My wife took my child

[Golden Gate 530]

You shoulda have figured it out ..its so simple...she would have the baby here and we would be applying for DCF together and would go back together ....well she would be a good person lol....but obviously she left because she is bad...what kinda question or what are u trying to get to ?

".anyone want to ask about anything..feel free to ask it.."

This is what you wrote. I asked you a question. Your post was ambiguous - it wasn't clear what you meant to say and you can't expect people to read your mind. I wanted to know how you would answer my question. No need to get abrasive and mean. I understand that you are angry about the situation, but it was unclear really why she left, especially when you said she knew you were going to leave her. If I was in another country, pregnant, and my husband planned on leaving me, sure I would get out of there quickly to a safe place for myself. Obviously there are a lot of dynamics going on here. I am sorry things aren't working out for you. That is a very tough situation to be in and I think you might need to contact some government authorities who can advise you on what to do.

[NoWayBack 0]

You shoulda have figured it out ..its so simple...she would have the baby here and we would be applying for DCF together and would go back together ....well she would be a good person lol....but obviously she left because she is bad...what kinda question or what are u trying to get to ?

".anyone want to ask about anything..feel free to ask it.."

This is what you wrote. I asked you a question. Your post was ambiguous - it wasn't clear what you meant to say and you can't expect people to read your mind. I wanted to know how you would answer my question. No need to get abrasive and mean. I understand that you are angry about the situation, but it was unclear really why she left, especially when you said she knew you were going to leave her. If I was in another country, pregnant, and my husband planned on leaving me, sure I would get out of there quickly to a safe place for myself. Obviously there are a lot of dynamics going on here. I am sorry things aren't working out for you. That is a very tough situation to be in and I think you might need to contact some government authorities who can advise you on what to do.

I really didn't mean to be mean....it just seemed like many posters were doubting in me and attacking me but am srry if i sounded like that...well i never planned to leave her.....i just know how she thinks ...she knew she was doing a very bad things with me....so she knew what would the concequences be specially because am a straight guy ....so she knew i wouldn't afford that forever....but i never..not once told her that i was gonna leave or thought about it...she had always told me if i have someone else and doubted that am with someone else but i never betrayed her and never had anyone else...but she punished me by her mistake...she was doing the bad things and scaring her self and left me ...damn...i really think she is a psycho

[Golden Gate 530]

I really didn't mean to be mean....it just seemed like many posters were doubting in me and attacking me but am srry if i sounded like that...well i never planned to leave her.....i just know how she thinks ...she knew she was doing a very bad things with me....so she knew what would the concequences be specially because am a straight guy ....so she knew i wouldn't afford that forever....but i never..not once told her that i was gonna leave or thought about it...she had always told me if i have someone else and doubted that am with someone else but i never betrayed her and never had anyone else...but she punished me by her mistake...she was doing the bad things and scaring her self and left me ...damn...i really think she is a psycho

I don't know how to help you with this, but at least you can look at this site to get an idea of people facing situations somewhat like yours. My link

It is such a difficult thing because Egypt didn't sign the Hague Convention. I am sure that she is afraid that you would do the same thing that she is doing now. There is obviously a lack of trust in your relationship. If she's not being level-headed, you have to be.

[NoWayBack 0]

I don't know how to help you with this, but at least you can look at this site to get an idea of people facing situations somewhat like yours. My link

It is such a difficult thing because Egypt didn't sign the Hague Convention. I am sure that she is afraid that you would do the same thing that she is doing now. There is obviously a lack of trust in your relationship. If she's not being level-headed, you have to be.

I really just did everything i could for her....i mean it...everything...the most little to the biggest....even when she was craving mangos when she was preg...i made sure that i had many mangos in the fridge so she would eat all she wants when she come...imagine that....

[Golden Gate 530]

I really just did everything i could for her....i mean it...everything...the most little to the biggest....even when she was craving mangos when she was preg...i made sure that i had many mangos in the fridge so she would eat all she wants when she come...imagine that....

I am so sorry. I hope you can find some solutions.

[NoWayBack 0]

I am so sorry. I hope you can find some solutions.

I will inshallah.....I just will my son will grow up fast and hit 18 so he can find out for him self what she did and who should he be with...i really just wants to hold my child for once...i really miss him...he is so beautiful

[Nagishkaw 510]

She has stayed with me for 3 months , so yeah am sure am the father.she had the HCG test before she leave ....she wouldn't show me the boy on cam because of her obsession with controling when she feels like she can't control me , and as in for if am that special , well i can't answer that , you must know me your self so you can decide that and as in why she feels less or she could be left because of her bad actions , well she aint sexy but i married her because she was a really stand by woman and was kind but i didn't know her well till later....if you have any more doubt in me...i have no problem to answer all of your questions , and if your here to investigate and not help , then your not in the right topic...thanks for coming by

If you aren't happy with the advice given then don't get upset when someone asks you a few, very logical questions. Investigation requires careful examination of the evidence, maybe if you had done some investigation of your own, then you wouldn't be in this jam in the first place. You say that she's a psycho, etc., then why would you believe anything that she says? Just because she had a test that proved that she was pregnant doesn't mean that it's your kid. An HCG test is not the same as a DNA test. Not even close. Wake up and smell the coffee and don't waste everyone's time with your rude and obnoxious comments, maybe that's the real reason why this "really stand by woman" doesn't want you around the kid. You say she was with you for 3 months. How do you know she wasn't sleeping with anyone else at that time ? She showed you the baby on cam , but considering how many times you said she committed fraud, what makes you believe that this is your child ? According to you, you married someone you didn't know very well, someone you describe as not being very sexy and then suddenly you are upset when she does this. Seriously, you expect sympathy ?

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

I really just did everything i could for her....i mean it...everything...the most little to the biggest....even when she was craving mangos when she was preg...i made sure that i had many mangos in the fridge so she would eat all she wants when she come...imagine that....

Look, let's be reasonable about this. Until you get a DNA test then you know nothing about this woman or the kid. Have you considered that? Scandal gave you great advice, I'd follow it. If you have some way to PROVE it's your kid, then things change. How are you going to get that proof?

[Boiler 45,567]

Look, let's be reasonable about this. Until you get a DNA test then you know nothing about this woman or the kid. Have you considered that? Scandal gave you great advice, I'd follow it. If you have some way to PROVE it's your kid, then things change. How are you going to get that proof?

Why would anything change?

The only thing that comes to mind that the child could sponsor him if he wanted to at the age of 21 under current regulations.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Why would anything change?

The only thing that comes to mind that the child could sponsor him if he wanted to at the age of 21 under current regulations.

Habitual residence issues attach, however the father could still make a petition either to be allowed into the US on humanitarian grounds. It is pretty dicey, though, it depends on why he was refused admission.

[Boiler 45,567]

The child is in its habitual residence, and I assume that the person who said the Egypt was not a Hague country was correct.

If he want to visit then he would apply for a visitor visa.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

The child is in its habitual residence, and I assume that the person who said the Egypt was not a Hague country was correct.

If he want to visit then he would apply for a visitor visa.

He can't get a visitor visa, that's the problem. if he can prove that the child is his, then he might be able to get a visa.

Edited October 28, 2011 by IR5FORMUMSIE

[luckytxn 2,264]

She made a US passports for her children ( my step children ) without their fathers permission , she frauded the consent letter and sent it in...and she was frauding documents to send it to her school because her and her daughter ( my step daughter ) have same first and last name ..except that her daughter has a maiden name ....so they were always playing around that...and i have the chat between me and her after she went there on how she sat up her ex husband and how stupid i was not to think of that.....i can screw her ###### life.

This is what I thought. If you have emails where she discussed this with you as proof and you didn't stop it and allowed it to go on makes you an accomplice and guilty of fraud too. If you try to get even with her and send this proof in to get her in trouble than you will also get in trouble. More than likely you will get a permanent ban for life.

You don't have a lot of options here. To gain joint custody you will have to get a lawyer. The courts will want to see proof you are indeed the father. You will need to go through the courts where she resides. This costs a lot of money. There is no international courts you can go to for custody hearings. You can go through your courts there but it is useless unless she travels back there to enforce anything your courts will rule on.

[NoWayBack 0]

If you aren't happy with the advice given then don't get upset when someone asks you a few, very logical questions. Investigation requires careful examination of the evidence, maybe if you had done some investigation of your own, then you wouldn't be in this jam in the first place. You say that she's a psycho, etc., then why would you believe anything that she says? Just because she had a test that proved that she was pregnant doesn't mean that it's your kid. An HCG test is not the same as a DNA test. Not even close. Wake up and smell the coffee and don't waste everyone's time with your rude and obnoxious comments, maybe that's the real reason why this "really stand by woman" doesn't want you around the kid. You say she was with you for 3 months. How do you know she wasn't sleeping with anyone else at that time ? She showed you the baby on cam , but considering how many times you said she committed fraud, what makes you believe that this is your child ? According to you, you married someone you didn't know very well, someone you describe as not being very sexy and then suddenly you are upset when she does this. Seriously, you expect sympathy ?

Well, No one is perfect and you wouldn't investigate someone you didn't doubt in so much and you loved and i never said i was sure she was a psycho , i said i think she is one , My wife was staying in my house so i know for sure that its my son , she doesn't know anyone here but me and my family and there is no males except my father and the whole family was always home , i aint that dumb , so you wake up and stop being so attacking in your way of talking , it will get you no good and if you feed your time is wasted then you shouldn't be posting here, and your wife might not be sexy her self or your husband , that doesn't mean you don't love him/her , and you don't know me well and don't know how iam with her or with her kids , so you don't need to make assumptions ..thank you...n btw i don't need your sympathy

Look, let's be reasonable about this. Until you get a DNA test then you know nothing about this woman or the kid. Have you considered that? Scandal gave you great advice, I'd follow it. If you have some way to PROVE it's your kid, then things change. How are you going to get that proof?

Well , that would be just to prove to my self that am the father but im sure than iam the father so i have np with that but if your talking about the legal side , well my name is on his BC , so i have np with that.

Habitual residence issues attach, however the father could still make a petition either to be allowed into the US on humanitarian grounds. It is pretty dicey, though, it depends on why he was refused admission.

How could i do that ?

He can't get a visitor visa, that's the problem. if he can prove that the child is his, then he might be able to get a visa.

What visa would i get if i could prove that he is my child ?

[NoWayBack 0]

This is what I thought. If you have emails where she discussed this with you as proof and you didn't stop it and allowed it to go on makes you an accomplice and guilty of fraud too. If you try to get even with her and send this proof in to get her in trouble than you will also get in trouble. More than likely you will get a permanent ban for life.

You don't have a lot of options here. To gain joint custody you will have to get a lawyer. The courts will want to see proof you are indeed the father. You will need to go through the courts where she resides. This costs a lot of money. There is no international courts you can go to for custody hearings. You can go through your courts there but it is useless unless she travels back there to enforce anything your courts will rule on.

Well am sorry to tell you tat your wrong there...first of all i know it and telling them would be trying to stop her ALSO i have no word on her because she is a free woman and am not the law so its not my place to allow it or not ....and lemme tell you something ...am not worried about the premanent ban or anything except for my child but if i live with my child , i don't really need the US in anything.