NEed some Serious Advice!

[FB14 14]

Morning FB --

Wow you have a lot on your plate. I don't know much about you or your fiance other than what you typed here, but he has a lot going on. Is he telling you different things about the situation or did you get the information from someone else. The final decision is up to you...all some of us can do is advise you...by the sound of your post, I think you know what's up.

To be honest I havent even spoken to him since the night before getting arrested. I really dont know what to say or think. The officers arent releasing much info and some stories are very contradictory. I was thinking to reschedule the interview for now and once I get more info I will cancel the whole petition. Somethings are signs given from God. What a time for this to occur.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

please read above to see my replies.

To be honest I havent even spoken to him since the night before getting arrested. I really dont know what to say or think. The officers arent releasing much info and some stories are very contradictory. I was thinking to reschedule the interview for now and once I get more info I will cancel the whole petition. Somethings are signs given from God. What a time for this to occur.

I like you.. you're sensible and godly .. yes.

Edited October 25, 2011 by RICARDO4EVA2

[TRELAWNY PARISH 10]

To be honest I havent even spoken to him since the night before getting arrested. I really dont know what to say or think. The officers arent releasing much info and some stories are very contradictory. I was thinking to reschedule the interview for now and once I get more info I will cancel the whole petition. Somethings are signs given from God. What a time for this to occur.

Okay ...I thought as much. I pray you find peace in the decisions you make and please don't beat yourself up about it. You are right though "Somethings are signs given from God" -- God Bless you.

One Love,

Lawny

[Stud-Muffin 2]

BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!! How do you not want to take care of your own childThis is very serious, although a common assault in Jamaica once their previous relationship is not working out, and it involves children, they back out, no offense guys!!! But you have more single parenting in Jamaica than family oriented settings ask RICARDO!!!!!!!!

[FB14 14]

BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!! How do you not want to take care of your own childThis is very serious, although a common assault in Jamaica once their previous relationship is not working out, and it involves children, they back out, no offense guys!!! But you have more single parenting in Jamaica than family oriented settings ask RICARDO!!!!!!!!

You are so right. but honestly, he tries his best with the child support. He doesnt male much as a taxi driver who doesnt own his car. Also, he has an other child as well. It's not like he totally abandon taking care of his kid. I'm more concerned about the rape part. It devastates me that there would have been a possibility of me migrating a rapist to the U.S. I invested so much time and effort into this and now it's like i did everything in vain.

[Dan & Jenni 457]

You are so right. but honestly, he tries his best with the child support. He doesnt male much as a taxi driver who doesnt own his car. Also, he has an other child as well. It's not like he totally abandon taking care of his kid. I'm more concerned about the rape part. It devastates me that there would have been a possibility of me migrating a rapist to the U.S. I invested so much time and effort into this and now it's like i did everything in vain.

it sounds like you already made your mind up about whether he is/could be a rapist??

[Stud-Muffin 2]

Most taxi drivers in Jamaica tends to get themselves mixed up with the school children, first to think about the music that they have in their car, most schoolas takes the car with the music, second they like the idea of getting quick cash, but mark this they are some little caniving schoolas out there that will make u think different as well.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

Most taxi drivers in Jamaica tends to get themselves mixed up with the school children, first to think about the music that they have in their car, most schoolas takes the car with the music, second they like the idea of getting quick cash, but mark this they are some little caniving schoolas out there that will make u think different as well.

[Therealworld 90]

Here goes,

After working so hard to get an approved petition and an interview date everything is falling apart. My fiance's visa appointment was supposed to be on Nov 1st. On October 13th he went to get a police record and was told to pick it up on the 21st. However, he decided that he would have picked it up today along with his medical. However on friday night he was arrested due to warrants from traffic tickets and back up child support payments. Also, they say suspicions of rape. Now he was arrested two months ago for traffic tickets and when he paid the ticket they held him on suspcioins of rape and then they let him go because they said he wasnt the person they were looking for. He's been in jail for three days and I've been calling back and forth and keep hearing different information. Now if he is a rapist there is no question as to whether or not it's over. But, he hasnt been charged as yet and they say he will have to do an id line up to see if he will be picked as the culprit. I'm not sure what to think of this or what to do visa interview wise. Does anyone have any idea how the justice system works in Jamaica? And i really feel like cancelling this petition. I just dont know what to think or feel in this situation.

[Therealworld 90]

At this point you should not marry. You need to get to know him a lot more if you still want to marry him. There is a lot that he did not share with you, and could have cause a problem for you once here in the state. Did you meet this guy on your own. I have been through the process years ago and todate my ex husband has a warrent out for his arrest and order to deport and is of course on the run. The warrent is for threat to do bodily harm. I should have waited and learned a lot more. Years later I am married to a wonderful man who is currently in Jamaica. He was introduced to me by a cousin who I have known here in the states for a couple of years. Also an old fling still a good friend had him checked out and he came up clean. I feel I luck up real good this time. Although I am still very careful testing and questioning him all the time I think this is the one. He has had a lot to prove to me and has done very well. Again please becareful in whatever you decide to do.

[FB14 14]

Most taxi drivers in Jamaica tends to get themselves mixed up with the school children, first to think about the music that they have in their car, most schoolas takes the car with the music, second they like the idea of getting quick cash, but mark this they are some little caniving schoolas out there that will make u think different as well.

You are so right and I've been told this by many. However, I cancelled my petition because I've learned that he was charged for rape and indecent behavior. Thank God I dodged a bullet. Hope his #### rots in jail. Next time I wont be so hasty. You really have to get to know a person before making such a drastic step. i feel very relieved.

[RICARDO4EVA2 194]

You are so right and I've been told this by many. However, I cancelled my petition because I've learned that he was charged for rape and indecent behavior. Thank God I dodged a bullet. Hope his #### rots in jail. Next time I wont be so hasty. You really have to get to know a person before making such a drastic step. i feel very relieved.

That was quick. So he was charged. He's official... Never understood why these men Would rape people.. Sick.

Edited October 25, 2011 by RICARDO4EVA2

[mari&Ryan 93]

You are so right and I've been told this by many. However, I cancelled my petition because I've learned that he was charged for rape and indecent behavior. Thank God I dodged a bullet. Hope his #### rots in jail. Next time I wont be so hasty. You really have to get to know a person before making such a drastic step. i feel very relieved.

You did the right thing and you must feel proud of yourself.

[Stud-Muffin 2]

CHEERS MY FRIEND!!!!!!!!! There could be lots more up his sleeve, don't make any sense to spend any more money, stop,think and listen and you will learn.

[aimeevsgarnette 4]

You are so right and I've been told this by many. However, I cancelled my petition because I've learned that he was charged for rape and indecent behavior. Thank God I dodged a bullet. Hope his #### rots in jail. Next time I wont be so hasty. You really have to get to know a person before making such a drastic step. i feel very relieved.

Seems like you did the right thing! Good thing this happened for you to know who he really is...God works in weird ways sometimes