For All VJ People

[Fandango 1,439]

Offering support doesn't mean walking on eggshells...example:

Person A: our app was denied because we haven't met

Person B: why haven't you met?

Person C: don't be so fkin nosy! it's not your right to know!

Person B: I think you need to go meet your future husband

Person C: YOU.ARE.SUCH.A.B@STARD! *this* is exactly why VJ is such shite lately....WHY CAN'T YOU BE SUPPORTIVE YOU COLD HEARTED AZZHOLE!!!!!!!!

Scenario 2

Person A: Having probbos with my man, and he wants his money back...

Person B: Money for what?

Person C: THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! OFFER SUPPORT OR ** OFF!!!!

I mean, really...

[jordanianprincess 0]

Offering support doesn't mean walking on eggshells...example:

Person A: our app was denied because we haven't met

Person B: why haven't you met?

Person C: don't be so fkin nosy! it's not your right to know!Person B: I think you need to go meet your future husband

Person C: YOU.ARE.SUCH.A.B@STARD! *this* is exactly why VJ is such shite lately....WHY CAN'T YOU BE SUPPORTIVE YOU COLD HEARTED AZZHOLE!!!!!!!!

Scenario 2

Person A: Having probbos with my man, and he wants his money back...

Person B: Money for what?

Person C: THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! OFFER SUPPORT OR ** OFF!!!!

I mean, really...

I agree Besides that we all know the nature of this board....and it's not gonna change. That is exactly why I am very selective about what I post about my personal life here.

That whole scenario reminds of "This is an A & B conversation, C your way out! " Seriously most of the drama is cause by another party and not the OP.

Edited September 22, 2006 by jordanianprincess

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

Offering support doesn't mean walking on eggshells...example:

Person A: our app was denied because we haven't met

Person B: why haven't you met?

Person C: don't be so fkin nosy! it's not your right to know!

Person B: I think you need to go meet your future husband

Person C: YOU.ARE.SUCH.A.B@STARD! *this* is exactly why VJ is such shite lately....WHY CAN'T YOU BE SUPPORTIVE YOU COLD HEARTED AZZHOLE!!!!!!!!

Scenario 2

Person A: Having probbos with my man, and he wants his money back...

Person B: Money for what?

Person C: THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! OFFER SUPPORT OR ** OFF!!!!

I mean, really...

ah lisa's in her usual form today i see

edited cause i made an ooops

Edited September 22, 2006 by charlesandnessa

[JenT 0]

Been out of town on business this week... so glad to see nothing here has changed.

[sarachid 0]

just finished reading this thread.. wow it took a while.. I may not have many blue dots under my name or hearts in them... but I try to only post my questions and answer questions that I may have advise for..... in saying that you ask "why is she posting this then" well now I want one of those hearts in my blue dot

hehehe

its friday... yeahhhhh

Happy Ramadan

[Welshcookie 17]

Offering support doesn't mean walking on eggshells...example:

Person A: our app was denied because we haven't met

Person B: why haven't you met?

Person C: don't be so fkin nosy! it's not your right to know!

Person B: I think you need to go meet your future husband

Person C: YOU.ARE.SUCH.A.B@STARD! *this* is exactly why VJ is such shite lately....WHY CAN'T YOU BE SUPPORTIVE YOU COLD HEARTED AZZHOLE!!!!!!!!

Scenario 2

Person A: Having probbos with my man, and he wants his money back...

Person B: Money for what?

Person C: THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! OFFER SUPPORT OR ** OFF!!!!

I mean, really...

I always love a good summary of events.....

[samir_shannon 0]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

Edited September 22, 2006 by samir_shannon

[jordanianprincess 0]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

and it becomes quite clear why you keep getting suspended. I don't see anyone insulting you so why do you feel the need to jump in here and insult people? The funny thing is that alot of the people that have replied on this thread are not even from the ME/NA forum, they are from OT.

[Ban Hammer 13,334]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

what was it, 2 weeks?

[samir_shannon 0]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

what was it, 2 weeks?

yeah it was for two weeks lol

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

and it becomes quite clear why you keep getting suspended. I don't see anyone insulting you so why do you feel the need to jump in here and insult people? The funny thing is that alot of the people that have replied on this thread are not even from the ME/NA forum, they are from OT.

oh lets see arent you under the title mean girl? hmmmm that alone insults you. jp you can bug off now. cos i am not going to tolerate you mean girls being rude to just about every new person that comes to MENA. just about every last one of you is intolerable of others and rude, so dont come to me about being rude. being rude was bashing my relationship with samir for months and months.

[morocco4ever 63]

How many of you were nervous or scared to go to another country to meet your SO for the first time? well Jabree is very nervous and a frightend young lady. so please offer support and extend a little compassion.

That's why I've asked her if she would like to talk with any Egypt related ladies to hear about our experiences. No answer

btw, I went to Egypt alone for the first time at age 21. It can be done.

how is she supposed to seek you all for comfort if you jump on her?

explain that? you all can mock her or me - all you want I am telling you this is the reason

why the Middle east thread is going to pot.

Have many of you been in a chat room that has Arabic extremists in it? Well I have, and it isn't pretty. I have heard comments like "die americans, death to you all, we will kill your children like you have killed ours, etc. I have also heard similar from Americans directed to them. For the past 8 years I have had a large exposure to Arabic people, so I know these extremists are the minority, but if you had heard these remarks without knowing any good Arabic people I think all of us would be a little intimidated.

Besides, on her post I don't recall her asking for any advice, it was more of an update.

how would you know if you never allowed her the chance to get comfortable with ya?

tell ya this much. she is a very sweet and kind lady. she dont need to be attacked like a lamb in

a den of wolves!

No one is being attacked! Why don't you focus your time on supporting her needs instead telling others how to talk or post!

you can take your OWN advise as well missy! stop trying to tell me how to talk or post. btw,

thanks for proving my point!

I am NOT trying to tell you how to post, its quite the contrary. Take my own advice? You are the one that is hell-bent on giving her support. I feel that I have offered support, in my opinion the truth is the best form of support. If your form of support is well wishing, then so be it thats your choice. When I see people saying things like that I don't make posts to them telling them to be more truthful with the OP, everyone has the right to say what they like, the sooner everyone accepts the sooner the problems will go away. However this patroling of the boards and telling others how to act and to be more supportive is lame. People are who they are and world peace is not going to start in VJ.

For as many people that have come and said that they want VJ to be a more peaceful supportive place. Well since I have been a member it has always been this way, there has always been a clash of opinions and views. I have recieved NUMEROUS pm's from members stating the same thing. Nothing is going to change. I think in any thread, you can expect to see some criticism, well-wishing, facts, and BS. This is the INTERNET not pre-school.

Offering support doesn't mean walking on eggshells...example:

Person A: our app was denied because we haven't met

Person B: why haven't you met?

Person C: don't be so fkin nosy! it's not your right to know!

Person B: I think you need to go meet your future husband

Person C: YOU.ARE.SUCH.A.B@STARD! *this* is exactly why VJ is such shite lately....WHY CAN'T YOU BE SUPPORTIVE YOU COLD HEARTED AZZHOLE!!!!!!!!

Scenario 2

Person A: Having probbos with my man, and he wants his money back...

Person B: Money for what?

Person C: THAT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS!!! OFFER SUPPORT OR ** OFF!!!!

I mean, really...

Hmmmmm.....I don't recall any of the posts quite that way. It reminds me of my daughter when she re-enacts one of our disagreements.....she is such a drama queen.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

what was it, 2 weeks?

yeah it was for two weeks lol

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

and it becomes quite clear why you keep getting suspended. I don't see anyone insulting you so why do you feel the need to jump in here and insult people? The funny thing is that alot of the people that have replied on this thread are not even from the ME/NA forum, they are from OT.

oh lets see arent you under the title mean girl? hmmmm that alone insults you. jp you can bug off now. cos i am not going to tolerate you mean girls being rude to just about every new person that comes to MENA. just about every last one of you is intolerable of others and rude, so dont come to me about being rude. being rude was bashing my relationship with samir for months and months.

I'm not being rude NOR have I insulted you. I never bashed your relationship with Samer I am simply asking you why you came in here swinging today? Call me what you like, I have not called you any names and my questions were quite simple.

[babybunny 2]

Wow look at what i have missed since i was suspended LOL well i see the mean girls tried to took on another victim. micheal, trust me... they like to judge people. they have nothing else better to do. dont worry about it. they are a waste of space.

just tell them like it is mike!

welcome back shannon and your cat!

[dollface41601 0]

Cant we all just get along??? Seriously for the sake of this forum...deep down here somewhere there is endless amounts of knowledge for newbies to browse through....I dont know about the rest of you but when I was the newbie, getting all the help...I knew once i was finished with my visajourney, i would be able to contribute info like others did for me .....And i have tried to do just that. but, i havent even had the chance because there is so much trash going thru here....I felt, and still feel like helping other people get thru immigration hell is my duty, as i know i wouldnt have made it without jacque, lulu, dawn, laura, and everyone else....Use your information, and past experiences for the better ways...this is soooooo old, and tiresome

[Fandango 1,439]

Hmmmmm.....I don't recall any of the posts quite that way. It reminds me of my daughter when she re-enacts one of our disagreements.....she is such a drama queen.

Hyperbole to prove a point obviously........