No divorce decree yet

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It would be very unusual for USCIS or ICE to conduct a home visit when someone is filing to remove conditions with a request for a divorce waiver. Those type of visits are more common when someone is filing jointly with their spouse and USCIS suspects a sham marriage.

i believe the OFFICER was a constable serving him court papers about Child Support.. i don't think it was USCIS/ICE.. thats the way i understand it..

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i believe the OFFICER was a constable serving him court papers about Child Support.. i don't think it was USCIS/ICE.. thats the way i understand it..

My point is, wrt to filing a joint petition, you would only be 'helpful' if you would not mention the separation/pending divorce. Otherwise, he needs a waiver to remove conditions on his own. You telling them the truth that you no longer live together, are separated, and headed for divorce would only result in him getting an RFE asking the final divorce decree. Basically, you being truthful would render you impotent and superfluous to the whole process. So, the only way you could 'help' him in any official capacity would be by lying. Which would be fraud. Do you see what I'm saying?

http://www.uscis.gov/USCIS/Laws/Memoranda/Static_Files_Memoranda/2009/i-751_Filed_%20Prior_Termination_3apr09.pdf. (end of page 2/beginning of page 3)

I suppose you could help by signing a notarized statement attesting to the fact that your marriage was bona fide, although judging from your last paragraph, I don't think that would be entirely truthful.

In an unofficial capacity, you could help by giving him the documents that you have. Or not, since you've changed your mind since he filed for divorce.

I realize this may seem pedantic for you, and I'm sorry you seem to be getting defensive/offended by my posts.... but at the end of the day, things need to be clarified here when they can for the sake of keeping the information here as accurate as possible.

Btw, I'm sorry you're going through this

@skiptex - Yes it was a police officer/process server who arrived at my parents home. My concern was that if he had been using his real address the police would have never been able to skiptrace him to my parents address. I was wondering if USCIS ever checks the residence of people who file to lift conditions alone. The answer I received is probably not. Thank you, you were correct.

@Anita Cocktail : Sorry for getting offended but I've learned some things about this person that were clear misrepresentatins and had I known the truth, I wouldn't have married him. At any rate he will still get an RFE asking for a divorce decree because he just filed the divorce and now needs to wait 6 months before going before a judge and getting a decree. He could had done this differently by filing a timely application and asking for an extension on his greencard until the divorce was finalized. Instead he is choosing to slander my name and has stated that he could take our daughter to Nigeria with him which forced me to reply to the divorce and request child abduction prevention orders be put in place. If he wants to be ugly, I have plenty of ammo to be ugly right back without telling a single lie. I was trying to take the high ground and he is dragging me through the mud. That is why I say I will not help him with anything anymore he can forget it. Let him spend thousands of dollars on a lawyer and a prayer. Either way he has burned his bridges with me and he still needs to prove a good faith marriage. Good luck to him with all of that.

Sorry for blowing up a little. The man just keeps coming at me with chaos and manipulations and now my attitude towards him or anyone who seems to side with him in any way is bad and although I've been doing a good jb of keeping that to myself....it seeps out from time to time.

Thanks for your contribution here.