complex" and just be mean and "screw" people over just because they can.

I have been told CO never does that because they have no reason to do that. So if they were tough on you it must have been because there was errors in your documents or you did something wrong.