Difference of Age

[Aztec&Taino 144]

To the OP,

Please let us know if her visa is approved. You should be happy you are a man because if you were a 60 year old woman petitioning for a 21 year old male, your chances of being denied would grow exponentially. Sexism and agism are both real forces in the world. However, your fiancee is luckily from a country where your scenario seems to be quite common. There seems to be an abundance of older male petitioners petitioning younger pinay fiancees...

[Bryan and Isabel 29]

I love Mondays.....

Lmao!

[Philwithlove 17]

I don't want to be offensive but in all honesty the comment below to me is both, racist/jingoistic and corny/rosy-naive at the same time. A lot of different nationals have the ability to love and have family values and the like. So, you think that compared to "other Asian countries" people from the Philippines are better/more trustworthy? What kind of logic is behind this? What kind of warped mind?

I am German, and I consider myself caring, understanding, patient and all those positive things. Maybe that's just in my imagination. Who knows....

I am too old to believe that "love her/him with all your heart" will solve all problems, especially if people differ considerably in one way or another (age, etc.).

that is the reason why i said "i think" means on my opinion as i see it. your comment to mine is your opinion and i respect that.

i said in other asian countries, not in europe where you belong coz i have watched interviews to some migrating koreans in the philippines being interviewed in tv documentary. korean parents were interviewed and asked why they wanted to live in the philippines aside from they wanted their kids to learn english is that they said they wanted to learn the values filipinos have. as you can observe on their koreanovelas too, its easy for them to scold kids by spanking. i have friends who worked in singapore and uae as domestic helpers and they said that their "madams" are abusive to them than their "sir". i am talking based on my observations.some of course like you will not agree.

my american fiance is 18 years older than i am but it has never been an issue because we love each other.

he had american exgfs and he said he doesnt like me to be like them. he likes to live here in the philippines coz he observed how people are polite, loving and understanding here.

i think foreign guys who has a filipina gf or wife will agree.

i think this is no longer about the OP just playing around. it is more of sharing everybody's opinion and its nice to share and talk. relieving stress for waiting our NOA 2

another day close to be with our love ones

[Penguin_ie 5,993]

***** Two topics merged and several posts removed and topic closed as OP has his answer. *****

Edited October 24, 2011 by Penguin_ie

[scotty2009 13]

Whoever said that's a 60 yr old man marrying a 21yr old is being duped?

Come on.

Yeah, the 21 yr old could be looking for a greener pasture, but

the 60 yr old could be looking for a FREE caregiver for the rest of his life

and the

The so called relationship will benefit them both.

No one is being duped.