My wife took my child

[NoWayBack 0]

Hello VJ

I don't know where to start but anyways this is my first time to post on VJ ..My wife( US citizen) and i have been married for 2 years now , she applied for immigration visa for me CR-1 and the case was sent back , anyways , my wife came here after then and stayed around 3 months with me then went back to the US when she was pregnant with my son, then she promised me that she were gonna deliver in my country so we both can see our child , then days passed and passed and she kept saying she had problems and i knew all that was excuses then finally i booked her a flight and then i found out that she never went to the airport and she told me that she couldn't make it in time ...anyways i knew it ...and it was the most depressing thing i had in my life ...then my wife just delivered there and i didn't get to see my son ...i applied for a tourist visa ...and got denied ...then my wife wouldn't open the cam for me for days and days then show me my son once then make me wait more days....till today ...she decided that i can't see my son anymore and hung up the cam on me and i did that to my self..well you all would be wondering what made her do that...well...am 23 and my wife is 40...my wife had put all her family above me and always put me down...she knew eventually i was gonna leave her...so she basically came here to get pregnant so she could always keep me with her since we had a child together...my family told me that but i didn't believe them and i trusted her...she came here to stay 6 months so we could apply by DCF but then she told me she had to leave as soon as she knew she was preg...i told her to take the pregnancy test and she wouldn't till i finally got her to do it and she was preg...she said CPS were gonna take her children and so on ....also her daughter was over 21 so basically she had np and nothing to worry about....anyways....now i can't see my son and i don't know what to do....anyone want to ask about anything..feel free to ask it..

Edited October 26, 2011 by NoWayBack

[NoWayBack 0]

By the way ,I found out that i was denied because my wife gave me a frauded documents, and i know about things she frauded and i can get her arrested for.....i don't want to call the police and do that to her...and i don't want her to go to prison and my child to a faster care and then know nothing about him....i really need help...i don't know what to do...i never got to hold my child...please help me .

[Jojo92122 1,924]

Sorry about your situation.

Contact your government and ask for help.

Find a family lawyer in the US and sue for custody of your son.

[NoWayBack 0]

Sorry about your situation.

Contact your government and ask for help.

Find a family lawyer in the US and sue for custody of your son.

I live in Egypt..i have asked a lawyer about that...he said she is under the US law now and i have to be there if i wants to do something like that....and i don't have family in the US ....she is the only one that i knew and trusted....i really am sorry i ever loved or trusted her...i will always be sorry for that...i don't know if i called the police...would the police be able to get him to me or anything like that or what

[Jojo92122 1,924]

I live in Egypt..i have asked a lawyer about that...he said she is under the US law now and i have to be there if i wants to do something like that....and i don't have family in the US ....she is the only one that i knew and trusted....i really am sorry i ever loved or trusted her...i will always be sorry for that...i don't know if i called the police...would the police be able to get him to me or anything like that or what

The police cannot do anything. You need an American family lawyer to fight for custody of your child.

[NoWayBack 0]

The police cannot do anything. You need an American family lawyer to fight for custody of your child.

That would cost me a leg and arm and i don't really have it and don't forget that currncy difference...1 dollar is for 6 L.E

[RightClicK 17]

Hello VJ

I don't know where to start but anyways this is my first time to post on VJ ..My wife( US citizen) and i have been married for 2 years now , she applied for immigration visa for me CR-1 and the case was sent back , anyways , my wife came here after then and stayed around 3 months with me then went back to the US when she was pregnant with my son, then she promised me that she were gonna deliver in my country so we both can see our child , then days passed and passed and she kept saying she had problems and i knew all that was excuses then finally i booked her a flight and then i found out that she never went to the airport and she told me that she couldn't make it in time ...anyways i knew it ...and it was the most depressing thing i had in my life ...then my wife just delivered there and i didn't get to see my son ...i applied for a tourist visa ...and got denied ...then my wife wouldn't open the cam for me for days and days then show me my son once then make me wait more days....till today ...she decided that i can't see my son anymore and hung up the cam on me and i did that to my self..well you all would be wondering what made her do that...well...am 23 and my wife is 40...my wife had put all her family above me and always put me down...she knew eventually i was gonna leave her...so she basically came here to get pregnant so she could always keep me with her since we had a child together...my family told me that but i didn't believe them and i trusted her...she came here to stay 6 months so we could apply by DCF but then she told me she had to leave as soon as she knew she was preg...i told her to take the pregnancy test and she wouldn't till i finally got her to do it and she was preg...she said CPS were gonna take her children and so on ....also her daughter was over 21 so basically she had np and nothing to worry about....anyways....now i can't see my son and i don't know what to do....anyone want to ask about anything..feel free to ask it..

I would really help you if i was in the US but i really am not and i don't know how things work there, All i can do is pray for you .

[Jojo92122 1,924]

That would cost me a leg and arm and i don't really have it and don't forget that currncy difference...1 dollar is for 6 L.E

If you can't afford an American lawyer, then you need to contact your government.

[NoWayBack 0]

I would really help you if i was in the US but i really am not and i don't know how things work there, All i can do is pray for you .

Thank you a lot for offering the help ...I appreciate it....i don't know WHY ...How did she think she was gonna keep me this way , i will simply divorce her if there is no way i could be with my child .

Edited October 26, 2011 by NoWayBack

[skiptex 225]

how long did ya'll know each other before ya'll got married?

you were 20/21 when that happen?

where did ya'll get married?

[NoWayBack 0]

If you can't afford an American lawyer, then you need to contact your government.

Where to go , which department, which ministry , trust me i have asked and went to many places, they basically told me , get your child from her by her agreement or you wont see him again until you have a visa or an international lawyer....i really can't afford one..and my governmet can't even cover their own because of the revolution ...so trust me i have no chance here except if she was here and we went to the court...nothing more ..nothing less.

how long did ya'll know each other before ya'll got married?

you were 20/21 when that happen?

where did ya'll get married?

a year or so before we get married.

we got married in Egypt

[MyLittlePony 340]

Sorry about that hope everything is better in the future.

[VanessaTony 3,567]

This part bother me: "she knew eventually i was gonna leave her...so she basically came here to get pregnant so she could always keep me with her since we had a child together..." You basically admit that you were with her for fraudulent reasons... Maybe it's the English barrier but honestly without help I really don't know what you can do. Unfortunately it would require money.

[Nagishkaw 510]

Something doesn't add up. Have you been able to determine you are the biological father ? Have you had a DNA test to make sure ? Why wouldn't she show you the baby on cam ? Is there some reason why she would want to hold on to you ? Are you that special ? There is something missing from this equation because none of this makes sense.

[IR5FORMUMSIE 850]

Hello VJ

I don't know where to start but anyways this is my first time to post on VJ ..My wife( US citizen) and i have been married for 2 years now , she applied for immigration visa for me CR-1 and the case was sent back , anyways , my wife came here after then and stayed around 3 months with me then went back to the US when she was pregnant with my son, then she promised me that she were gonna deliver in my country so we both can see our child , then days passed and passed and she kept saying she had problems and i knew all that was excuses then finally i booked her a flight and then i found out that she never went to the airport and she told me that she couldn't make it in time ...anyways i knew it ...and it was the most depressing thing i had in my life ...then my wife just delivered there and i didn't get to see my son ...i applied for a tourist visa ...and got denied ...then my wife wouldn't open the cam for me for days and days then show me my son once then make me wait more days....till today ...she decided that i can't see my son anymore and hung up the cam on me and i did that to my self..well you all would be wondering what made her do that...well...am 23 and my wife is 40...my wife had put all her family above me and always put me down...she knew eventually i was gonna leave her...so she basically came here to get pregnant so she could always keep me with her since we had a child together...my family told me that but i didn't believe them and i trusted her...she came here to stay 6 months so we could apply by DCF but then she told me she had to leave as soon as she knew she was preg...i told her to take the pregnancy test and she wouldn't till i finally got her to do it and she was preg...she said CPS were gonna take her children and so on ....also her daughter was over 21 so basically she had np and nothing to worry about....anyways....now i can't see my son and i don't know what to do....anyone want to ask about anything..feel free to ask it..

If she treated you that badly then you should not have stayed with her. You should have not slept with her. You could not have been that blind. If your family saw something, then why did you not see it. You need to see a lawyer, pronto! Divorce her and fight for custody. Age isn't the issue. Maybe she's psycho, how well do you really know her?